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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't as your username would instantly make me pass by and delete any message...i dont care if someones a 'top shagger' or not but they have to be worthy of my friendship first. |
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I can’t lie OP your profile isn’t the best. You’re already at a disadvantage due to you age as already mentioned most people on this site have children and grandchildren your age.
Gotta put in even more effort than most of us if you wanna get anywhere. As said, I’d change that username as it’s not doing you any favours. Rather than focusing on a woman’s age maybe think about and display what you think you can offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat every woman as an individual and get to know her. If it progresses then happy days.
Lose the username, it projects an air of immaturity and that may be unattractive to the type of lady you're trying to "be friends with" shall we say.
I probably also wouldn't mention age, not many women get turned on by being called old/any variation of the word.
Good luck in your quest OP  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I can’t lie OP your profile isn’t the best. You’re already at a disadvantage due to you age as already mentioned most people on this site have children and grandchildren your age.
Gotta put in even more effort than most of us if you wanna get anywhere. As said, I’d change that username as it’s not doing you any favours. Rather than focusing on a woman’s age maybe think about and display what you think you can offer? "
Perfectly captured! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me guess OP, when you joined fab you thought that all you needed to do was type a couple of lines on a profile, upload a couple of pics and just wait for the offers to flood in.
I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.
Single women rarely go looking for me on fab - they don't need to.
There are so many of us, and most of us are the ones doing the looking.Most of the time, the ladies are far too busy wading through their bulging inboxes.
Any messages you do send though, I would suggest are likely to be deleted or ignored.
Pretty much anyone you message will take a look at your profile before even thinking about reading your message, so you need to make sure it;s the best it can be.
As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give you any, but it does need a lot of work
Oh, and your username is probably putting the ladies off too |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone 
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Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying.... |
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone
Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying.... "
Block away - helps steer clear of the sensitive souls |
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone
Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying.... "
But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone
Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....
But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old. "
You know, I really do not mind being called older or even old as you rightly said.... if older than the person asking then you are old(er)
I do mind, however, being approached/ chosen/ considered a target whatever you want to call it.... purely based on that criterium. I have far more to offer than being older... so to me that is a bit indiscriminative and undiscerning.
I am not in the business or mood to teach a younger guy - it is boring, I guess it is why I prefer more mature men who value conversation and social attributes. Each to their own. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone
Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....
Block away - helps steer clear of the sensitive souls "
I am sorry, only just saw this and I did not mean to insult you - I just did not realise you were sensitive. My apologies. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Stop calling us "old"!!!! 
Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact "
True, no denying that.
But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.
But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think sometimes people using words like 'older' dont really mean anything by it, they just dont have another word to think of at that moment.
my experiences over the years have shown me i enjoy more encounters with people my age and 'older'. i get more out of it, its always good fun and laughter many a good friendship ive developed.
you appreciate the time more. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"i think sometimes people using words like 'older' dont really mean anything by it, they just dont have another word to think of at that moment.
my experiences over the years have shown me i enjoy more encounters with people my age and 'older'. i get more out of it, its always good fun and laughter many a good friendship ive developed.
you appreciate the time more."
I agree with you - it is about having something in common, more chance of liking similar music as just one example.
Nothing wrong with either (going for older or younger etc... and each to their own). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stop calling us "old"!!!!
Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact
True, no denying that.
But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.
But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime" "
I only, really, like younger guys, it's who I find, attractive, most often, so I can't really be miffed if they are messaging me because I am older  |
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"Always loved an older woman - know what they want more I find, makes things more enjoyable for everyone
Absolutely perfect way of ensuring the "older" woman will ignore or possibly block you. Just saying....
But if someone is younger than you, you are older than them. You’re older. It’s not like you’re being called old.
You know, I really do not mind being called older or even old as you rightly said.... if older than the person asking then you are old(er)
I do mind, however, being approached/ chosen/ considered a target whatever you want to call it.... purely based on that criterium. I have far more to offer than being older... so to me that is a bit indiscriminative and undiscerning.
I am not in the business or mood to teach a younger guy - it is boring, I guess it is why I prefer more mature men who value conversation and social attributes. Each to their own. "
Ah. Yes, I get your point now. I’m the same, I do not train and if you’re not experienced I’m not interested. I’m here for me, not as a training aid |
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"Absolutely love older women but hardly get any messages. Any tips for enticing the ladies ? "
I have kids older than you lol. So that alongside the username is off-putting to me. But that's only me. I can't speak for other ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that all younger guys always prefer older women. But when you get older you don't know what age range you would still want to have a older woman x it's every younger guys fantasy. It's a absolute bonus when it's your 1st time you have been with a older woman x i would love to know what older women think about that .is it the same for them hymmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely love older women but hardly get any messages. Any tips for enticing the ladies ? "
What have you got to offer the older lady?
They're not just on here, to 'train-up' you boys  |
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"Stop calling us "old"!!!!
Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact
True, no denying that.
But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.
But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime" "
Ladies c'mon. Age is just a number! I am fed up of being referred to as 'old' or ' mature'. It makes us sound like we are decrepit!
You're as 'old' as the man you feel....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stop calling us "old"!!!!
Who did that?!? We are "older" though! It's a fact
True, no denying that.
But being searched for that reason alone to me is like being searched out for being of a different nationality... it feels a bit shallow even for a swinger site.
But, as I said above... we are all different in what we seek and enjoy, so I am sure there will be women who would like/ appreciate the OP as a "partner in crime"
Ladies c'mon. Age is just a number! I am fed up of being referred to as 'old' or ' mature'. It makes us sound like we are decrepit!
You're as 'old' as the man you feel.... "
Oh may I call you mam |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Be careful...some of these older women may have 'let themselves go'  "
Absolutely, we are unapologetically liberated, say what we want, do what we want and are never afraid to ask for or do anything...
Be prepared - be very prepared!
PS. We (some of us) don't like training young cubs though. Been there, done that! |
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Firstly the username would put me off. Any messages I get I always check the profile first and with no effort put into it I would not be interested. If you sent a one line message it would simply be deleted but if you'd put effort into any message I would have the decency ro reply with a firm no thanks |
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