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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Had about 6 social meets cancelled at short notice this year. Puts me off arranging anything. Think I will just stick to clubs and parties."
Think meeting in clubs would possibly cut down on 99.9% of these types of post. |
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"Had about 6 social meets cancelled at short notice this year. Puts me off arranging anything. Think I will just stick to clubs and parties."
Love to meet you because I know that you wouldn't cancel x |
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By *lina75Couple
over a year ago
dublin |
We had a guy who kept texting us for months and was very pushy. I did answer his messages time to time and tried to tell him nicely we are not interested to meet him. One day I was really annoyed and asked him to live us alone. He called us a time wasters. Are we? |
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"You will allway get them on a site like this just dont let it spoil it for genuine people as there are lots on here too"
Oh I know there are plenty of genuine people here,time wasters just really annoy me |
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"We had a guy who kept texting us for months and was very pushy. I did answer his messages time to time and tried to tell him nicely we are not interested to meet him. One day I was really annoyed and asked him to live us alone. He called us a time wasters. Are we? "
No he clearly doesn't hear the word no often enough. I actually agreed to meet this couple tonight and they no showed completly |
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Fantasists that just want sexy chat and to see your photos. They'll very happily give you the false impression that they want to meet then dissappear or give repeated excuses when you try to fix a date. We've had a bucket full of them since starting this profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with too much time on their hands. Someone said above, fantasists who are too scared to follow through.
I just don't understand what people get out of doing it
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
I had one who strung me along with a series of messages that started contradicting each other, starting with claiming that he and his wife were on their way to meet me, then it was he was picking her up from work, then he was going to tell her when she got in the car.... In the end, I told him to fuck off and blocked him. |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"Had about 6 social meets cancelled at short notice this year. Puts me off arranging anything. Think I will just stick to clubs and parties."
Someone had the chance to meet you and they cancelled? Sounds like a right moron. I wouldn't have passed up the chance.  |
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"We had a guy who kept texting us for months and was very pushy. I did answer his messages time to time and tried to tell him nicely we are not interested to meet him. One day I was really annoyed and asked him to live us alone. He called us a time wasters. Are we? "
Not at all, you told him you weren't interested and he spat his dummy out
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Ultimately they do it because they can. They most likely get a kick out of it knowing that they have found some gullible person into believing they are genuine and want to meet them. It the thrill of the chase. |
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Never had it but I grill potentials down to the bare bones lol but 99% users on here are fantasist or fakes so they have no intention on meeting anyone when they join they just want users to rate their 100 crappo pics to build their confidence and become depressed keyboardist trolls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah most time wasters just enjoy the thrill and the chat. That's why I think it's best to arrange a social first with no real expectations for sex. If they can't meet for a social they ain't gonna meet for sex so best to block and move on. |
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I'm happy to chat even if it doesn't go anywhere, and I don't consider that wasting my time. I don't do sex chat though (you'd find it incredibly hard to wank to a conversation with me!), so if that's what someone is looking for they soon get bored and wander off.
To me someone wastes my time when we actually agree a day and time to meet and then they either cancel at an hour's notice or stand me up. Bloody annoying and results in a block (although I do quite like to see if I'm going to be given a cheesy excuse or just ghosted!).
It happens a lot and it pisses me off every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is anyone really surprised by any of this? maybe Sydney University will finally crunch their numbers and discover that probably less than 10% are genuine and many of them understandably fickle at times...as you were until the next thread on the topic.. |
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We had 4 different nights arranged from middle of June to middle of July and all 4 were postponed for one reason or another! We only arrange things after we have chatted a while so couldn’t believe our bad luck on each occasion. Obviously vanilla life comes first but it does leave you feeling deflated after so much preparation has gone in up to that point 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keyboard swingers. It's easy to be the big Dom, kink lovin, sex god on line ... Less easy in real life. Plus, they probably have had post cum clarity by then and are back to being straight laced and vanilla ... |
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It's so easy to join and contribute to FAB.
You can promise, lie and say about everything in between.
Do agree with other comments regarding using clubs and parties to find genuine folks.
We've had a few idiots, not many as we arrange to meet initially for a social drink in a pub, if they don't show, we've had a nice evening in the pub.
Usually, we don't bother with newbies, people who have been on over 6 months with no meets and those who want to talk dirty.
The over 6 months with no meets is a problem at present but it will sort itself out.
Swingers holidays in Gran Canaria and Cap D'Agde are the ultimate place to meet real swingers.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think the use of ''timewater'' on fab is way over used... most use it even when politely told no thanks..
cant remember the last timewaster i had i suspect its because we dont fall for the idiots and block |
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"Had about 6 social meets cancelled at short notice this year. Puts me off arranging anything. Think I will just stick to clubs and parties.
Love to meet you because I know that you wouldn't cancel x"
I never cancel something that is planned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a hotel meet planned with a guy and had two back ups on standby
Guy never showed messaged first back up no show second back up no show
When your in a hotel room in just your lingerie and 3 separate guys don’t turn up in one night for basically free sex it really smashes your confidence we nearly packed it all in there and then
Fortunately we were introduced to the clubs after that and that’s mainly where we meet now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a hotel meet planned with a guy and had two back ups on standby
Guy never showed messaged first back up no show second back up no show
When your in a hotel room in just your lingerie and 3 separate guys don’t turn up in one night for basically free sex it really smashes your confidence we nearly packed it all in there and then
Fortunately we were introduced to the clubs after that and that’s mainly where we meet now "
totally get the confidence knock part! It’s couples for me that always end up letting me down ( guessing it’s guys blagging).... just gotta hope eventually a few genuine ones turn up that you can get something regular with that u trust. That would make my blood boil tbh booking a hotel and being let down x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they do it. After years on this site it still baffles me"
Then you've had years of practice to see the signs....
Did you miss them and are there new signs for us to know about?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a hotel meet planned with a guy and had two back ups on standby
Guy never showed messaged first back up no show second back up no show
When your in a hotel room in just your lingerie and 3 separate guys don’t turn up in one night for basically free sex it really smashes your confidence we nearly packed it all in there and then
Fortunately we were introduced to the clubs after that and that’s mainly where we meet now totally get the confidence knock part! It’s couples for me that always end up letting me down ( guessing it’s guys blagging).... just gotta hope eventually a few genuine ones turn up that you can get something regular with that u trust. That would make my blood boil tbh booking a hotel and being let down x"
This was early on of being on here our radar is much better now lol
Funnily two of the guys then messaged few months later trying to get a meet obviously forgetting who they messaged and let down you can imagine their answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they do it. After years on this site it still baffles me
Then you've had years of practice to see the signs....
Did you miss them and are there new signs for us to know about?
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about 85% are wolves in sheep clothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they do it. After years on this site it still baffles me
Then you've had years of practice to see the signs....
Did you miss them and are there new signs for us to know about?
about 85% are wolves in sheep clothing "
Oo strange one. I've already sussed them after three messages... |
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"Why do they do it. After years on this site it still baffles me
Then you've had years of practice to see the signs....
Did you miss them and are there new signs for us to know about? I added a meet to my profile for that night and so did they I answered there's we got chatting, they said they were leaving and would see me soon, that's the last I heard
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a couples perspective we often receive messages like "Can meet now"!
We often receive messages, "How are you" or "Great Profile".
Essentially, no effort whatsoever.
Men here need to know that many couples are fussy, they are not going to shag anything based upon a couple of effortless comments.
So from our experience, there is a complete lack of effort from 99% of men.
If someone really wants to meet us for something meaningful, then they have to make effort!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had two social meets a four hour round trip. Nothing happened in the bedroom but I made a fab friend which is nice. If I arrange I always show unless I have a very good reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had lots of time wasters and messers in the thirteen or so years I've had on here.
Males always seem the poor relation when it comes to naming and shaming though.
I've had couples and females let me down as much as males.
You share photos with a couple or female and get flirty and promises are made and they no show for whatever reason that seems to be okay.
I've had one or two occasions were I've had to duck out, been massively apologetic and given plenty of notice etc and been called a time waster.
Fabs is great but clubs are better. |
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"We had a guy who kept texting us for months and was very pushy. I did answer his messages time to time and tried to tell him nicely we are not interested to meet him. One day I was really annoyed and asked him to live us alone. He called us a time wasters. Are we? "
Not if u made it clear from the beginning that u wasn’t interested |
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So far this year we have had seven home meets planned with new contacts Three have actually turned up Non have been followed up.
Meeting inside a club takes a lot of the chance out of the equation.
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