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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple over a year ago

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile. "

That's the best and only advice you need...show her then talk to her about your experiences and what you get out of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile. "

definitely the way to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile. "
classic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same way you get her to try anal, or buy a new sofa or decide what to have for dinner:

Talk to her!

(Ps mention how much you would like to see her fucking someone else, whilst fucking her. If she doesn't throw you off, take it further). M and N xx

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By *S_CoupleCouple over a year ago

Near Leeds

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile. "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't force anyone to do anything.

Force maybe a strong word no offence meant by it.

This is something someone should do without any prompting. It's not for everyone

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By *leasehelpus40Couple over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Show her your profile.

Brilliant

Role play first, see how she reacts

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Half of a couple but she doesn’t know you play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try being honest with her, it's not fair on her otherwise is it.

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Do you have any reason to think she might be interested? Has she suggested she might be interested in sex with people other than you?

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By *atureandhornyCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

Talk to her during sex, ask her would she like to try a mmf or a mmff session you'll be surprised what they say when aroused that's how we got started.

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By *ougie321Man over a year ago

Milford Haven

Check female profiles she’s more than likely on here saying the same about you. Don’t be put off with the fact she goes for older guys though improvise and yes “ talk”

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....

how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!

Thanks

Too be fair with you I don't think she would take it very kindly as to her and most of us your cheating behind her back so duck or accept the punishment if you live together start packing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Love to help you but I don't know her so I haven't a scooby

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here

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By *assing Fancies xCouple over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Tell her about your profile on here first if she isn't already aware

then ask her if the idea is something that she'd be interested in exploring... if the answer is a no then respect her wishes and maybe delete your fab profile if your intend on staying with her

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By *iceButtSlimMan over a year ago

Ipswich

When the wife went out to see a band, while I stayed home child minding, I'd always ask if she'd been chatted up etc, then one night the response was yes and someone else was brought home.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think if you don't know how to have this conversation or how the person will react then you're not ready to swing. It requires good communication which starts with the initial conversation.

Sit down with her and ask her how she feels about the whole situation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore these haters. You and 6 of your best mates waiting for her when she gets back from the shops.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here "

Ok I apologize

But not knowing how your gf might think or react.

Looking at it this way the fact you went looking and found yourself on here not sure about her or anyone else I'd be wondering what you have been up to and start thinking allsorts even if you had been cheating to create something without the other half not knowing especially on a site like this and you've been a member 5 months don't you think your gf would think that nothing has been going on not having a dig at you but looking from her point of view.

Imagine if she did this and you either found it on her device or she finds it on yours best way is always talk about things before hand then create and leaving yourself having to explain why were you looking what's wrong with the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore these haters. You and 6 of your best mates waiting for her when she gets back from the shops.

Best way.

If she says no, just go out with the lads and find another woman who will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also Google 'Mojo upgrade'.

It's very good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here "

Now that's a shame because I was going to ask if you were up for it

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By *untocum1000TV/TS over a year ago

cambridge

"When the wife went out to see a band, while I stayed home child minding, I'd always ask if she'd been chatted up etc, then one night the response was yes and someone else was brought home."
sounds like theres more to this story !

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By *untocum1000TV/TS over a year ago

cambridge

"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here

Now that's a shame because I was going to ask if you were up for it

"
silky .....behave ! X

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By *enuinecpl101Couple over a year ago

Co armagh

"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here

Now that's a shame because I was going to ask if you were up for it

To be continued....