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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all. I totally understand that, too many fakes everywhere unfortunately!!
It's frustrating being genuine and getting nowhere, i Don't feel as bad now lol x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would most people/couples only really chat/meet with people who have verifications?
I've met and chatted with plenty of people with no verifications. "
Cool, nice to hear from people who do. I would but it might be different for a man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single women, yes I would 
So you should for your own safety.
I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real 
Best way is to attend socials x"
Thank you, i will look out for some or if anyone knows any around Bicester area x |
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"As a single women, yes I would
So you should for your own safety.
I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real "
Try and go to a club or a social event, I'm sure someone will verify you the following day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone needs to start somewhere so depending on the person or persons we'd give them a chance , that said most are pic collectors or dreamers ,but if you came across as geniune and chatting with you wasnt like getting blood out of a stone ,then yes we'd give someone a chance
Just dont make people ask for pics ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone needs to start somewhere so depending on the person or persons we'd give them a chance , that said most are pic collectors or dreamers ,but if you came across as geniune and chatting with you wasnt like getting blood out of a stone ,then yes we'd give someone a chance
Just dont make people ask for pics ...lol "
You both sound lovely, i don't want pics i would like to chat, meet for drinks anything else is a bonus. Nice to make friends x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single women, yes I would
So you should for your own safety.
I would love to meet some people just to say I'm real
Try and go to a club or a social event, I'm sure someone will verify you the following day "
I will have to tey and find one near me, thank you x |
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Verifications mean nothing in a lot of cases. They do not mean they will actually meet you even if they say they will. Had time wasters with lots of verifications, sent to wrong addresses or not answering when your in the street etc. On the other hand I've had great meets with some who have had no verifications at all, plus not everyone wants a verification |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Verifications mean nothing in a lot of cases. They do not mean they will actually meet you even if they say they will. Had time wasters with lots of verifications, sent to wrong addresses or not answering when your in the street etc. On the other hand I've had great meets with some who have had no verifications at all, plus not everyone wants a verification"
basically verifications or not people will still mess you about? Most seem nice on here and know each other.
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I'll chat with anyone fun to chat to. If we get on well and the conversation flows then I'd meet for a social with no concern about verifications.
Most newer profiles aren't up for much conversation, so we never get as far as a social anyway. |
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It's extremely hard for single guys to get chatting or anywhere I find personally if no verifications but obviously need to chat etc to get verified so it seems like a lose lose at times that's why I end up going off again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had people mail me saying they were shocked I'd met a certain person they clearly had a problem with.
I wouldn't go to much on a verification. It's how you are with me that I'm interested in. Not an opinion from someone I've no interest in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll chat with anyone fun to chat to. If we get on well and the conversation flows then I'd meet for a social with no concern about verifications.
Most newer profiles aren't up for much conversation, so we never get as far as a social anyway."
Nice way of looking at it, soo true you get on with someone vary or not just a personal choice. Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had people mail me saying they were shocked I'd met a certain person they clearly had a problem with.
I wouldn't go to much on a verification. It's how you are with me that I'm interested in. Not an opinion from someone I've no interest in."
Each to their own then basically, a good mix of answers. If it works it works.. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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I've had more people chat with me and potentially could turn into meets since getting verifications for a social and two meets so I would say it helps a great deal to know you are for real and what kind of person you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well said people seem for forget when they started and how hard it was to chat with people without any veri even hard as a single guy with out any wish me luck hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all taking the time, it's bit of a mixed bag but that definitely helps.
Maybe just being in here chatting will make a difference, like anything you need to get to know people first
I would meet for a social in a safe place like most sensible people would. Any offers gladly excepted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give people without verifications a chance, have met some quality people. As long as they prove they are real directly to me on web camera. I do see the merit of verifications though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Verifications show people are genuine. Photo verification is a bare minimum. It's free private and says you are who you claim. That's not to say someone with no verification is fake, but everytime we've been messed about, it's by someone that wasn't even photo verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"^ Just the 3.....
You are a swinger with your tally at 4
You missed it... brilliant...
Didn't take you for the judgemental type  impressive!"
I am not judging, I am looking in awe at your magnificence |
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