FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Anklet in public
Anklet in public
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
That’s a big wedding ring lol
Maybe she just likes her anklet but at least you were polite and doesn’t assume anything I’m sure if she was a hot wife and you were her type then she might have responded differently |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
nothing wrong with your approach . If she was wearing it as it is known in the lifestyle and she would have fancied you she probably would have signalized it, otherwise she always has the escape of the anklet being a fancy piece of jewelry  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Not really no |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Dude you missed out she was obviously gagging for it 
Seriously though while discretion is everything your approach wasn't to bad a polite compliment and left it at that.
Anymore would have been creepy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Hahahaha
You made me laugh
Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Was it just a normal amulet or did it say hot wife or have HW on it? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have a range of anklets that I wear most of the time. If I have a plain one on as in day to day life I would not want to be approached because of it. However on a night out I usually have either a HW or Vixen anklet I don't mind it being mentioned |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I wear an anklet because I've had leg infections that have left my leg scarred. An anklet; to me, is just a little something pretty to help me feel good about it all. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Is it ok to approach someone wearing a short skirt, a low cut blouse, topless on a beach, or naked on a naturist beach? Of course it isn't. What a woman chooses to wear or not wear is not a signal to you or any predatory man that she's available. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" What a woman chooses to wear or not wear is not a signal to you or any predatory man that she's available. "
Unless it's a large badge that says "Free fucks! Just ask me. Always available"
I would take that as a sign she's approachable.
Gbat |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
C wears an anklet which I bought her which is relevant to us, not to anyone else. She doesn’t wear it to signify anything…some people wear things because they want to.
I wouldn’t approach anyone with an anklet on unless I was in an environment which they may want to be approached, which I can only think would be a club.
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Anklets are just anklets.
Unless it has cuck or hotwife symbols attached.
Even then they may not like the look of you, even hotwives can be picky. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Kama has been wearing an anklet for years and we did not know what is that mean. For her it was a nice piece of silver or gold.
The question is if any anklet means hot wife in swinging world or it must be HW or 3some symbol ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
I know how you feel, I've been knocking the door of every house with pampas grass outside expecting to be invited to a swingers party but all I get is confused looks... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Women should be able to wear or not wear what they want without this shite."
What shit?
There is a problem with this thread in that there are specific anklets such as the HW or the three symbols for male female male that are telling the world the wearer engages in sex with multiple males, there are also anklets signifying innocent love, good luck etc and also other anklets that have no particular meaning.
B wears her MFM anklet to actively encourage men to approach her and this has happily led on to full sex at a mutually convenient time with some who have. Approached her. Men can and do know how to complement a woman who is indicating she is open to be approached without causing offence.
We are all adults and as adults have a right to act as we want within the law without being insulted by others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??
Is it ok to approach someone wearing a short skirt, a low cut blouse, topless on a beach, or naked on a naturist beach? Of course it isn't. What a woman chooses to wear or not wear is not a signal to you or any predatory man that she's available. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Not all anklets mean hot wife and not all hot wives want to be approached "
Exactly this - it's fun to think it might get you noticed but in reality I don't want to get approached because of my anklet ...or is this just me? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Reminds me of the time I approached a young couple in their car at a local dogging spot. I’d never done it before so walked up to the window, she wound the window down… looking confused, I realized quickly they were just, you know, parked up.
I played it cool - told them I was undercover police and to watch out for carjackers in the area…. 
The things you do when you’re young, stupid and totally caught on the hop  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Wife had a hotwife anklet she wears. Though she still wouldn’t want to be approached. It’s just Jewelry to her that’s tells people what she likes but that’s it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
We would suggest if anyone is not sure what the gender or sex symbols are they should google gender symbol.
These are symbols used in livestock breeding for decades to distinguish males and females in stock.
If therefore a woman wears a bracelet or more likely an anklet with two male symbols and one female symbol or two female symbols she is sending the world an indication of her preferences.
It is perfectly acceptable in adult conversations to mention her anklet or bracelet, just like one could any other jewellery, that is what happens in social interaction.
It seems to me some here are taking a very infantile approach to immediately think and man would see the two male, one female anklet and instantly think the could then ask her for sex.
In adult conversation a lady's hat, shoes, or even her general dress etc. are always open to polite comment, we would suggest it says more about the individual who instantly assumes otherwise.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
Wow just wow next if see some with a tin pineapple in there trolley you at them..  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female. "
Agree entirely |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female. "
I don't think anyone has said that there is anything at all wrong with a man talking to a female. What many think is wrong is a man talking to a female he thinks is an easy pull under the assumption she's a potential fuck because she wears a particular piece of jewellery that he thinks is a secret sexual message to him. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Wow ! I'm shocked by several people's reaction on this thread. The OP wasn't rude in anyway. Complimenting someone on their jewellery was a subtle and appropriate comment and he acted sensibly immediately the person responded. Stunned that people freak out that a man talked to a female.
I don't think anyone has said that there is anything at all wrong with a man talking to a female. What many think is wrong is a man talking to a female he thinks is an easy pull under the assumption she's a potential fuck because she wears a particular piece of jewellery that he thinks is a secret sexual message to him. "
Couldn’t have put the point any better |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Is it acceptable to approach someone wearing an anklet in public.
This evening I saw a woman with a wedding ring and an anklet on her right leg.
I smiled at her and said "I like your anklet", she looked at me confused but politely said thank you.
I obviously walked away.
Thought this was a well known thing or am I wrong??"
What were you expecting her to reply ? Fancy a quick shag behind the KFC bins ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would imagine the vast majority of folk wouldn't know the connection and a LOT of women just wear them because they're pretty... I've worn one but not because I'm a swinger. I wouldn't even class myself as a swinger tbh |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I wear mine all time and always have, I was unaware of the connotations until I joined here. To me it's a nice piece of jewellery and that is it. However, if approached like the OP o wouldn't be offended, it would be like saying I had a nice necklace on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Mrs J x 
