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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tonight is our first with 2 other couples and although i am very much looking forward to it, as being the hostess I still don't know how to make that first move to get things started..... I find that part of it very awkward but once started it's fabulous. Shall i just sit between two guys and say get them off, or should i be dressed to please as i answer the door instead of changing when they get here. When we have only one couple round i never know how or when it starts it just happens because the wine is flowing and as i am trying very hard to sort the nerves out i would love to go with the flow with very little alcohol. As hosts is it up to us to start things off !!
I know most of you have been in this situation before, i just wondered if you would share your experiences with me and help me out.......
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We like to arrive dressed in normal attire, and when she thinks everyone is suitably chilled and ready, Kate will leave the room and come back in dressed for action.
It usually goes "ok" from there |
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"We like to arrive dressed in normal attire, and when she thinks everyone is suitably chilled and ready, Kate will leave the room and come back in dressed for action.
It usually goes "ok" from there "
That sounds spot on. It sort draws the line between social and play. |
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"We like to arrive dressed in normal attire, and when she thinks everyone is suitably chilled and ready, Kate will leave the room and come back in dressed for action.
It usually goes "ok" from there "
That sounds spot on. It sort draws the line between social and play. |
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"We like to arrive dressed in normal attire, and when she thinks everyone is suitably chilled and ready, Kate will leave the room and come back in dressed for action.
It usually goes "ok" from there
That sounds spot on. It sort draws the line between social and play."
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I agree - dress to impress as the hostess with the mostess - something rather lovely and alluring perhaps with a top or bottom which you can peel off and be more revealing when you want to action to start. Do you know the other women ? You could plan what you dress between them and perhaps between the three of you agree a signal when you girls should start the entertainment. Sounds like a lot of fun - be bold and confident! It should be a lot of fun!! |
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"We like to arrive dressed in normal attire, and when she thinks everyone is suitably chilled and ready, Kate will leave the room and come back in dressed for action.
It usually goes "ok" from there
That sounds spot on. It sort draws the line between social and play.
Thank you !! "
Just wear that white outfit from your photos im sure the fun will start soon enough lol |
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"Tonight is our first with 2 other couples and although i am very much looking forward to it, as being the hostess I still don't know how to make that first move to get things started..... I find that part of it very awkward but once started it's fabulous. Shall i just sit between two guys and say get them off, or should i be dressed to please as i answer the door instead of changing when they get here. When we have only one couple round i never know how or when it starts it just happens because the wine is flowing and as i am trying very hard to sort the nerves out i would love to go with the flow with very little alcohol. As hosts is it up to us to start things off !!
I know most of you have been in this situation before, i just wondered if you would share your experiences with me and help me out.......
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I find myself sat here this morning wondering whether this 6some took place, did they all turn up and did it get started or are they all still sat round the coffee table wondering whom is going to start things off..... |
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"Tonight is our first with 2 other couples and although i am very much looking forward to it, as being the hostess I still don't know how to make that first move to get things started..... I find that part of it very awkward but once started it's fabulous. Shall i just sit between two guys and say get them off, or should i be dressed to please as i answer the door instead of changing when they get here. When we have only one couple round i never know how or when it starts it just happens because the wine is flowing and as i am trying very hard to sort the nerves out i would love to go with the flow with very little alcohol. As hosts is it up to us to start things off !!
I know most of you have been in this situation before, i just wondered if you would share your experiences with me and help me out.......
I find myself sat here this morning wondering whether this 6some took place, did they all turn up and did it get started or are they all still sat round the coffee table wondering whom is going to start things off....."
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We usually 4some but have had a few 6somes, last one was last month, we all knew one another though hadnt played in a 6 together before. We usually know at least one of the couples in a 6some, and have a drink or two downstairs before somebody says 'let's go to the bedroom' and we have fun undressing one another.
Hope you enjoy yours, a 6some can be wonderful if you all just relax and enjoy! |
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We usually 4some but have had a few 6somes, last one was last month, we all knew one another though hadnt played in a 6 together before. We usually know at least one of the couples in a 6some, and have a drink or two downstairs before somebody says 'let's go to the bedroom' and we have fun undressing one another.
Hope you enjoy yours, a 6some can be wonderful if you all just relax and enjoy! |
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