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I would suggest you don’t think of this as a dating site, but know that if a social meet went well there might be more option for it after. But no, don’t treat it like a site you want dates from… that will happen with the right person if you can find them. |
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"I would suggest you don’t think of this as a dating site, but know that if a social meet went well there might be more option for it after. But no, don’t treat it like a site you want dates from… that will happen with the right person if you can find them."
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I think the issue is that whilst there are people on here looking for relationships, the ratio of men to women is so imbalanced, it's difficult for men to find the right woman. It's also difficult for women because whilst there is a lot of choice for them, there's a lot of chaff to sort from the wheat.
I would certainly encourage you to try, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. Look through other dating routes too. |
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"I think the issue is that whilst there are people on here looking for relationships, the ratio of men to women is so imbalanced, it's difficult for men to find the right woman. It's also difficult for women because whilst there is a lot of choice for them, there's a lot of chaff to sort from the wheat.
I would certainly encourage you to try, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. Look through other dating routes too. "
soo true |
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"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?  "
Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X |
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"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?
Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X"
Hi peachy! Sorry I took them off due to me being a little paranoid due to the line of work I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P"
Crikey really???
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"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions?
Hi lovely - not at all - but I don’t think it helps that you don’t have any discernible pictures. X
Hi peachy! Sorry I took them off due to me being a little paranoid due to the line of work I do "
Couldn’t you at least have some good torso and dressed ones without showing your face? At least it’d give people a vague idea of what they might be getting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Awwwwww this is cute 
Haha we are messaging!
So cute let us know what happens… I hate cliff hangers !
And if it doesn’t work out , message me   "
Haha I’ll keep you updated |
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"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P"
Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?
However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.
I think it’s become apparent in recent years that the site has evolved and branched off considerably - and it’s no longer just a site where couples come to get their kicks and singles gratefully accommodate them - though I’m sure many are more than happy with what you offer. |
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"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P
Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?
However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.
I think it’s become apparent in recent years that the site has evolved and branched off considerably - and it’s no longer just a site where couples come to get their kicks and singles gratefully accommodate them - though I’m sure many are more than happy with what you offer. "
Said it better than I could! Finding a partner that you’ll swing with seems like exactly what a swinging site can be used for. |
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"Yes, it isnt a dating site, just sex. Its why I normally delete white guys as they almost always want to date either before I have met and almost always after they have. P
Perhaps it’s just a sex site for you because you already have your ‘mr right’ so are literally just looking for no frills nsa sex without socialising?
However - many singles are understandably open to more friendships etc on here and some are looking for a sexually adventurous life partner.
I think it’s become apparent in recent years that the site has evolved and branched off considerably - and it’s no longer just a site where couples come to get their kicks and singles gratefully accommodate them - though I’m sure many are more than happy with what you offer.
Said it better than I could! Finding a partner that you’ll swing with seems like exactly what a swinging site can be used for. "
Precisely - and best of luck in your endeavours my lovely. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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Personally I'm here for nsa. But that's not to say I haven't felt close to people over the years. With a couple it's easy, the boundaries are there, with a single female, feelings can develop if you have nsa regularly enough. I'm a great believer in, if things happen, they happen, but I don't use fab as a dating site. I use it for the reasons it was primarily set up for. |
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"I’m actually looking to date someone but who’s got the same sexual interest as me? Am I on the wrong site? Opinions? "
I’ve met and ended up dating off here, twice. And I don’t do socials at all so it’s just 2 men I met at a mutual friends party.
It can happen, but I don’t think you’ll have many people on this site particularly looking for it.
If your only explicitly looking to date then yeah, I think wrong site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would like a guy to treat Miss B with respect and treat her well so somewhere in between dating and just sex would be good, if he fancied chatting and enjoying a social as well. |
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"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging
So glad you sent this! I used tineye"
Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging
So glad you sent this! I used tineye
Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice "
It’s great for sussing out those who use someone else’s pics! |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"Just a heads up.... Check reverse image search before messaging
So glad you sent this! I used tineye
Not heard of it…sounds like I should heed the advice
It’s great for sussing out those who use someone else’s pics!"
There are plenty on here that do.
A few that disappear too! |
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