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Couples who regularly look at your profile but never contact you!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So how many of you constantly find couples/individuals viewing your profile but not a wink or hint of a message leaving you questioning the reason behind it all! |
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I mean, is it really such a mystery? Sometimes folks just like a good perv. There's loads of couples we find attractive, but either we aren't currently looking to meet (real life is a bitch), or they're a bit more vanilla than we'd like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened to us with one couple literally looking at us two or three times a day for AGES!
We sent them a message saying hello, asking questions etc… got no reply but the continued to look and like our stuff  |
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By *urtleJRCouple
over a year ago
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"I mean, is it really such a mystery? Sometimes folks just like a good perv. There's loads of couples we find attractive, but either we aren't currently looking to meet (real life is a bitch), or they're a bit more vanilla than we'd like. "
Agree with above. Usually, we're not meeting or probably won't be for a few weeks, but would still like to nose at potential profiles, or one (or both) of us liked the pictures and wanted to see more - even if we likely wouldn't meet. |
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Once I realize a profile is looking at mine multiple times a day I will say hi, if they don't read or reply in 24hrs I block... had enough of seeing those profiles in my list and 90% of the time am inclined to believe it's just a single guy with pics of his unknowing wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few reasons why I'd be visiting a profile without contacting them.
Most likely is I'm looking to see if I have already contacted them or if not is there anything in their profile that would mean they wouldn't be interested (facial hair etc.)
Or I really fancy them and don't want to blow the one and only chance of making contact with a shit message, so I am trying to think of the perfect way to introduce myself.
Or, I think they are well out of my league, and I'm plucking up the courage to send that first message.
Or a tragic combination of all of this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple doing that.
They send s friend request but their profile is hidden.
I did message them but got no reply so I guess their not interested (no response = no interest as per site rules) |
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"As well as reasons already given, often we just can't remember - some of the avatars and names are pretty bland.
But several times a day for days? That is odd. "
I've blocked at least 50 profiles that have looked at my profile 10+ times a day, before I became so strict about blocking I would say hi and leave it unread and generally auto deleted by them only to see them back on the viewed me list.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And this is why so many women and couples browse in  mode.
They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.
Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.
I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.
If they want to get in touch, they will
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"And this is why so many women and couples browse in mode.
They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.
Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.
I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.
If they want to get in touch, they will
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Did you look at that menu every day on the hour 7-13 hours a day for a week Before you binned it?
I tend to find after the 2nd or 3rd time I know what's on the menu and if I wanted anything from it would have made contact with the restaurant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once I realize a profile is looking at mine multiple times a day I will say hi, if they don't read or reply in 24hrs I block... had enough of seeing those profiles in my list and 90% of the time am inclined to believe it's just a single guy with pics of his unknowing wife "
Maybe you are right. Never thought of it like that before |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And this is why so many women and couples browse in mode.
They may hace viewed your profile once and then come back to it to remind themselves what was on it, or why they hadn't contacted you the first time.
Think about it, no-one is going to know if tgey might want to meet you until they've looked at your profile, so just becayse someone's looked, doesn't mean they're interested.
I had a quick glance at a takeaway menu that had been posted tgrough my door the other day, before I threw it in the bin.
If they want to get in touch, they will
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:- absolutely agree with what your saying but if I look twice at beef chop suey it’s because I’m flirting with the idea of eating number 44 on the menu so eventually I’ll place that order not just browse it for the next couple of days and die of starvation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Strangely one couple who have posted on this thread regularly look at us. Send a message and we’re sure we can take it further  "
Please do and let us know what the outcome is x |
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We are definitely guilty of this at times sometimes it’s because one of us has seen your profile and then we want to show the other one, other times we are looking to see your pictures, it might be we aren’t looking to meet due to vanilla life etc… but most of the time if we check out your profile a few times in the same day it’s probably because we find it a great profile.
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"So how many of you constantly find couples/individuals viewing your profile but not a wink or hint of a message leaving you questioning the reason behind it all! "
It browsing just because you don't receive anything it might be that your not what they are looking for I get couple's viewing and either they make contact or I do but those who don't tick my boxes I don't Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry for random message, quick couple questions.. how do you approach couples as a single man? And secondly if I have no experience going to events or parties, how can I get involved? Because of the amount of sleazes on here, it makes it impossible to even get a initial conversation.. rant over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? "
. A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience.
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"We are definitely guilty of this at times sometimes it’s because one of us has seen your profile and then we want to show the other one, other times we are looking to see your pictures, it might be we aren’t looking to meet due to vanilla life etc… but most of the time if we check out your profile a few times in the same day it’s probably because we find it a great profile.
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"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? . A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience. "
yeh your not wrong! I do not understand why blokes post in forums asking how to get women on here??? Thats a desperate sign straight away! Yes there is more guys than women and alot of men iv heard are vile to women if there not interested so yeh we all get tied with the same brush. But come on....not every male or female is gonna everyone's type. Just go with the flow. There wil be women interested haha
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? . A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience. yeh your not wrong! I do not understand why blokes post in forums asking how to get women on here??? Thats a desperate sign straight away! Yes there is more guys than women and alot of men iv heard are vile to women if there not interested so yeh we all get tied with the same brush. But come on....not every male or female is gonna everyone's type. Just go with the flow. There wil be women interested haha "
it’s not I’m desperate at all mate. Not even close... I just joined this site to meet like minded ppl and on same page.. I can happily accept not being someone’s cup of tea but not even getting a response based on the fact you Havnt slept with 10 woman is bizarre. I’ve had plenty interest but not from who I want. Anyway lockdown ain’t helped I suppose
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's weird innit? Like lately there's a couple in another country who viewed my profile about 10 times over two days. I go to message them but my sex is blocked.
It's nice to be perved on, don't get me wrong. Talking would be even better. Maybe I have a booger in one of the photos, idk? |
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"Why do you care?? You check people out to see if there what your looking for and people check you out. Why does it bother you if they don't contact?? . A lot of egos on here. Because the ridiculous proportion of male to female.. it seems a lot of people on their high horse. This isn’t a dig at anyone. Just my experience. yeh your not wrong! I do not understand why blokes post in forums asking how to get women on here??? Thats a desperate sign straight away! Yes there is more guys than women and alot of men iv heard are vile to women if there not interested so yeh we all get tied with the same brush. But come on....not every male or female is gonna everyone's type. Just go with the flow. There wil be women interested haha it’s not I’m desperate at all mate. Not even close... I just joined this site to meet like minded ppl and on same page.. I can happily accept not being someone’s cup of tea but not even getting a response based on the fact you Havnt slept with 10 woman is bizarre. I’ve had plenty interest but not from who I want. Anyway lockdown ain’t helped I suppose "
wasn't aimed at you mate at all just in general
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