Critical.
As a single guy I've had plenty of success from organised socials and socialising at clubs, while (along with many single guys) its been very difficult on Fab alone. Just goes to prove that being seen in the flesh (so to speak) and getting known for who you are is really key. Might not be so much so for couples and single females where the dynamic is different, but for me the difference between getting known in person and a (fairly) anonymous message on here - no matter how good, or how much effort went into it - is like chalk and cheese. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Speaking from experience, I'd say it goes both ways.
Its good to mingle and get to know people and make friends. That way you get a feel for what they're like and vice versa.
Chemistry, attraction and personality are key factors in this lifestyle.
Then again, at clubs, playing with a random stranger in a dark corner can be a huge turn on as well. No names, no messing about, just hot sex.
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