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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying to get Rox a Domme, and those seem to be extremely rare"
They're not as rare as you would think. If you advertise you're looking for one; or ask every guy you talk to if they are one, you're likely to get a wannabe who thinks all Doms use and abuse with no care for the sub.
The best way I think, is to talk to guys and at the right moment(s), say things that only an experienced Dom would pick up on. See what their reaction is and take it from there. That's how I found my Dom on here. |
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I think they don't mean Dom, which a male version, but a Domme (Dominatrix) who is of the female variety.
But yes, I agree with the previous comment that nearly all men think they are Doms. Particularly the younger ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they don't mean Dom, which a male version, but a Domme (Dominatrix) who is of the female variety.
But yes, I agree with the previous comment that nearly all men think they are Doms. Particularly the younger ones. "
Oh yeah. Same thing though. Get talking and dropping things into the conversation. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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I suspect there are plenty of dommes here but any submissive needs to be precise about what they want and the kind of domme they want. I am not sure how many want to be a performing seal for a couple.
This thread may be a helpful in explaining.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1182485.
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"I suspect there are plenty of dommes here but any submissive needs to be precise about what they want and the kind of domme they want. I am not sure how many want to be a performing seal for a couple.
This thread may be a helpful in explaining.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1182485.
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If only there was a performing seal emoji  |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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"I suspect there are plenty of dommes here but any submissive needs to be precise about what they want and the kind of domme they want. I am not sure how many want to be a performing seal for a couple.
This thread may be a helpful in explaining.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1182485.
If only there was a performing seal emoji "
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"Trying to get Rox a Domme, and those seem to be extremely rare"
I’d look at the Fetish community for this, attend munches, but first sign up to their well known website and see if you get any connections after creating a profile.
Before the swinging scene I was heavily involved in the fetish clubs and socials (these are called munches) as I loved wearing lingerie with thigh high boots, being tied up and a bit of spanking. So those clubs and events matched those needs. I’d regularly be asked to be a sub to some guy or couple, so it’s out there, you just need to go on the scene to find it.
Good luck and enjoy |
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Rox gets real bad anxiety with IRL stuff so was hoping that she could talk to someone online, cos that's easier for her.
I'd forgotten how much of a wasteland online was cos it's been a while since I used it exclusively |
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