Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
no offence, but its not you, they are messaging everyone, post lockdown blueballs i call it |
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Yes I’ve had a sudden surge in messages too. Since Monday I’ve had atleast 5 messages a day that are just one liners “meet today/tonight”
No pics attached or nothing  |
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use message filters and you wont get these messages.
fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.
anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast. |
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"use message filters and you wont get these messages.
fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.
anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast. "
the filters dont let you choose the block idiot button tho  |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...
I had requests from all over the UK  |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
you will get a lot of that, prob fake profiles, if you do meet make sure you know what they look like, and tell a friend were your going, stay safe x
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
Drives me up the walls!!!! Like, swear to god… |
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"use message filters and you wont get these messages.
fabswingers has a mail system in place to make the swinging experience a good and safe one for women.
anything else is placing yourself at the hands of the beast. "
I don't think the filters are that effective |
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Yeah the ‘meet me’ or ‘fancy meeting in my hotel room with AC’ messages are on the up. I just ignore them. No point getting annoyed. People will try their luck where they can. |
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As a percentage, the people who ask to meet you now if you called their bluff and said “ ok let’s do it then “ how many do you think would go through with it? |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging?
Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...
I had requests from all over the UK "
Can you do the Birdy song
Go on, please |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging?
Yeah it was crazy on Monday - settled a bit now...
I had requests from all over the UK
Can you do the Birdy song
Go on, please "
Oh.....not that type of request |
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I was getting a lot of "meet now's during the lockdowns. Before a vaccine had even been developed, and despite me saying I was in the clinically extremely vulnerable group.
It's nice to know some people value sex over human lives.  |
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As others have said its not you. Its them. They get horny and see a lady with some sexy well taken profile pics and think if the send a FAF message they will pull.
Just ignore and move on to the ones who do pay attention and read.
Love your profile pictures especially the room with the view.
Ignore and have fun.
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
Definitely seems a bit odd or maybe they could possibly be time waster. Still strange way for anyone to introduce themselves that way unless the person they’re messaging says on their profile that they like random one off meets with strangers and want to no as little as possible about them.  |
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"I replied to one last night and said 'ok then'
I love doing that! I had one who said he'd drive all the way from Kent. "
we had a series of one word exchanges that ended in OMG  |
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"I might try this approach … law of averages someone might say yes hahaha  "
This is the issue. Men said too many mindless copy and paste messages. Women get fed up and leave the site. Please don't be a sheep |
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"As others have said its not you. Its them. They get horny and see a lady with some sexy well taken profile pics and think if the send a FAF message they will pull.
Just ignore and move on to the ones who do pay attention and read.
Love your profile pictures especially the room with the view.
Ignore and have fun.
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Thanks, that photo was taken in Thailand. (yes i was hot naked and sweaty at that time lol... but all on my own in a big beautiful hotel room  ) |
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"I might try this approach … law of averages someone might say yes hahaha
This is the issue. Men said too many mindless copy and paste messages. Women get fed up and leave the site. Please don't be a sheep"
Apologies I was only saying it in jest |
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"Since covid restrictions lifted, I keep getting "meet me now" messages. They haven't spoken to me or seen my face. So strange thing to say to someone, don't ya think? Or am I too old fashion about swinging? "
I dont get them kind of messages if im honest  I would rather fuck myself then meet someone for a quick shag but we are all different. |
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... Expecting a person to meet a total online stranger just like that... 
I'm sure you've got the other crude 1st msg 1-liners too 
This is so very true