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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx |
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I always worry about this with our profile....
Our friends pictures are full of both me and hubs but the reason I keep hubs off it as much is because of his job more than anything else ... and I know we can all say that but it would be harder for him... most people know I’m a bag of filth haha.
But your right there should be a mix of both... but probably because half the time the person looking through peoples profiles tends to be the blokey of the couple so he’ll be eyeing up the ladies haha
Plus my hubs looks criminal on photos he’s much better in real life hahahahaha poor bloke  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand that a lot of couples are trying to get attention and it would appear that a lot of men control accounts so boobs and pussy are the perfect bate.
We are completely open with our account and want it to be equal.
We've found some genuine couples but a lot are female pictures only which confuses us as they are on here as a couple. |
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You have to remember a lot of “couples” on here aren’t really couples either ... half are single blokes pretending .... or people who were couples but have split up or the wife ain’t interested any more but the blokes remained on the account ... that’s what we’ve found. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to remember a lot of “couples” on here aren’t really couples either ... half are single blokes pretending .... or people who were couples but have split up or the wife ain’t interested any more but the blokes remained on the account ... that’s what we’ve found. "
Excactly that's what I was just going to post x brilliant advice x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You have to remember a lot of “couples” on here aren’t really couples either ... half are single blokes pretending .... or people who were couples but have split up or the wife ain’t interested any more but the blokes remained on the account ... that’s what we’ve found. "
Completely agree and we have a growing blocked list of them lol.
Once we have the time and build the confidence then we'll attended a couple's party and will hopefully meet like minded people. |
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Definitely a couple here and pics of us both ,
Face pics in private of us both
We are a couple , so why wouldnt there be ?
And Mrs j insits on a cock pic , even before a social
We've been caught out before !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha Jack .... you have to em out.... even those with verifications man ya like no way your a couple ... definite bloke.... and you know it’s like just tell the truth ... stop lying "
Lol i know exactly what you mean by that x there's too many guys on here who have couples profiles isint there x |
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
Welcome to fab  .
Our account has Purley my wife on as that is what our account is for as she is the only person that plays ( hotwife) so there isn't any need for me to be on the profile ,the reason we use a couple profile is because it is a thing for us both and I (the male) run/ use the profile more than the wife |
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We find that it's because there are wag more sexy outfits for women than men and outfits are our thing.
Though we still think it's important to have pics of both and some that show both together, hence our profile pic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We understand that Hotwife and cuckold couples would be like that and completely respect that.
The profiles we mean are couples that message or wink us with 10 boob or pussy pictures but the messages are clearly written by a male.
We have managed to find some genuine couples but it was just a observation from our first couple of weeks xx |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Unfortunately a lot of couples don't have pics of the male, or just a close up dick pic. I think if both are going to be involved in potential meets then both should be represented on the profile. |
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Part of the problem on here is the majority are looking for a female and couple is an optional extra if the lady is Bi, too many assume they are talking to him or her, rarely them.
We share the account for transparency and it makes it more fun to be honest xx |
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We are a genuine couple who only come into this site when both of us are here which is mainly the weekend and it's mostly the Mrs that uploads photos and replies to messages etc. Yes most of our pics are of the Mrs as like previous poster said there's way more lingerie and poses a woman can do,we do have a couple of the Mr's pics he prefers to take the photos and seeing Mrs dressed up x |
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"I always worry about this with our profile....
Our friends pictures are full of both me and hubs but the reason I keep hubs off it as much is because of his job more than anything else ... and I know we can all say that but it would be harder for him... most people know I’m a bag of filth haha.
But your right there should be a mix of both... but probably because half the time the person looking through peoples profiles tends to be the blokey of the couple so he’ll be eyeing up the ladies haha
Plus my hubs looks criminal on photos he’s much better in real life hahahahaha poor bloke "
Really hate the job excuses for not showing pics ... don't need the face and you can send that in private xx |
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We are both in our pics. If we are meeting a couple, only fair they get to see what both of us look like.
If someone recognises us (and they have) then it's fair to say that person or persons is on Fab as well.
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We always want to see photos of both. No point wasting time looking at one person only. We see profiles as adverts for selling yourself, so make it a good one. You wouldn’t advertise selling two cars on Autotrader and yet only show photos of one? Alarm bells would ring. Buyer beware!!! If we’re going to play with someone’s tits and cock etc then we want to see them first, seems fair?
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I quite like sharing my pics, and our public gallery has just come to reflect that, a vanity project if you will.
Our private gallery is an even mix of us both and absolutely shared with those we are interested in meeting. We also send pics of us both when messaging people we might like to meet.
For those who need to see, they definitely see us both, but for the majority of those flicking through the site they just see what we like to share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are some of you worrying about?
So there's few or even no pictures of the guy?
So what?
If that's not to your liking,don't contact them.
Don't reply to their messages if they contact you.
It's easy
Certainly nothing to worry about. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
Yes you are missing something - the right of anyone to advertise themselves exactly as they choose, not as you choose. It is their profile, and if you don't like it or the balance of photographs it contains simply move on to another one.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx
Yes you are missing something - the right of anyone to advertise themselves exactly as they choose, not as you choose. It is their profile, and if you don't like it or the balance of photographs it contains simply move on to another one.
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Sorry we wasn't having a pop at people for doing it, we were just asking a question as a new couple to the scene if we are too open with our profile and if we had missed something.
We appreciate all the answers and replies xx |
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Nope, many couple Profiles only show the woman and the man's dick might appear.
It can be very frustrating as a straight woman, but we just avoid those profiles, its up to them how they run their profile and up to us to ignore contact from them.
Totally get it if only the woman plays and they don't meet couples /fems. Otherwise I think they should have at least one picture of the male.
I don't bother chatting anyone with them, as you have to ask for pics of the Mr and then by the time you see one, often I haven't been attracted to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
I find this too, I wouldn't meet or consider chatting until I'd seen both people, it is a little off putting for me to not see the male.
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
Many couples concentrate on the female half when you meet too lol . Yes in many couples the female likes to show off her figure while the man does not, hence a lot of her and maybe one cock pic lol. We have also swapped face pics with couples to find the Mrs doesn't fancy the guy at all and certainly explained a lack of his photos !  . One step at a time and make sure all are happy before sharing personal details and arranging a social.... |
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
It is a common complaint, but it is often felt that nobody wants to see the blokes because it's only ever that ladies pictures that get fabbed. Anita hates it when she can't see the bloke.
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We don't have face pics in public profile due to jobs - nor many of him either - but we send if we start chatting to others
I put it down to I'm a filthy exhibitionist & he only knows when I've added a new pic because of the view count going a bit wild
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"I always worry about this with our profile....
Our friends pictures are full of both me and hubs but the reason I keep hubs off it as much is because of his job more than anything else ... and I know we can all say that but it would be harder for him... most people know I’m a bag of filth haha.
But your right there should be a mix of both... but probably because half the time the person looking through peoples profiles tends to be the blokey of the couple so he’ll be eyeing up the ladies haha
Plus my hubs looks criminal on photos he’s much better in real life hahahahaha poor bloke "
We are a couple or we were last time I got out of bed she was there lol.
Yes loads of fake and want to be’s. Really do understand the work reasons, for us it’s the other way around. Mrs work makes this hush hush but people would think it’s of just to see pics of me on a couples profile. There are pics of me on ours but let’s be honest it’s 90% the men that look to start off and then pass to see if wife is interested .
Great to know there are genuine people out there instead of the bloody silhouettes that take up 80% of the profiles. Have fun guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we only have face pics of male half so keep them in private gallary for friends, we keep meaning to do more pics, but we gat carried away when we get naked lol, oh and we always send a pic of us both whenever we message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah you do find that on here, we won't even entertain the profile if there isn't pictures of both of them on there.
We are meeting them both, want to see them both and get to know them both.
I do have a fair few more pictures than Mr J but that's just because I love taking pictures and I have a lot of lingerie
Miss S x |
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"Only Mrs M plays with others so don't see the need for pics of me.
Have met plenty at the clubs who can verify that I am real."
Yeah and that's understandable. It's the ones that are looking for other couples. I'm usually well catered for pics of the lady lol but Miss not so much with pics of the guy. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
Yawn! Xx |
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
I find when couple profile just focuses on the woman. It makes me think the man is so unimportant or unattractive, it's not worth my time replying back to their message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just don't bother with pics as we are both fucking hideous!! You'd swear both sets of our parents were brother and sister 
Lol. Think you've won the Internet today. "
We best get a prize, it's the wife's birthday soon and it will save me buying her a prezzie.
She's not really ugly though to be fair, she actually did some modelling years ago for some bloke called Picasso. |
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Nothing wrong with more of one than the other but we at least like to see a fair picture or two of the male half. After all we are seeking mutual enjoyment for all. When the male half is not visible (or a just a token picture of the blokes hand or something) it can be a bit off putting for us. Kind of get the feeling why they hidding him, what's wrong with him?
Likewise we like some photos of both of us because we imagine people think the same as us and want to be with people who find us both attractive as we are a package. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx
Yes you are missing something - the right of anyone to advertise themselves exactly as they choose, not as you choose. It is their profile, and if you don't like it or the balance of photographs it contains simply move on to another one.
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Couldn’t agree more, not sure why it bothers people about others profiles. We have a couples acc and very much genuine, we only have pics of myself as I’m the one that plays not my husband, he just likes to watch so why have his pic up, if the guy I’m chatting to really wants to see him then I’d send a picture but actually no one does! |
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As the male of the couple, from our limited experience of the site (couple), I have found that the female is seen as the ‘enticement’ - ladies appear to have more sexy outfits??? We insist that profiles of couples who engage with us, must have pictures of the male or we are not interested. We don’t want pictures of the penis but would appreciate pictures of the body to allow us to make a decision to progress or decline. |
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"As the male of the couple, from our limited experience of the site (couple), I have found that the female is seen as the ‘enticement’ - ladies appear to have more sexy outfits??? We insist that profiles of couples who engage with us, must have pictures of the male or we are not interested. We don’t want pictures of the penis but would appreciate pictures of the body to allow us to make a decision to progress or decline."
We see that culture too on here. Don't want the male half to be some cling on that comes as part of the package with the prized woman. We are a couple who play as a couple so it's important to know we are both fancied by the relevant interested parties and vice versa. Totally get some couples have a dynamic that doesn't include the male in the action but for couples were everyone is in the action that mutual attraction is important. Its about everyone's enjoyment, not about taking one for the team. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
you have 5 pics female appears 4 times male 3 so are you not one of the couples which is to focusing more on the female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to remember a lot of “couples” on here aren’t really couples either ... half are single blokes pretending .... or people who were couples but have split up or the wife ain’t interested any more but the blokes remained on the account ... that’s what we’ve found.
Excactly that's what I was just going to post x brilliant advice x "
Or the man and women team up to play when they are both married to different partners. We have found that to. |
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We agree with you. We find it really frustrating that most couple profiles have no photos of the man. We want to meet couples but we have to know that Hannah is attracted to the man, and it seems the minority actually want us to find that out. |
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"We are new to the scene but have come into this after years of conversations and trust.
Our issue is so many couple profiles focus purely on the female half and a lot don't even have a male picture.
Are we missing something or are we too open and honest? xx"
Check your profile. You also focus on female.
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Should really have equal amount of pics . Unless their dynamic is different etc "
"Should"? The only "should" is that people should abide by Fab rules on the content of the pics, otherwise the pictures they post are entirely up to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should really have equal amount of pics . Unless their dynamic is different etc
"Should"? The only "should" is that people should abide by Fab rules on the content of the pics, otherwise the pictures they post are entirely up to them. "
scalded !! Ouch . lazy typing by us . “ dynamic been different “ kinda covers the up to them . |
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We have more pics of myself than My Yummy but we do try to get us both in the pictures wherever possible to be honest he doesn't like his pic being taken at the best of time so we'd rather have him in the pics tastefully rather than just the 35 generic dick and body pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We try to mix it up, as it's what we'd like to see of others. Very frustrating for the fem if it's all of the girls.
Others have and are free to differ. We prefer to see both. |
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