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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi |
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"so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi"
Always wondered how it feels to be a cuck. Must be such a mindfuck.
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What do you mean by real Cuckold?
No to Cuckold relationships I've been in were the same... just as no two Cucks or Hotwives were even similar.
For some cuckolds it about control, power, domination..... for others it may be about sexual or physical inadequacies.... sometimes it revolves around a complex cocktail of love and jealousy. It can also be about submission or humiliation....
With some couples it's his gift to her.... and with others it's her gift to him..... the cuck may be an active part of sex or be completely absent... or any mix of the two. Cuckolds can be bi, gay or str8, they can be asexual, caged, or fully active..... couples can even in rare cases be switch and swap roles....
Like all relationships cuckolding is very complicated and nuanced and and should never be oversimplified. |
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"What do you mean by real Cuckold?
No to Cuckold relationships I've been in were the same... just as no two Cucks or Hotwives were even similar.
For some cuckolds it about control, power, domination..... for others it may be about sexual or physical inadequacies.... sometimes it revolves around a complex cocktail of love and jealousy. It can also be about submission or humiliation....
With some couples it's his gift to her.... and with others it's her gift to him..... the cuck may be an active part of sex or be completely absent... or any mix of the two. Cuckolds can be bi, gay or str8, they can be asexual, caged, or fully active..... couples can even in rare cases be switch and swap roles....
Like all relationships cuckolding is very complicated and nuanced and and should never be oversimplified."
Perfectly described.... |
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"so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi
Always wondered how it feels to be a cuck. Must be such a mindfuck.
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For most its not a mindful at all it just a part of their secluded, and comparmentalised.
In most cases it can be viewed as a really intense sexual LARP or live action roleplay game.... where everybody plays out their designated role as agreed, with varying degrees of intensity and sincerity, dependant on the personalities and experience levels of those involved. So for most it's not a mindfuck at all it's just a very intense, very horny, sex game!
Most of the guys I've cuckolded have been powerful, Alphas in their business and daily lives....
And being a submissive or even sissy, cucky in the bedroom is often a release and a liberation..... like a mental pressure valve, it's a chance for them to completely let go... no responsibility and no decision making....
For me personally I couldn't cuck someone I didn't respect!
But again there are all types and personalities involved, so its probable that I'm only drawn to a certain type of couple... |
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Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing? |
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"Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing?"
That may be true in some cases but in truth it's far more nuanced and complicated. Women can be Cuckolded too, in the case of Cuck Queening, where the husband is the one with another woman. And couples can switch and cuck each other... So that already blows the general theory out of the water...
Motivations can be predominantly psychological or sexual and usually complicated mix of the two. It can be about the hot wifes pleasure or the cuckolds, or a mixture of the two.... cuckolds and hotwives can be sub, dom or switch...... Either partner can take the lead in recruiting partners and arranging meets.
It can be an occasional NSA thing or a full on lifestyle or poly relationship, and anything in between... It can be one bull or many... Cuckolds can be caged subs, or active participants.... Cucks can be let, or made to watch, or not present during meets.... It can even take the form of pure verbal cuckolding, with no actual bull involved!
There is no such thing as a real cuckold relationship!
There is no formula!
There is no normal!
There is no rulebook!
Its just individuals enjoying relationships in their own way.... |
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By *inyppMan
over a year ago
watertown |
"Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing?
That may be true in some cases but in truth it's far more nuanced and complicated. Women can be Cuckolded too, in the case of Cuck Queening, where the husband is the one with another woman. And couples can switch and cuck each other... So that already blows the general theory out of the water...
Motivations can be predominantly psychological or sexual and usually complicated mix of the two. It can be about the hot wifes pleasure or the cuckolds, or a mixture of the two.... cuckolds and hotwives can be sub, dom or switch...... Either partner can take the lead in recruiting partners and arranging meets.
It can be an occasional NSA thing or a full on lifestyle or poly relationship, and anything in between... It can be one bull or many... Cuckolds can be caged subs, or active participants.... Cucks can be let, or made to watch, or not present during meets.... It can even take the form of pure verbal cuckolding, with no actual bull involved!
There is no such thing as a real cuckold relationship!
There is no formula!
There is no normal!
There is no rulebook!
Its just individuals enjoying relationships in their own way...."
Eloquently stated!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by real Cuckold?
No to Cuckold relationships I've been in were the same... just as no two Cucks or Hotwives were even similar.
For some cuckolds it about control, power, domination..... for others it may be about sexual or physical inadequacies.... sometimes it revolves around a complex cocktail of love and jealousy. It can also be about submission or humiliation....
With some couples it's his gift to her.... and with others it's her gift to him..... the cuck may be an active part of sex or be completely absent... or any mix of the two. Cuckolds can be bi, gay or str8, they can be asexual, caged, or fully active..... couples can even in rare cases be switch and swap roles....
Like all relationships cuckolding is very complicated and nuanced and and should never be oversimplified."
he means by real cuck as in real cuckold relationships,he never ask for what type of cuck or how are you cucked he just asked if you were a real cuck and not a single wannabe i thought it was a str8 forward ask ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been seeking a REAL cuck for the longest time. Should anyone seek a proper friendship with possibilities of evolving into a relationship....... you know what to do; contact me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing?
That may be true in some cases but in truth it's far more nuanced and complicated. Women can be Cuckolded too, in the case of Cuck Queening, where the husband is the one with another woman. And couples can switch and cuck each other... So that already blows the general theory out of the water...
Motivations can be predominantly psychological or sexual and usually complicated mix of the two. It can be about the hot wifes pleasure or the cuckolds, or a mixture of the two.... cuckolds and hotwives can be sub, dom or switch...... Either partner can take the lead in recruiting partners and arranging meets.
It can be an occasional NSA thing or a full on lifestyle or poly relationship, and anything in between... It can be one bull or many... Cuckolds can be caged subs, or active participants.... Cucks can be let, or made to watch, or not present during meets.... It can even take the form of pure verbal cuckolding, with no actual bull involved!
There is no such thing as a real cuckold relationship!
There is no formula!
There is no normal!
There is no rulebook!
Its just individuals enjoying relationships in their own way...."
thats like saying theres no such thing as swinging or no such thing as bd/sm ? so your saying there no suck thing as no real cuckold couples ? guess that you really dont understand the concept.
anyway the question was real cucks in real cuckold relationships say hi not how do you run your cuckold relationship or anything like that just real cucks say hi |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
Wigan, Lancs. |
Shame your not closer you sound perfect
"so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi
Always wondered how it feels to be a cuck. Must be such a mindfuck.
For most its not a mindful at all it just a part of their secluded, and comparmentalised.
In most cases it can be viewed as a really intense sexual LARP or live action roleplay game.... where everybody plays out their designated role as agreed, with varying degrees of intensity and sincerity, dependant on the personalities and experience levels of those involved. So for most it's not a mindfuck at all it's just a very intense, very horny, sex game!
Most of the guys I've cuckolded have been powerful, Alphas in their business and daily lives....
And being a submissive or even sissy, cucky in the bedroom is often a release and a liberation..... like a mental pressure valve, it's a chance for them to completely let go... no responsibility and no decision making....
For me personally I couldn't cuck someone I didn't respect!
But again there are all types and personalities involved, so its probable that I'm only drawn to a certain type of couple..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing?
That may be true in some cases but in truth it's far more nuanced and complicated. Women can be Cuckolded too, in the case of Cuck Queening, where the husband is the one with another woman. And couples can switch and cuck each other... So that already blows the general theory out of the water...
Motivations can be predominantly psychological or sexual and usually complicated mix of the two. It can be about the hot wifes pleasure or the cuckolds, or a mixture of the two.... cuckolds and hotwives can be sub, dom or switch...... Either partner can take the lead in recruiting partners and arranging meets.
It can be an occasional NSA thing or a full on lifestyle or poly relationship, and anything in between... It can be one bull or many... Cuckolds can be caged subs, or active participants.... Cucks can be let, or made to watch, or not present during meets.... It can even take the form of pure verbal cuckolding, with no actual bull involved!
There is no such thing as a real cuckold relationship!
There is no formula!
There is no normal!
There is no rulebook!
Its just individuals enjoying relationships in their own way...."
Yeah but cuckqueen don't get humiliating like cuckold does? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by real Cuckold?
No to Cuckold relationships I've been in were the same... just as no two Cucks or Hotwives were even similar.
For some cuckolds it about control, power, domination..... for others it may be about sexual or physical inadequacies.... sometimes it revolves around a complex cocktail of love and jealousy. It can also be about submission or humiliation....
With some couples it's his gift to her.... and with others it's her gift to him..... the cuck may be an active part of sex or be completely absent... or any mix of the two. Cuckolds can be bi, gay or str8, they can be asexual, caged, or fully active..... couples can even in rare cases be switch and swap roles....
Like all relationships cuckolding is very complicated and nuanced and and should never be oversimplified."
Wow. Calm yourself down Karen before you blow a fuse and let the man have his 15 seconds of fame. We all know what you are going on about and it's true but let him have his glory ffs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bit confused by what is/isn't a cuck.
My understanding is that 'cuck' kind of feeds into this idea men are supposed to control and own 'their woman ' and her sexuality.
(not trying to insult anyone, these are pretty pervasive social norms)
So by "letting" her have sex with someone else he is participating in his own submission and degradation. - and he gets off on that.
So if neither of you believe in any of that, don't see it as any sort of threat to masculinity and don't see anything degrading about it, it's not a cuck thing?
That may be true in some cases but in truth it's far more nuanced and complicated. Women can be Cuckolded too, in the case of Cuck Queening, where the husband is the one with another woman. And couples can switch and cuck each other... So that already blows the general theory out of the water...
Motivations can be predominantly psychological or sexual and usually complicated mix of the two. It can be about the hot wifes pleasure or the cuckolds, or a mixture of the two.... cuckolds and hotwives can be sub, dom or switch...... Either partner can take the lead in recruiting partners and arranging meets.
It can be an occasional NSA thing or a full on lifestyle or poly relationship, and anything in between... It can be one bull or many... Cuckolds can be caged subs, or active participants.... Cucks can be let, or made to watch, or not present during meets.... It can even take the form of pure verbal cuckolding, with no actual bull involved!
There is no such thing as a real cuckold relationship!
There is no formula!
There is no normal!
There is no rulebook!
Its just individuals enjoying relationships in their own way....
thats like saying theres no such thing as swinging or no such thing as bd/sm ? so your saying there no suck thing as no real cuckold couples ? guess that you really dont understand the concept.
anyway the question was real cucks in real cuckold relationships say hi not how do you run your cuckold relationship or anything like that just real cucks say hi"
But they are majority of cucks and hotwife scene the man from that partner is bi if not then Stag and Vixen! |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi
Always wondered how it feels to be a cuck. Must be such a mindfuck.
For most its not a mindful at all it just a part of their secluded, and comparmentalised.
In most cases it can be viewed as a really intense sexual LARP or live action roleplay game.... where everybody plays out their designated role as agreed, with varying degrees of intensity and sincerity, dependant on the personalities and experience levels of those involved. So for most it's not a mindfuck at all it's just a very intense, very horny, sex game!
Most of the guys I've cuckolded have been powerful, Alphas in their business and daily lives....
And being a submissive or even sissy, cucky in the bedroom is often a release and a liberation..... like a mental pressure valve, it's a chance for them to completely let go... no responsibility and no decision making....
For me personally I couldn't cuck someone I didn't respect!
But again there are all types and personalities involved, so its probable that I'm only drawn to a certain type of couple..."
Fully agree and Love this means deffinition. I found out the other day that female cuck is called a cuckqueen. |
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"so we all know fab is full of wannabes and dreamers so this post is for us real cucks to come forwad and say hi
real as in your in a long term relationship ie married no fwb or pretend just real cucks ...come and say hi
Always wondered how it feels to be a cuck. Must be such a mindfuck.
For most its not a mindful at all it just a part of their secluded, and comparmentalised.
In most cases it can be viewed as a really intense sexual LARP or live action roleplay game.... where everybody plays out their designated role as agreed, with varying degrees of intensity and sincerity, dependant on the personalities and experience levels of those involved. So for most it's not a mindfuck at all it's just a very intense, very horny, sex game!
Most of the guys I've cuckolded have been powerful, Alphas in their business and daily lives....
And being a submissive or even sissy, cucky in the bedroom is often a release and a liberation..... like a mental pressure valve, it's a chance for them to completely let go... no responsibility and no decision making....
For me personally I couldn't cuck someone I didn't respect!
But again there are all types and personalities involved, so its probable that I'm only drawn to a certain type of couple..."
Very well said, I like your sentiment |
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We are a normal married couple but I’ve always enjoyed being her cuck.
It’s not about stereotypes or labels, it’s about what works for you both and what you enjoy. For me it’s about her enjoyment totally and me being supportive in that.
Most women that are on here with their partners will admit that they like a different cock to play with at times, what’s wrong with that ? Cuckolding is just an extension of that act and it’s good to express your sexuality and needs at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s easy to see those with the cuckolding life experience know it’s about the dynamics and what the right guy brings to them.
Still looking for a couple so watching the thread with interest  |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"What do you mean by real Cuckold?
No to Cuckold relationships I've been in were the same... just as no two Cucks or Hotwives were even similar.
For some cuckolds it about control, power, domination..... for others it may be about sexual or physical inadequacies.... sometimes it revolves around a complex cocktail of love and jealousy. It can also be about submission or humiliation....
With some couples it's his gift to her.... and with others it's her gift to him..... the cuck may be an active part of sex or be completely absent... or any mix of the two. Cuckolds can be bi, gay or str8, they can be asexual, caged, or fully active..... couples can even in rare cases be switch and swap roles....
Like all relationships cuckolding is very complicated and nuanced and and should never be oversimplified."
This is beautifully described. We have written a book about our cuckold experience x |
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Full cuckold couple here X have been for many years! Hubby is caged and no play between us. He is bi and has participated in play with me and a bull however only when I allow him.
Unfortunately some men put cuckold on their profiles however they don't understand what it means |
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"Full cuckold couple here X have been for many years! Hubby is caged and no play between us. He is bi and has participated in play with me and a bull however only when I allow him.
Unfortunately some men put cuckold on their profiles however they don't understand what it means "
Forgot to add we are very happily married and have been for 28 years x |
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"Full cuckold couple here X have been for many years! Hubby is caged and no play between us. He is bi and has participated in play with me and a bull however only when I allow him.
Unfortunately some men put cuckold on their profiles however they don't understand what it means "
v kinky |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
Wigan, Lancs. |
Sound perfect and same as us
"Full cuckold couple here X have been for many years! Hubby is caged and no play between us. He is bi and has participated in play with me and a bull however only when I allow him.
Unfortunately some men put cuckold on their profiles however they don't understand what it means
Forgot to add we are very happily married and have been for 28 years x"
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Kinky Carpenter
Great and eloquent posts!
Can I say what a lovely, honest and refreshing profile you have
I am orally bi and have enjoyed sucking cock with my wife on many occasions now
It’s a very intense and sensual experience and we aren’t ashamed to say how much we love entertaining a man together x
What you say about ‘my gift to her’ really hit the spot, that’s why I always call it. The freedom to fuck other men with guilty or jealous repercussion is MY gift to her.
I simply don’t have the body or equipment that these superior studs have or the energy and stamina to satisfy and make her moan like they do.
Our bills have always been polite and some have become real friends.
We realise that our marriage and sex lift in particulate had become accustomed to this dynamic and it racists on the play window only.
I’m an alpha businessman in my real life and answer to no body but in the bedroom I wish to see my wife with her lover and even perform oral sex on him, which we both enjoy, that’s our business and nobody else.
It IS a release like a pressure cooker from real life and serving everyone a drink and having a whisky in my hand whilst my wife is devoured and enjoys her stud is like the most intense kind of live porn not every man gets to enjoy.
It’s like your writing empties the contents of my head.
Every cuckold/hot wife relationship is different and unique.
Every couple needs to talk and establish their needs.
My wife is extremely selective and thankfully every man she’s ever had has been an UPGRADE on my body, cock length and girth.
She’s not here to fuck everybody.
If others want to have a sub/master relationship or enjoy a more cruel humiliation then that’s fine too.
Whatever works for them, we all have different needs.
Every meet we push new boundaries, there was a time when my wife only gave her men blow jobs with a flavoured condom. Nowadays she can’t wait to taste the musk of their balls and shaft and wouldn’t dream of masking that pleasure. Sucking a shaft and balls at the same time and meeting for a lingering kiss at the bell end is something everyone couple should do!
Well said Kinky carpenter! |
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"I've been seeking a REAL cuck for the longest time. Should anyone seek a proper friendship with possibilities of evolving into a relationship....... you know what to do; contact me "
Hi, would love to get to know you! |
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