I have just been asked to meet up with a woman I've been chatting too (and teased) for a while. She gave me her address and so I got a taxi across town. When I arrived at the address she gave me she wouldn't answer her phone , text or inbox message , is it jut me or has anyone else experienced this?
Are there any genuine swingers out there? Xxx |
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over a year ago
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That's awful!! And it's single men that get the bad name!! I never give out my address u til about half hour before the meet, mind you I've never had a bad experience yet, touch wood xx |
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over a year ago
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Happened to us as well! We drive quite a way on a hot sunny day for a meet, mrs buff dressed like a whore, lol, only to be totally blanked when we got there!
Needless to say we reported him!
Ended up having a pub grub! Mrs B got a few looks from guys at the pub to say the least! |
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Thanks for the supportive messages means alot, it is hard enough as a single male ESP with stigma that comes along with it.
I find it frustrating trying to meet genuine swingers on here lately as alot of the males are not swingers and just want easy lays  oh well comes with the territory I suppose. X |
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over a year ago
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Happened to me too. Had a 60 mile drive for the same result. She gave me the postcode for her street and said to call for the house number when I arrived. Texts, messages, calls right up until the point i turn up. At least it was the company's fuel I used.
And single guys get the bad rep. |
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
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Might be worth reading the tips for safe meeting from the FAQ:
www.fabswingers.com/faq
Do you have any tips for safe meeting?
Don't forget that the only person responsible for your safety is you, so don't put yourself in a situation where a stranger can let you down. These are some tips to help:
* Don't give strangers your home phone number, your usual mobile number or your address or let them know where you work. Buy a spare PAYG SIM for your mobile and use it for initial contacts.
* Don't rely on strangers for transport, so don't agree to go somewhere in a car with someone you don't know.
* Don't turn up to strange addresses without having met the people you're expecting, first, beforehand.
* Always meet first somewhere safe and public (a cafe) first.
* Always tell someone you trust who you're going to meet, and where.
* Don't arrange meets without having spoken to the people you're expecting to meet first on phone OR on seen on cam.
* Don't invite strangers into your home.
* Don't put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn't turn up, you'll be upset. So don't travel 100s of miles and book into a hotel in the expectation of meeting someone unless you've met them beforehand.
Attending an organised social or a swinging club meet is a good place to start.
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