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over a year ago
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab?   "
I'm a hero in the real world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say more in the real world
Think men like it when I show more flesh lol I usually totally cover up but on a beach day, men pay attention more  "
there you go then.
you have attraction |
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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy far far away |
"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics. |
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
With so many men on here and the confidence that ‘hiding’ behind a keyboard gives it stands to reason you get hit on more here. Guys who wouldn’t be confident enough to approach you in person would be more likely to chance their arm messaging you here!
As for your original question…….as a single guy on here there’s too much competition from better looking guys on here  |
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What is fab popularity though?
In the real world I take people as I find them and never concern myself with popularity contests.
I take the same approach on here but others have said that they didn't think I would chat to them because I'm so popular in the forums.
Just because I post on a semi regular basis doesn't make me popular. In fact because I take a no bs approach I'd argue it makes me less popular.
Perceived popularity is a thing on here. |
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab?
Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics."
no men never approach me apart from the cray cray ones lol |
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"What is fab popularity though?
In the real world I take people as I find them and never concern myself with popularity contests.
I take the same approach on here but others have said that they didn't think I would chat to them because I'm so popular in the forums.
Just because I post on a semi regular basis doesn't make me popular. In fact because I take a no bs approach I'd argue it makes me less popular.
Perceived popularity is a thing on here. "
popularity is good as you're more likely to find someone you're compactible with. Unless you're super lucky to find the right person from afew looking at your profile and messaging you. In reality, we know that's unlikely? |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
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It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much.
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? a
It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much.
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I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not |
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"I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not "
You’ll get loads of attentions in clubs because there’ll be likeminded people who’ll be more comfortable around you and feel more confident approaching you there  |
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
Hi hun.
It used to be that way for me when I was slimmer and had a much higher profile on here. Embarrassingly I was often introduced to people as ‘fab famous’ or ‘fab royalty’. Fortunately I didn’t take the hype seriously - and on the upside I got to meet, chat to and occasionally shag some marvellous people.
In the real world I’m a working middle aged mum and often pretty invisible - which is how I like it a lot of the time. The last thing my teenagers want or need is for their mum to look ‘hot’ or be ogled when we’re out.
For that reason I always had two very different personas.
Now I’ve put weight on and gained a few more wrinkles with the menopause I get to be invisible everywhere! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
Think it's cause I'm fab people get to see what is hiding under your clothes. Start wearing bikinis and you'll get guys coming from all sides in the real world haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her.
I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha |
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her.
I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha"
Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
Not really it’s about the same. Still I’ve been told, “god loves a trier!”. Just shame I’m not religious lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her.
I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha
Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life"
Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless.
The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
Yes, offline no one looks at me twice. |
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You have to make a bit of an effort in the real world to string a sentence together.
Fancy a shag, as a chat up line in a bar doesn't tend to work for me in the real world.
Apart from Cap D'Agde, where I actively encourage it and generally say yes, there and then....
This isn't just for the men, some of the ladies out there are even worse in the conversation stakes...
Have fun.
Liz. X |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I tend to keep a pretty low profile both on here and in real life. Have never really aspired to be in the popular crowd and I'm usually quite happy hanging out on the perifery with the geeks and misfits. |
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her.
I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha
Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life
Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless.
The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha"
I know a bit of how it is for the younger dating generation nowadays from our kids. One's married but they met through mutual friends the other is very friendly and will literally strike up a conversation anywhere with anybody and never seems short of a date. However it does seem far less acceptable to approach people cold now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I want to approach a lass out and about but either don't know what to say or feel like I'm going to be bothering her.
I never get approached and don't think I've ever caught anyone looking at me unless you count my ex haha
Hundreds of years ago when I was young men would just start talking. Most of them would back off if I made it clear I wasn't interested. I think all these dating apps have made it more difficult for people in real life
Yes I 100% agree with that. But they aren't helpful at all as even some of my female mates have said that they're pointless.
The only time I've actually had a proper chat with a lass is when I've been at a party or a nightclub. But even then it has not really lead to anywhere as I'm not the greatest as progressing from going from the chatting to the let's go stage. Been on nights out and my mates have called me an idiot for not taking her home and I was like... She was into me? haha
I know a bit of how it is for the younger dating generation nowadays from our kids. One's married but they met through mutual friends the other is very friendly and will literally strike up a conversation anywhere with anybody and never seems short of a date. However it does seem far less acceptable to approach people cold now. "
It's not a matter of being cold. It's a matter of women finding it creepy or annoying these days. I would have thought it would have been flattering for a guy to come up and complement you. But then I've seem a mate at uni do that and the girl has said "well I didn't get dressed for your approval". I just thought what even are people these days. Wasn't even a fact he was a bad looking guy. It was the fact that people don't know what a complement is these day so approaching a person is near impossible because you don't know if they're gonna see it as a predatory attack or an insult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On fab yes , on the forums no
yeah me too, I get inundated with messages but nothing in real life or on forums. like to see if i meet people in clubs "
I'll be honest. Looking at your body can't comment on your face as you don't show it on your profile. You are definitely up there on the attractive scale so in the real world guys are probably shy to come up to you or because of your age maybe assume you already have someone in your life so don't want to bother you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i get no looks.
but thats not important, what is important to me is finding out who you are.
im sure a lot of you ladies get looks just dont see it "
I'm shocked by this. You're gorgeous. |
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? a
It's the total opposite for me OP, I'm pretty much ignored on Fab but I get a lot of female attention in person; which is why I enjoy clubs so much.
I can't wait to go to some clubs and see if i get as much attention there as on fab be interested to find out if its my face putting people off or not "
I rarely get approached in real life... Definitely my face that's the problem... It says everything so I don't need to  |
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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire |
"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
It's the opposite for me, I have much more success in the 'real' world, than on fab. |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
Milford Haven |
"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab?
Quite surprised at that OP, thought you would get a lot of attention in the real world based on your pics.
no men never approach me apart from the cray
cray ones lol "
Driven round 5 times now and still can’t find you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab? "
It's obvious really. In a real world people are not looking at you for sex. Lust etc but as a human being. On Fab you are a potential sex partner. Not rocket science. |
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Used to never have much trouble finding someone bars or clubs. My cheeky smile and wit saw to that. Though I've been married (now separated) for most of the last eight years so no idea how to approach someone in this post covid world!
On here I'm just another bloke in a sea of cocks I guess. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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More I don't seek popularity either outside or on fab. But by comparison I have more friendships outside of fab than on - ironically probably only guy on fab who's not looking to get laid |
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"In person, I rarely get looked at, asked out etc but in the fab world, it a completely different story like I live a double life. Do you feel the same way when you go on fab?
It's obvious really. In a real world people are not looking at you for sex. Lust etc but as a human being. On Fab you are a potential sex partner. Not rocket science. "
I disagree as how comes some members say they're more popular with opposite sex outside of fab? |
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