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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey
How does everyone make couple friends? We find its like dating as a couple.. which isn't always easy.
I guess we're looking for friends with a bit extra that we can hang out with too.
Any advice or tips on how to achieve this would be fab   |
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We struggled for two years (granted, one of them was lockdown) but took the plunge and went to Swingathon in July - 400 swingers camped in a field for a long weekend. We found it much easier to make friends in that situation and just last night one of the couples came round for dinner at 7pm and didn't leave until 4am after about three hours of sexy times  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We struggled for two years (granted, one of them was lockdown) but took the plunge and went to Swingathon in July - 400 swingers camped in a field for a long weekend. We found it much easier to make friends in that situation and just last night one of the couples came round for dinner at 7pm and didn't leave until 4am after about three hours of sexy times "
Well we do like to camp.... When is this on?
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
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As a couple I believe it's possible and did so when part of such, social side is definitely important and where we built our friendships from but...
as a single bloke it's totally different  Much harder to stand out from the crowd and be seen initially, so the genuine and honest conversation etc just gets lost in the plethora. X |
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"As a couple I believe it's possible and did so when part of such, social side is definitely important and where we built our friendships from but...
as a single bloke it's totally different Much harder to stand out from the crowd and be seen initially, so the genuine and honest conversation etc just gets lost in the plethora. X"
I'm going to disagree with you there. Genuine, honest conversation stands out in our in box. That might be because we have tight filters and due to our age and preferences receive way fewer messages than many but nevertheless, the good messages are thrown into sharp relief by the bad |
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We've said it loads of times to eachother and on here. The one wmthing we would love to find is another couple that we could have a decent friendship with. Not just play but be able to go out together for dinner drinks etc and be able to have a friendship with both in a kinky sexy way and also a totally vanilla and social way.
Any one around the Watford are that this appeals to feel free to message lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is exactly what we are looking for! Friends with good chat, bit of food, few drinks etc and then some fun.
The internet should invent some way for sexually liberated couples to meet each other.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a couple I believe it's possible and did so when part of such, social side is definitely important and where we built our friendships from but...
as a single bloke it's totally different Much harder to stand out from the crowd and be seen initially, so the genuine and honest conversation etc just gets lost in the plethora. X
I'm going to disagree with you there. Genuine, honest conversation stands out in our in box. That might be because we have tight filters and due to our age and preferences receive way fewer messages than many but nevertheless, the good messages are thrown into sharp relief by the bad "
I think as a couple we can be skeptical of single males purely because we want a couple experience. I could easily have many conversations but I would always worry that I would be giving people (the single male) the wrong impression...not because I think they are just after sex but we are on a swinging site so there is always going to be that present... and like I say its just not what we are wanting. So I can imagine its hard but there are some people out there who want that |
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"This is exactly what we are looking for! Friends with good chat, bit of food, few drinks etc and then some fun.
The internet should invent some way for sexually liberated couples to meet each other.... "
If only eh?! 
Even with sites like this its hard to meet people, still have to find likeminded people, strike up a conversation, work at it - which is often much harder online.... maybe I am just socially awkward online too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is exactly what we are looking for! Friends with good chat, bit of food, few drinks etc and then some fun.
The internet should invent some way for sexually liberated couples to meet each other....
If only eh?!
Even with sites like this its hard to meet people, still have to find likeminded people, strike up a conversation, work at it - which is often much harder online.... maybe I am just socially awkward online too "
We are both very chatty (but don't ask Mrs N about our new puppy, she won't shut up about it!).
Due to be in quest this Friday. Just saying.... M |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is exactly what we are looking for! Friends with good chat, bit of food, few drinks etc and then some fun.
The internet should invent some way for sexually liberated couples to meet each other....
If only eh?!
Even with sites like this its hard to meet people, still have to find likeminded people, strike up a conversation, work at it - which is often much harder online.... maybe I am just socially awkward online too
We are both very chatty (but don't ask Mrs N about our new puppy, she won't shut up about it!).
Due to be in quest this Friday. Just saying.... M"
Oh dear you have us both at puppy! I am pretty sure D would spend more time swapping puppy pictures than swapping!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would love to find a couple we could trust and have fun with. Knowing they were std free and have bare back fun. "
I like the idea of being STI free but I kinda think bareback would take a LOT of trust and some sort of exclusivity  |
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"As a couple I believe it's possible and did so when part of such, social side is definitely important and where we built our friendships from but...
as a single bloke it's totally different Much harder to stand out from the crowd and be seen initially, so the genuine and honest conversation etc just gets lost in the plethora. X"
Want new friends who are swinger friendly.
Got to meet in real life.
Club, party, holiday, whatever.
It's that face to face meeting that makes all the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well we do like to camp.... When is this on?
Message 84_kinky_kabins or have a look at their profile. The next one is over the August bank holiday weekend (were signed up for that one)."
Thank you will show D later |
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