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Friendship with another couple
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It’s certainly achievable.
We’ve been lucky to find a lovely couple that we’ve become great friends with, extending beyond fab and into real life.
We have lots of close fab friends as well.
It helps if prospective friends are close by, makes meeting and establishing a friendship a lot easier. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We’re finding it hard to find a couple that are happy to chat and get to know us before an initial meet as we have a young family. A lot of couples seem eager for that initial meet. We have a busy life with work and kids (as most do) so we want to make sure that initial social meet isn’t time wasted because we didn’t chat and get to know the couples basic goals from fab and a swinging friendship |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"We’re finding it hard to find a couple that are happy to chat and get to know us before an initial meet as we have a young family. A lot of couples seem eager for that initial meet. We have a busy life with work and kids (as most do) so we want to make sure that initial social meet isn’t time wasted because we didn’t chat and get to know the couples basic goals from fab and a swinging friendship "
Just keep messaging, ask questions. The right couple will feel the same. |
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We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.
To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.
The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.
Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.
We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew.  |
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"Friendship and sex without ploughing through the whole of fab…..possible?"
Completely possible we have achieved this with a fellow swinging couple, vanilla socials with the occasional debauchery thrown in for good measure.
Mr Hayes |
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"That would be fantastic,
Doesn't seem easy to find though
Miss"
We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends 
Mr Hayes |
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"That would be fantastic,
Doesn't seem easy to find though
Miss
We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends
Mr Hayes "
Brilliant  |
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"That would be fantastic,
Doesn't seem easy to find though
Miss
We find its di6to make connections through fab, the process itself is tedious, we achieved it by accident through going to pandora's and we just clicked with a couple who have become very good friends. If you were to read both our fab profiles yould see that it shouldn't work and we would never have contacted eachother but it works perfectly, heres to finding more friends
Mr Hayes
Brilliant "
We also have friends In this world who we don't play with but still meet up with for chats and laughs
Mr Hayes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a cpl outside of here..long term friends now more than a decade..its gone beyond the sexual side and lifes intertwine in various ways..if anyone knew the real reasons we all get on lol.. but thats our little secret between us 4.. |
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We are friends with a few couples( even some males and a female) after talking like grown ups/Adults that the "Sexual Attraction" etc etc wasn't there but they enjoyed our company and we enjoyed theirs ? and sadly had more than a few couples/males and even a few singles fems where the total opposite was true and chaos/insults and general name calling ensued !? and they acted like children but we just blocked/deleted and ignored them...so yes it is possible !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.
To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.
The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.
Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.
We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "
Pretty much our ideal… might not happen so not the be all and end all but would be great to have that kind of relationship where you can just have a night or weekend away without the end goal being jumping into the same bed, but sometimes that does happen and all is good in the world. |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
you will be lucky to find that scenario online
wve had lots of friends over the year with both couples and singles weve met at clubs and usually its a case of becoming friends first and then possibly sexual one couple we were friends with for 5 years before anything happened sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.
To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.
The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.
Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.
We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "
That must be so sexy to see |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
hitchin |
We’d like to make friends with some other couples who are interested in the same sort of things as us without any pressures of playing. Just people we can have a laugh with and discuss non vanilla topics! |
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It’s something we’ve been looking for, friends we could go out for dinner with, cinema, theatre, or even a group and if the mood takes everyone some fun, we’ve even toyed with the idea of going out as foursome, but with each partners, like holding hands, touching like normal couples, but with the couples wife, or and visa versa, lots of trust but lots of fun. |
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We’d like this. Nothing too regular but people you maybe get together with a couple of times a year and know you’re going to have a great time. The social side being just as important as the sex.
Kx |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"We cannot emphasise enough how much more intimate things are for us with friends.
To be able to go out for dinner or date nights on a non sexual basis and enjoy everyone’s company and then have nights where there are almost no limits is truly liberating.
The level of trust is so high that we feel so much closer.
Sounds gushy I know, but it’s an amazing feeling.
We’ve been to fab friends wedding as well, was fun to know that we’d slept with the bride and groom and no one knew. "
Yep we’ve done the wedding thing as well.
We much prefer to make long term friendships. We have a very long time term one with a great couple who are best friends now both.vanilla and intimately. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We'd prefer friendship only, now that's super difficult. We like our single male meets only but friends with swinger couples are proving impossible, we're going to clubs soon and expecting it to be even more difficult there tbh. |
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Possible but incredibly difficult. We've had a few couple friendships that lasted from a few months to a couple of years but all faded away (they missed the excitement of meeting new folk, turned a bit weird, split up or wanted something different like a normal relationship etc). We have on the other hand kept the male half of one past couple for a few years now and a new lady has joined our clan and seems to be a long term thing too !. Fingers crossed you find something good and lasting... |
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