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Serious question for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ladies apart from being nice and polite , respectful and complimentary and showing a face photo at the very least .......what's a guy to do to wine you , dine you and 69 you on here ?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Be the kind of man they're attracted to.

I'm not saying that in any way sarcastically but that is basically what it comes down to in the end.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman  over a year ago

North West


"Be the kind of man they're attracted to.

I'm not saying that in any way sarcastically but that is basically what it comes down to in the end. "

Agreed... anyone asking to wine and dine me would be deleted haha!

Read profiles, be upfront about what you want... and just hope your their type lol x

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By *an hjCouple  over a year ago

Stowmarket

You were doing ok, until the dine and 69 bit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have a sense of humour is a great start

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Be interesting and interested. Listen, be respectful, and treat us like people rather than the next goal. That’s a good start

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By *moothGrooveWoman  over a year ago

Durham

Having an exciting and engaging profile is always a good start

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich

I suspect that most people look at the profile first before reading a message. If they like the look of the person and there are no red flags on the profile they will then open the message.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Like the look of you?

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By *assNGuyCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s vastly nsa fun so wine good, dine fine for some but not really looking for a date and 69 should lower expectations.

Yes can and may happen but don’t go into meets with 3 step process. Any chat and meet can end at any stage even on the meet there has to be some connection in person.

Not looking to be used by every person I can find want to find value in my meets for them to proceed.

You may been jesting but see loads of messages whinging and for us its a turn off. We sympathise men have it difficult as your ten a penny and most readily available resource.

Would you go up to someone in a bar and say hey what can i change so i can fuck you!

I read some profiles and think yummy then see the way they post in forums and drop them like a hot brick before even start mailing, lol think about how you come across is best idea.

Maybe try find a partner into swinging, cement relationship and take at own pace then return to the community

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes it won’t matter how great your profile is or how well written your first message is if the attraction isn’t there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Some great comments and advice ladies , Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sometimes it won’t matter how great your profile is or how well written your first message is if the attraction isn’t there! "

How I wish I met all your requirements x

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