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Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows "
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice. I will keep them private. I kept them public to prove i'm real and not wasting time here.
I second glance it might not have been a good idea to open the pictures too quick"
I would get some photos of just yourself as unless you are a couple action shots really don’t go down well. Good luck |
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Honestly it depends who you're meeting and why you're there.
Meeting a couple can often be shag and go as they will carry on afterward.
Others might be happy to chat but frankly if your job is done, why stay.
Always do your research - find out from who you are meeting what they expect.
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over a year ago
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We do occasion
We have quite a varied approach to sex and swinging, we enjoy trying lots of different experiences including little scenarios, fuck and go etc
Tabitha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we are having mfm then it's a shag and go situation
Would you pick another situation? would it only be a MFM?"
We play in many different ways, have men blocked on our filter as we dont want bombarding with messages and cock picks. We make contact if we fancy that kind of meet. It's my personal preference for shag and go meets with men, but not with couples or ladies as we enjoy the social side with them
Sorry men
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"If we are having mfm then it's a shag and go situation
Would you pick another situation? would it only be a MFM?
We play in many different ways, have men blocked on our filter as we dont want bombarding with messages and cock picks. We make contact if we fancy that kind of meet. It's my personal preference for shag and go meets with men, but not with couples or ladies as we enjoy the social side with them
Sorry men
Mrs C"
Makes sense suppose most men do want that here not yet seen any women ask for a shag and go |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx"
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways"
Intresting definition ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you have other scenarios that could list. You got my mind wondering what its like from a couples persepctive "
Tons but idk how typical we are! Maybe work out what you would like to try and have that on your profile so that couples can match with you. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Intresting definition "
What's yours? |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
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It's purely down to what the couples want.
I've had meets that have been 10 minutes.
one was just enter room, put cock in her mouth until told otherwise, then just fuck hard, cum and go. No talking at all |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Intresting definition
What's yours?"
I think its differnt for everyone.
My thought was turn up a quick chat (10-15 mins) and start spend a few hours shagging and leaving ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"It's purely down to what the couples want.
I've had meets that have been 10 minutes.
one was just enter room, put cock in her mouth until told otherwise, then just fuck hard, cum and go. No talking at all"
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"It's purely down to what the couples want.
I've had meets that have been 10 minutes.
one was just enter room, put cock in her mouth until told otherwise, then just fuck hard, cum and go. No talking at all
Your a lucky guy "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Intresting definition
What's yours?
I think its differnt for everyone.
My thought was turn up a quick chat (10-15 mins) and start spend a few hours shagging and leaving
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Sounds the same as our definition
I think most may think a different way and say it is a no speaking, get on with it then leave just as quick as they came.
Whatever floats ya boat is good by me |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Intresting definition
What's yours?
I think its differnt for everyone.
My thought was turn up a quick chat (10-15 mins) and start spend a few hours shagging and leaving
Sounds the same as our definition
I think most may think a different way and say it is a no speaking, get on with it then leave just as quick as they came.
Whatever floats ya boat is good by me"
Agree still intresting to hear all views on the topic |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Intresting definition
What's yours?
I think its differnt for everyone.
My thought was turn up a quick chat (10-15 mins) and start spend a few hours shagging and leaving
Sounds the same as our definition
I think most may think a different way and say it is a no speaking, get on with it then leave just as quick as they came.
Whatever floats ya boat is good by me"
Sounds about right to me! |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways"
Fair enough. About 4 hours is my average normal meet. But I've done a couple of just bend over and let him blow his load quickies, one in a hotel and another over a car bonnet. Classy I know. Xx |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Fair enough. About 4 hours is my average normal meet. But I've done a couple of just bend over and let him blow his load quickies, one in a hotel and another over a car bonnet. Classy I know. Xx"
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Fair enough. About 4 hours is my average normal meet. But I've done a couple of just bend over and let him blow his load quickies, one in a hotel and another over a car bonnet. Classy I know. Xx"
Wow was not expecting that ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
Surely you still have to at least say hi, or you could end up giving the amazon guy a tip he did not expect.
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here
Surely you still have to at least say hi, or you could end up giving the amazon guy a tip he did not expect.
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I took the Amazon guys tip |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here
Surely you still have to at least say hi, or you could end up giving the amazon guy a tip he did not expect.
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That would be very funny |
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Can work out one of two ways - either fantastic or disappointing.
The thrill of doing this is great, but if there is no attraction or seems too staged, then, for me, it just doesn't work.
On the other hand, turning up to the hotel room of a sexy couple, getting naked and getting it on, then a polite thanks and see you later, is extremely horny! |
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Fair enough. About 4 hours is my average normal meet. But I've done a couple of just bend over and let him blow his load quickies, one in a hotel and another over a car bonnet. Classy I know. Xx
Wow was not expecting that "
Like is said, I prefer longer and more personal meets. Just done those two fuck and fills, they were still a great laugh though, especially the car meet xx |
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It's what we done in past as spontaneous meet if for extra male to ours we put up on status, after two hours he is going lol as not staying way we prefer but with couples no more planned, so when we was in the kinky mood after few drinks and looking for extra male for MFM well it's fuck then go lol |
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"It's what we done in past as spontaneous meet if for extra male to ours we put up on status, after two hours he is going lol as not staying way we prefer but with couples no more planned, so when we was in the kinky mood after few drinks and looking for extra male for MFM well it's fuck then go lol"
This works well for us too. Always make it very clear when messaging & again on the phone. Works well |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I usually prefer longer meets, but I've done fuck and gos, they're ok sometimes xx
Our shag and go meet lasted over four hours but then my definition of a shag and go meet is meet up to see if everyone gets on, have fun, then go separate ways
Fair enough. About 4 hours is my average normal meet. But I've done a couple of just bend over and let him blow his load quickies, one in a hotel and another over a car bonnet. Classy I know. Xx"
You were both getting what you wanted out of it, this is what it is all about ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
Prefer them.
The reason I club is so I don’t have to stick around haha! |
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I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
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With an attitude like that I wonder why!! Haha
How about, don’t waste the time of women your not attracted too by desperately trying to get a reply, make an effort with your profile and be a bit more cheery!
I know so many single guys who have the exact same odds as you but do perfectly fine ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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"It's what we done in past as spontaneous meet if for extra male to ours we put up on status, after two hours he is going lol as not staying way we prefer but with couples no more planned, so when we was in the kinky mood after few drinks and looking for extra male for MFM well it's fuck then go lol
This works well for us too. Always make it very clear when messaging & again on the phone. Works well"
Exactly only thing Mrs want is face pic to see if attractions because it's not me fucking him lol |
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
With an attitude like that I wonder why!! Haha
How about, don’t waste the time of women your not attracted too by desperately trying to get a reply, make an effort with your profile and be a bit more cheery!
I know so many single guys who have the exact same odds as you but do perfectly fine "
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Yes I’ve done both shag and go as well as longer meets, with some lasting all night, it’s totally down to what the lady/couple are looking for, some couples for example only want a shag and go type meet with a guy, usually as they want to play together after playing with the guy, I’ve had ones where the lady is blindfolded, and I was told not to speak or start conversation, just play with her and
satisfy her, cum and then leave.
I don’t mind either type of meet, both can be a lot of fun. |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
Back in the days.
Fuck and go used to be called socks on meets and socks off if overnight. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high. "
Or maybe its the wedding ring you have on in your profile pic ?
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high.
Or maybe its the wedding ring you have on in your profile pic ?
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That’s why he can only meet during the day |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
Would never. Anyone suggests it . Go find a prostitute they happy to charge shag and go |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here
Would never. Anyone suggests it . Go find a prostitute they happy to charge shag and go"
When i have they have been mutual fun and exactly what both of us wanted at the time, so cant see the issue. |
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high.
Or maybe its the wedding ring you have on in your profile pic ?
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That’s my business and I don’t expect to be judged nor will I judge others. If asked I don’t deny it or hide it. If people are not comfortable then I. respect that and move on. It’s not an excuse to be rude and delete messages. If on profile that people don’t want attached then I would not message common sense |
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high.
Or maybe its the wedding ring you have on in your profile pic ?
That’s why he can only meet during the day "
It’s not I during the night in construction |
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
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Good luck getting a meet after that little outburst!
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"Just generally I send polite messages personalised trying to strike up a conversation (face pic included) but seems the delete button all the time
I do see alot men here maybe its other factors who knows
Maybe they are not keen on your action photos and yes a lot of men so the competition to get meets is high.
Or maybe its the wedding ring you have on in your profile pic ?
That’s my business and I don’t expect to be judged nor will I judge others. If asked I don’t deny it or hide it. If people are not comfortable then I. respect that and move on. It’s not an excuse to be rude and delete messages. If on profile that people don’t want attached then I would not message common sense"
It's not rude to delete an unsolicited message, it's in the site FAQs. An unwelcome message is junk mail, and will often be treated as such. |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here "
Done them but they aren’t my kind of meets anymore as I prefer a bit of a connection and cheeky chat in between fucks. Prefer taking it easy than a 20 mins bang and go x
Unless the guy is extremely attractive then I May turn a blind eye lol |
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"Hi all just wanted to get everyones view on shag and go meets ?
It's somthing thats crossing my mind as not many are talking on the site here
Would never. Anyone suggests it . Go find a prostitute they happy to charge shag and go
When i have they have been mutual fun and exactly what both of us wanted at the time, so cant see the issue."
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I don't know why but I keep thinking of shake n vac.
Did a shag n go night at a TV girls place. Lights out front door open individual guys came upstairs and fucked us. Very exciting but knackering.
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
With an attitude like that I wonder why!! Haha
How about, don’t waste the time of women your not attracted too by desperately trying to get a reply, make an effort with your profile and be a bit more cheery!
I know so many single guys who have the exact same odds as you but do perfectly fine "
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
Good luck getting a meet after that little outburst!
Natural selection at its finest "
Typed like a true keyboard warrior you must so proud thinking that quip up
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
Good luck getting a meet after that little outburst!
Natural selection at its finest
Typed like a true keyboard warrior you must so proud thinking that quip up
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Everyone has their opinion on why people are successful on here. The one thing guaranteed not to work is insulting your target audience and making it even smaller.
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
Good luck getting a meet after that little outburst!
Natural selection at its finest
Typed like a true keyboard warrior you must so proud thinking that quip up
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Everyone has their opinion on why people are successful on here. The one thing guaranteed not to work is insulting your target audience and making it even smaller.
You're doing nature's work yourself, it's you who deserves the praise!"
My comment was a generalisation and not directed at any particular person unlike your comment there is a difference |
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"I get the impression on this site that if you are not a young buff well hung guy you are lucky to get a drink and go never mind a shag and go
Since the ratio of men to woman is huge there are woman you wouldnt even look at in a pub dont even give you a hello back
With an attitude like that I wonder why!! Haha
How about, don’t waste the time of women your not attracted too by desperately trying to get a reply, make an effort with your profile and be a bit more cheery!
I know so many single guys who have the exact same odds as you but do perfectly fine
You tell him "
Hahahha just seen this!
You being one of them ha x |
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But getting back to the question, definitely our preference so far, but always prepared to try other ideas. As long as it’s a group thing. Happy for the guys to wait around for round 2 rather than go! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are not in to meet first socially and constant chatting via email, life's to short..we arrange a meet and get on with it and then move on....Best way..we have plenty of friends outside of swinging for socialising and so on...But I suppose that works for us because we mainly meet Males and not now very often meet couples. |
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"We are not in to meet first socially and constant chatting via email, life's to short..we arrange a meet and get on with it and then move on....Best way..we have plenty of friends outside of swinging for socialising and so on...But I suppose that works for us because we mainly meet Males and not now very often meet couples."
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
We’ve tried everything from meeting for a social then playing on the second meeting a week later to picking a guy up from a agreed spot, playing in the car and dropping him back.
We’re starting to prefer the more brief one as the awkward conversations afterwards are avoided. |
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"We are not in to meet first socially and constant chatting via email, life's to short..we arrange a meet and get on with it and then move on....Best way..we have plenty of friends outside of swinging for socialising and so on...But I suppose that works for us because we mainly meet Males and not now very often meet couples."
With time constraints people have these days seen many wanting more playtime and less chat, years ago most couples wanted to get a drink and then play if clicked now less so. |
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