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Getting my gf into swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks
Show her your profile. "
That's the best and only advice you need...show her then talk to her about your experiences and what you get out of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks
Show her your profile. "
definitely the way to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks
Show her your profile. " classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same way you get her to try anal, or buy a new sofa or decide what to have for dinner:
Talk to her!
(Ps mention how much you would like to see her fucking someone else, whilst fucking her. If she doesn't throw you off, take it further). M and N xx |
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By *S_CoupleCouple
over a year ago
Near Leeds |
"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks
Show her your profile. "
Brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I wouldn't force anyone to do anything.
Force maybe a strong word no offence meant by it.
This is something someone should do without any prompting. It's not for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks
Show her your profile.
Brilliant "
Role play first, see how she reacts |
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"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks "
Do you have any reason to think she might be interested? Has she suggested she might be interested in sex with people other than you? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks "
Too be fair with you I don't think she would take it very kindly as to her and most of us your cheating behind her back so duck or accept the punishment if you live together start packing |
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Tell her about your profile on here first if she isn't already aware then ask her if the idea is something that she'd be interested in exploring... if the answer is a no then respect her wishes and maybe delete your fab profile if your intend on staying with her |
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I think if you don't know how to have this conversation or how the person will react then you're not ready to swing. It requires good communication which starts with the initial conversation.
Sit down with her and ask her how she feels about the whole situation |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here "
Ok I apologize
But not knowing how your gf might think or react.
Looking at it this way the fact you went looking and found yourself on here not sure about her or anyone else I'd be wondering what you have been up to and start thinking allsorts even if you had been cheating to create something without the other half not knowing especially on a site like this and you've been a member 5 months don't you think your gf would think that nothing has been going on not having a dig at you but looking from her point of view.
Imagine if she did this and you either found it on her device or she finds it on yours best way is always talk about things before hand then create and leaving yourself having to explain why were you looking what's wrong with the relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignore these haters. You and 6 of your best mates waiting for her when she gets back from the shops. "
Best way.
If she says no, just go out with the lads and find another woman who will. |
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"When the wife went out to see a band, while I stayed home child minding, I'd always ask if she'd been chatted up etc, then one night the response was yes and someone else was brought home." sounds like theres more to this story !
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here
Now that's a shame because I was going to ask if you were up for it
To be continued....
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Could've left a little spoiler who done it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never cheated on her as I’ve never met anyone off here "
Just show her your profile out of the blue and make sure you say that to her...fiver says you end up single pretty quickly |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Hey, so looking to get my partner into the swinging world ....
how is the best way to go about this as I’ve never had the conversation with a partner before!
Thanks "
If you cannot simply start the conversation with her you aren't ready to start swinging as a couple. Learn to talk to her first. |
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