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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we have had a break , my wife says she thinks its wrong going with other people, which after a while took me by suprise because she has had plenty of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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was hoping to try and get a chance to have a chat when no kids are about to see if i could shed any light on the matter , i mean at one time there didnt seamto be a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too just think that the only person that can tell you is your wife , you have to very close as a couple to enjoy swinging so you should be able to sit down and find out why she now has these feelings
For her to say its wrong to swing must mean that something has happened that only she can tell you about and not somebody here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well i think your wright, when a get a chance and see whats gone wrong and ile post a reply, i came on here to get another ladys point of view and im glad i did thanks to you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my wife seams to lost intrest in swinging how can i get her back into it as i love the lifesyle"
Please, please - remember that your first loyalty must be to your wife, not to the lifestyle.
If something is wrong then you need to help her to talk about it. Something might have upset her that might sound trivial on the face of it, but which has really changed her feelings. She might find it difficult to talk about it so please just let her feel safe about it...
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And don't let your feelings colour the conversation. You very obviously enjoy the lifestyle, if something (which may seem minor) has affected her then try not to make her feel like she is ruining things for you.
I have played with couples where it has become obvious that one half is not happy. The destructiveness of that is why I no longer play with couples.  |
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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago
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i to whent of swinging for 2 years just did not want it takeing over our life plus i did put whight on did not feel good about my self still whent to the clubs as we still have friends that swing mr was very good about it we started agine about 18 months ago when we was in a club one night with a single guy that was it back into it not looking back yet haveing to much fun agine all i can say it dont force her she may come back to it  |
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