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First time play approach

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How would you feel if you were approached in a club by a couple who set out that they havnt swapped before. They ask you, as a couple, if they could try a few things out. E.g watch each other kiss the other person first. Then if ok, a bit further. Then if ok a bit further and so on up to potentially full swap. Asking for a friend lol!

If you were a couple would you want to engage with that or would you find it a bit weird xx

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By *atinocoupleCouple over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

Totally fine as this is how we started out. Our very first meet evolved like this, testing the boundaries. We understand what it’s like to start, and it has its own novelty too to help out

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

Absolutely fine. this has happened and it was very enjoyable

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By *ecky and justCouple over a year ago

Godalming

Sounds fine and is nice to be asked to be their first and help them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be absolutely fine and kind of flattering to their first... would be fantastic to help a newbie couple explore....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would find that very erotic.

Shareing their first time experience.

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

No problem at all - we all had to start somewhere.

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By *eventysixCouple over a year ago

glossop

We are looking for our first couple. Plenty of single men offers

but a nice down to earth couple that wont mind going at our pace to start with

jt & val

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This sounds fine and everyone has to start somewhere haha. Extra pressure on keeping an eye on everyone though to make sure someone isn’t sat in a corner weeping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This is really reassuring! We hope we bump into you guys when we are in a club xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is really reassuring! We hope we bump into you guys when we are in a club xx "

Was thinking the same

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By *ftereightMan over a year ago

SouthEast

This has genuinely happened to us at Eurekas a couple years ago. We clicked with the couple and we were happy to play but we limited the play to Softswap only despite they wanted to full swap. As a couple we felt we would be looking out for then more by sticking to softplay for their first ever play.. it sucks being nice people sometimes haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're definitely interested to see how this thread develops. As we are that other couple. We've soft swapped, but not done full yet. We're still finding our boundaries.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We would be fine with this and its quite nice to communicate to find out boundaries. Its a bit like driving a car, we were all there once!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are looking as it would be my first time with another female but when chatting to people I'm getting more and more nervous. I really do want to enjoy myself but it's hard ... the people we have spoken to want to dive straight in. We want to take our time..

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By *rK MrsJCouple over a year ago

Kidderminster

"How would you feel if you were approached in a club by a couple who set out that they havnt swapped before. They ask you, as a couple, if they could try a few things out. E.g watch each other kiss the other person first. Then if ok, a bit further. Then if ok a bit further and so on up to potentially full swap. Asking for a friend lol!

If you were a couple would you want to engage with that or would you find it a bit weird xx "

We'd be fine with that,everyone has to start some in their swinging lives.

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