Had it a few times this week..
Single guys assuming that if I am on here and am in a relationship, the sex must be crap and I'm looking for better....
I find this attitude awful.. as for a start if there was something wrong with my sex life at home.. I'd not be on here trying to fix anything.
2ndly it takes reading the first line of my profile to realise I'm here socially and for the forums currently.
Is this a common assumption.. ?
Or is this true in some situations.
Thanks. |
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"Had it a few times this week..
Single guys assuming that if I am on here and am in a relationship, the sex must be crap and I'm looking for better....
I find this attitude awful.. as for a start if there was something wrong with my sex life at home.. I'd not be on here trying to fix anything.
2ndly it takes reading the first line of my profile to realise I'm here socially and for the forums currently.
Is this a common assumption.. ?
Or is this true in some situations.
Thanks."
I think true swingers have no assumptions whatever they have conversations to understand peoples needs. There are the guys who are just on here for sex, titillation and general idiots but the real swingers are polite and respectful I've found. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
There are a lot of assumptions made in this lifestyle.....
As a swinging party host, I have a LOT of people (not just men) assume that at my parties I fuck or perform sexual favours for most, if not all of my customers!!
Erm no! I'm a host, I organise it and spend the evening welcoming guests and chatting to people! 
But you do know OP, that if we are on here we must all be desperate to fuck right?!   |
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"Had it a few times this week..
Single guys assuming that if I am on here and am in a relationship, the sex must be crap and I'm looking for better....
I find this attitude awful.. as for a start if there was something wrong with my sex life at home.. I'd not be on here trying to fix anything.
2ndly it takes reading the first line of my profile to realise I'm here socially and for the forums currently.
Is this a common assumption.. ?
Or is this true in some situations.
Thanks.
I think true swingers have no assumptions whatever they have conversations to understand peoples needs. There are the guys who are just on here for sex, titillation and general idiots but the real swingers are polite and respectful I've found."
I second this, the "genuine" community are accommodating to people's reasons for being here. It sounds like you're bring approached by the guys that see fab as another tinder |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Your profile clearly explains everything anyone needs to know, and takes about a minute to read - so they either don't read it, or they can't actually process what they've just read.
It's frustrating, but you have to feel sorry for them, the wanking zombies |
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"Had it a few times this week..
Single guys assuming that if I am on here and am in a relationship, the sex must be crap and I'm looking for better....
I find this attitude awful.. as for a start if there was something wrong with my sex life at home.. I'd not be on here trying to fix anything.
2ndly it takes reading the first line of my profile to realise I'm here socially and for the forums currently.
Is this a common assumption.. ?
Or is this true in some situations.
Thanks."
The assuming the sex must be crap thing is quite common. I see a lot of threads started by men who are having sexual problems in their relationships who truly believe that the answer is for their wife to start having sex with other men. I suppose they're just guessing that's what you're doing.
I've never understood it myself really. It's like trying to mend a broken leg by walking on it. |
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"There are a lot of assumptions made in this lifestyle.....
As a swinging party host, I have a LOT of people (not just men) assume that at my parties I fuck or perform sexual favours for most, if not all of my customers!!
Erm no! I'm a host, I organise it and spend the evening welcoming guests and chatting to people!
But you do know OP, that if we are on here we must all be desperate to fuck right?! "
oh obviously we are all here just for the sex. I dont think my verifications help when I'm claiming not meeting at present lol.
And I know where your coming from with the hosting issues. As when I've hosted I never play at all. Its about looking after everyone else. |
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