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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
And did you report them to admin?  |
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By *stoppMan
over a year ago
Durham |
"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues.
And did you report them to admin? "
Reporting anyone to admin merely gets you blocked from seeing their profile. I reported stolen pics once on here, I was instantly blocked from seeing the offending profile yet a friend could still view the pics and profile for months after.. so doubt they’d be taken off Fab for the sake of keeping up the numbers.. |
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"Unfortunately that's all we seem to attract   "
I'm making the assumption as your profile is 3 weeks old and it doesn't say you've been here before that you're new to Fab.
The fake couples profile prey on inexperienced newbies. You'll spot them easily enough eventually, you'll develope a tingle-like spider sense when their mail drops in your inbox .
Of course if you're not new to Fab, please ignore all of the above.
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Yup.
I have known of a man pretending to be part of a couple going as far as to arrange an actual meet,
then arrive alone to claim "wifey isn't well today, but now I'm here.... how about a shag anyway?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can usually tell most of the time. The type of men who are sad enough to do that sort of thing have a very specific way of talking when there's nobody to reign them in and it becomes quite obvious.
Certainly something you learn over time though, which makes it difficult for newbies and probably puts a lot of them off if they experience it early on :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have known of a man pretending to be part of a couple going as far as to arrange an actual meet,
then arrive alone to claim "wifey isn't well today, but now I'm here.... how about a shag anyway?"
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Heard this before too. Hasn’t happened to us thankfully but a quick phone call with both before travel and a social first helps. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"We are the opposite!
Ours is 100% us and genuine but all we seem to be finding is fake single female profiles  "
We're real too.....but we don't get contacted by any single female profiles, not even fake ones! |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues.
And did you report them to admin?
Reporting anyone to admin merely gets you blocked from seeing their profile. I reported stolen pics once on here, I was instantly blocked from seeing the offending profile yet a friend could still view the pics and profile for months after.. so doubt they’d be taken off Fab for the sake of keeping up the numbers.."
I have noticed the instant block after reporting I don't think they should be allowed to do that I should be allowed to make my own decisions to block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
yep. All the time.
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands.
There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself. "
We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time |
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Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands.
There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself.
We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on. "
We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising. |
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands.
There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself.
We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time "
Those who are lonenly, desperate, sad and have little else in their lives for whatever reason.
To be fair but not to excuse deception, some people have really shitty lives (maybe even through no fault of their own) and it's their easy, cheap, 'outlet'. That might explain it.
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get"
Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha |
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"Far to many people with too much time on there hands.
There is a lot of so called straight men on here who are cock suckers. My response I can do that myself.
We REALLY don’t understand who has that much spare time on their hands to sit behind a screen just wasting time
Those who are lonenly, desperate, sad and have little else in their lives for whatever reason.
To be fair but not to excuse deception, some people have really shitty lives (maybe even through no fault of their own) and it's their easy, cheap, 'outlet'. That might explain it.
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That's actually quite kind. Ye lots of couples by me are blokes who like showing off censored pics of the wife and want younto tribite them but always post statuses saying mrs is looking for someone to play with the mr. Its v desperate and sad in a tragic way |
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on.
We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising."
Yes 100%! We are pretty new to this but quickly learnt to ask via Kik etc for a quick photo / video of them doing something specific just to prove it’s not some weirdo with a load of pictures saved on their hard drive! Amazing how quickly they totally stop responding!!! |
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on.
We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising."
Yes. They may be real couple and it's ok for anyone to fantasise as long as that doesn't extend to lying about their intentions and stringing other people along to get something else. If that's their game they're far harder to detect but my guess would be that there are relatively few genuine couples who are timewasters here. More often, it's either a single guy or the male half of a couple (in which the female has no knowledge or interest), pretending to be a real swinging couple.
Of course, refusing to chat/cam doesn't in itself make anyone guilty of anything but for us it would ring a big alarm bell and we'd walk away at that point, especially if all they wanted to do was exchange filty messages.
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We get a lot of couples profile where it is only ever the guy chatting and says the wife doesn’t come on much. I suspect they are a genuine couple a lot of the time but the woman doesn’t know they have a profile or her pics are all over here.
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By *nG Blackburn OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately that's all we seem to attract
I'm making the assumption as your profile is 3 weeks old and it doesn't say you've been here before that you're new to Fab.
The fake couples profile prey on inexperienced newbies. You'll spot them easily enough eventually, you'll develope a tingle-like spider sense when their mail drops in your inbox .
Of course if you're not new to Fab, please ignore all of the above.
Frank"
Frank ... No we are not new to Fab . Just seems certain areas of the UK think it's OK to Con people |
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By *dRocMan
over a year ago
St Helens |
There are so many fake couples profiles now it's getting out of hand.
As previous posters have said after a while they're pretty easy to out after chatting for a bit.
I try to go for profiles that are site supporters, photo verified and have verifications. That cuts a lot of them out.
Don't let it put you off |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
Weve found the same there are alot about but when they have fake veri's they do look real its only when you chat and pick through the profile you see what they are. Its annoying and alot only want pictures or to meet as a single M |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit that our couples profile is mainly my partner messaging most of the time but it’s my photos on our profile
We haven’t been on here long and I’m still getting to grips with it, adding photos and actually checking it!
We are 100% genuine though 
Maybe this is the reason we don’t here from many other couples, just get bombarded by single men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yip
The most recent was yesterday
A 'couple' who had been on fab for over a year
No verifications shown on the profile..but that doesn't mean they've not met
Not photo verified..again not every genuine couple is but a major thing for most people as its so easy to do
Can't accommodate..again not every genuine couple can
The message was the 'straight' male wanting to suck my cock
But it didn't seem right to me
I don't get many messages from couples but I do think I can judge the genuine from the fake
And yesterday ticked every box of a sad single male guy wanking off
Block and ignore for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex has a couple profile on here with her new fella and have been accused several times of being fake. I just cannot understand what guys are hoping to achieve by having fake accounts. |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Yes have come across quite a few. Not a lot you can do about it, if you report them and they get banned they just set up a new profile under different names. |
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"I have to admit that our couples profile is mainly my partner messaging most of the time but it’s my photos on our profile
We haven’t been on here long and I’m still getting to grips with it, adding photos and actually checking it!
We are 100% genuine though
Maybe this is the reason we don’t here from many other couples, just get bombarded by single men "
You will always get many more messages from men. Once you get chatting to couples you can usually tell. We often ask to move to kik as it’s easy enough for both to have an account and we can chat as a four. Could still be one person I guess but I’m sure you would soon tell. If people aren’t sure they can always arrange a phone call or a quick video call. If people want to get to know you there are ways to check if you are genuine. Once you get a verification it will help a lot. Good luck x |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
Where the streets have no name |
"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Many times. "Couples" wanting a Bimmf and in the last minute "unfortunately" the lady cannot play  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
What 'issues'? It's not a new thing.
They want a wank and couples send pics and wank chat. Can't blame them for having fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on.
We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising.
Yes. They may be real couple and it's ok for anyone to fantasise as long as that doesn't extend to lying about their intentions and stringing other people along to get something else. If that's their game they're far harder to detect but my guess would be that there are relatively few genuine couples who are timewasters here. More often, it's either a single guy or the male half of a couple (in which the female has no knowledge or interest), pretending to be a real swinging couple.
Of course, refusing to chat/cam doesn't in itself make anyone guilty of anything but for us it would ring a big alarm bell and we'd walk away at that point, especially if all they wanted to do was exchange filty messages.
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We've had a lot of 'couples' who turn out to be the guy carrying on after the woman has stopped or left or has no idea in the first place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues.
Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes."
Ruin it for the rest of us!! |
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By *dRocMan
over a year ago
St Helens |
"Yeeeeeep!! Loads. I always try and cross reference verifications,"
This as well. Cross referencing veris where the only veri is a single guy. That's the guy who set up the couples profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think part of the problem is we give people the benefit of the doubt.
We hope this time something may come of it so we engage with them ultimately to be disappointed.
Lots use the forum have fake pics of display and it's wise to reserve search them.
in my experience this is mostly men I'm sad to say which doesn't do good guys any favours.
All you can do is not take it to heart, you've done nothing wrong and I know the frustration with it and wanting to meet exciting people. But with anything in life their is a risk.
Good hunting everyone
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get
Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha"
If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that |
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"Yeeeeeep!! Loads. I always try and cross reference verifications,
This as well. Cross referencing veris where the only veri is a single guy. That's the guy who set up the couples profile lol "
You knowsssss it! |
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get
Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha
If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that "
It’s not even the Insult that hurts it’s the absolute lack of originality if anything this is a sex site if you have no imagination or creativity then your in the wrong place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea one guy tried asking me do I want a bj told him no the abuse I got lol I feel for the ladies if that’s what they get
Well i got called a state and Fat ride this morning from a guy asking for a bj hahahaha
If it ain’t hard enough for us blokes we get knobs like that "
Not really in a position to be passing your opinion on other blokes being knobs are you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues.
Welcome to fab, I would say at least half of them are fake. Always saying "Mrs at work, playing alone" assholes.
Ruin it for the rest of us!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had 2 awful experiences with couples 1 black mailing me and another really bad social with the hubby pressurising me to make a move, it really made me take a step back from meeting but certainly understand you can’t take past experiences into future connections. So many on here seem such lovely people and I’m taking time on the forums to get to know some from a distance and can only hope our paths cross sometime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There does seem to be a lot of fake profiles, we got accused of being fake because we wouldn't video chat someone we wasn't interested in meeting.
I am getting good at spotting the single men pretending to be a couple.
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Yeah we have had this problem a lot and have had other issues. What we had to do was either the females speak on the phone together or do the random thing in a photo with the female. Regarding Kik we had to dump the accounts for both of us as some of the male half’s of the couple kept trying to meet separately. It’s a case of the minority ruining it for the majority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah its pretty rife on here OP, along with faux single female profiles as well tbh ... just chalk it up , bin it/block it and move on is the way forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yeah its pretty rife on here OP, along with faux single female profiles as well tbh ... just chalk it up , bin it/block it and move on is the way forward "
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Many times. "Couples" wanting a Bimmf and in the last minute "unfortunately" the lady cannot play "
The female halves of couples on Fab are the unluckiest people in the world… the number of them who have to suddenly work late, get ill, lose childcare or have a family emergency is unreal.
The bloke is never affected by said sudden emergency though.
I got called a nosy fat cunt a few weeks ago by a guy when I said “I’m surprised she didn’t want you with her” when his wife was suddenly unavailable for our three way phone call after her mother had a terrible accident and she had to go to say her goodbyes as she wasn’t expected to make it (so the wife likely wouldn’t want to play for a while…) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually the unverified accounts.
The give away for verified is couples where only the guy plays. Not saying they're all fake, but we'd say most that say that are."
Or 1 verification that's hidden or comes from a hidden profile.
Oh they are so obvious to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you do come across a profile with fake pics report it to admin.
Never ever openly discuss it on the forum or accuse someone In a thread of it. This is a major no no and admin will ban you for it.
It's a no win case. Just report the profile privately |
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"If you do come across a profile with fake pics report it to admin.
Never ever openly discuss it on the forum or accuse someone In a thread of it. This is a major no no and admin will ban you for it.
It's a no win case. Just report the profile privately "
It is the fake adds that is the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask to talk to both and have them reply separately. I'm fairly sure I dodged a bullet from a "couple" where when I requested this, "she" expressed herself in exactly the same ways as he did, right down to the same adverbs and spelling mistakes.
Shame because they had good pics and sounded the part. Could be they were genuine and just so attuned that they spoke the same language but I got a "not with a bargepole" vibe after the initial very good one, and binned it. |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
There’s thousands of these, can normally spot it a mile off |
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I've recently been accused of being fake, not the first time in the eleven years I've been on Fab.
But this time, this angry male individual actually thinks the many verifications of the friends that have verified me have on their profiles are also fake.
It got to the point where this creep not only reported me, but also the friends that have verified me.
It gets worse, he has listed on his profile that I'm a fake......it's driven me to the point where I'm not comfortable being on the site anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hid my profile yesterday whilst at work due to getting messages asking me if I wanted my ass fucked or my cock sucked
I did reply to a few saying you obviously haven’t read my profile but decided to hide instead lol. |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Yeah I had a meet I said what I had to say and it was wrong I calmly walked out of the car went home and posted it on here am straight to the point |
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"Before investing too much time in any female or couple, ask to speak or see them briefly on cam. That will expose the guys posing as females and couples who want to meet, many of whom just want some dirty chat/wank material before they get rumbled.
We're still not meeting anyone for now but when we feel comfortable doing so again we'll expect to do that with the guy in question or just move on.
We always swap live kik vids straight away to verify we're all real. Amazing how many genuine profiles disappear the moment it's mentioned. Some of them may be real people, but just fantasising.
Yes 100%! We are pretty new to this but quickly learnt to ask via Kik etc for a quick photo / video of them doing something specific just to prove it’s not some weirdo with a load of pictures saved on their hard drive! Amazing how quickly they totally stop responding!!!"
that's also a tactic of thirsty guys which can dry up the wettest of clams |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
So frequently that I don't believe couples are couples until I've spoken to both. 5 times I can remember off hand I've had a couple arrange to meet and when I've arrived his wife just happened to get called into work 20 seconds before I got there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This does happen Jane.
I've been a victim of a hate campaign too so I understand the damage it can do.
I have no answers, but for a while I was meeting people and not showing verifications to stop the haters contacting people I'd met.
Stay strong, I know it's not easy. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've recently been accused of being fake, not the first time in the eleven years I've been on Fab.
But this time, this angry male individual actually thinks the many verifications of the friends that have verified me have on their profiles are also fake.
It got to the point where this creep not only reported me, but also the friends that have verified me.
It gets worse, he has listed on his profile that I'm a fake......it's driven me to the point where I'm not comfortable being on the site anymore."
I remember you.
Have you asked people to report his profile? |
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"We have recently found that a number of couples profiles are actually single guys pretending to be a couple. Has anyone else had similar issues."
Yes, too many times.
Once we were in a hotel in Farnborough and put a meet up, three "couples" messaged us and all three had an excuse of why it was the guy only who wanted to meet.
Always we make sure the ladies chat on the phone first, would not even consider doing it any other way now.
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Come across a number of couples profile where the man is the only one playing and the wife isn't mweting anymore.
Yet you report the profiles and nothing is done by admin except they block the profile from yours.
Number of single lady profiles where they have many validations with their man playing too.
Unfortunately nothing you can do about it.
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They are easy to spot. Just block them and forget about.
I always like to chat to the other female over the phone before we arrange anything. Normally that gets rid off any guys looking for wank fodder. |
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