I know this maybe the wrong place to look for dates and the possibility of a relationship but where else for something non vanilla?
Has anyone had any luck finding a partner on here or is it like the proverbial needle in a haystack? |
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"I met my partner here.. We are still together.. And still play.. Well I do.. He does at clubs etc when we're allowed to go again.. "
Nice to hear it actually can happen, we’re you both actively looking at the time or did it just happen? |
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"No luck yet and I find dating sites are just like a hook up site. I'm also a slightly misanthropic Hermit too so that doesn't help haha."
I find that the normal dating sites as soon as you mention non vanilla type relationship they don’t want to know |
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"No luck yet and I find dating sites are just like a hook up site. I'm also a slightly misanthropic Hermit too so that doesn't help haha.
I find that the normal dating sites as soon as you mention non vanilla type relationship they don’t want to know"
I want both, I want romantic love making but also being pissed inside of  |
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Go to a swingers club and you’ll find plenty of couples that attend. Some of those couples met the normal way, in a bar, tinder etc.. however a lot of the couples I have spoken to, admitted they met at a club or social.
So get involved in the scene and it’ll just increase your chances of meeting a partner.  |
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Why is this the wrong place? Especially if you see a future relationship involving swinging as an aspect? If so sounds a great place to search. If you find someone you'll be able to invest in building a relationship together both knowing when the time is right your both up for staying in the lifestyle. Takes away the pressure of investing in something that could ultimately fail because the other person (like most of the population) is not intrested in swinging. Sounds the perfect place to look. If you find someone just be clear with them to if its causal or a relationship you seek to build with them. No one likes to be fucked about. And if it's a relationship you seek with them be willing to put the swinging on the back burner for a bit and concentrate on the relationship (with the happy knowledge both of you are up for it when the time is right).
We met on here. Granted we both were not seeking a relationship but when you know, you know. Point being its possible to find a relationship on the scene. We did and so has so many others we've come across (no pun intended) on the scene. |
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We met on a site like this one and then attended a party, neither were looking for a relationship at that time but we just clicked.
It can happen buddy as there are others like us who have gotten together on here too. |
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I am like yourself
I would love to meet someone regularly developing into a relationship
I just end up getting the following response when u get asked wat are you looking for n i tell them
Bit of company
Social mayb dates
Passion
Then they reply
THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE, GO N TRY POF N TINDER FOR A RELATIONSHIP
But beleive me they are more like this
All they want in there is a quick fuck n bj just cos they see u online
There are people i know who have met their partners on here and had kids , so they are happy.
Think there are are a few who give me shit cos mayb a bit jelous as they are not in my piccys or videos
Mayb if someone got to know me a bit more then they would be more thsn welcome to receive a daily bj off me n more
But hey ho
Their loss then
Missing out on summit daily
From the same person
More than the amount of fellas on here who are just lookin forca quick last minute fuck n go dont hear off them again
TILL MONTHS MAYB YEARS LATER
Then i get msgs off them asking to meet up with them again
When i ask were they have been turns out they managed to get into a relationship never worked out. They split up then come back on here
But have a cheek to say to me this is not a dating site
If u met soneine on here n u both got on well n were meetin regularly
Then why not couple up then u can njoy the sex as often as u can
Instead of bein fwb/fb shit
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I have spent along time single , probably joined here for the wrong reasons , have my own insecurities, so I would love to build a relationship with someone on here. The idea of something honest and open makes finding a future partner on here more appealing than conventional dating sites. Vanilla isn’t a option on the preferences, but when you haven’t had it for a long time it’s becomes a fantasy too. Be nice to meet someone likeminded for a mixture of the too. |
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"I am like yourself
I would love to meet someone regularly developing into a relationship
I just end up getting the following response when u get asked wat are you looking for n i tell them
Bit of company
Social mayb dates
Passion
Then they reply
THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE, GO N TRY POF N TINDER FOR A RELATIONSHIP
But beleive me they are more like this
All they want in there is a quick fuck n bj just cos they see u online
There are people i know who have met their partners on here and had kids , so they are happy.
Think there are are a few who give me shit cos mayb a bit jelous as they are not in my piccys or videos
Mayb if someone got to know me a bit more then they would be more thsn welcome to receive a daily bj off me n more
But hey ho
Their loss then
Missing out on summit daily
From the same person
More than the amount of fellas on here who are just lookin forca quick last minute fuck n go dont hear off them again
TILL MONTHS MAYB YEARS LATER
Then i get msgs off them asking to meet up with them again
When i ask were they have been turns out they managed to get into a relationship never worked out. They split up then come back on here
But have a cheek to say to me this is not a dating site
If u met soneine on here n u both got on well n were meetin regularly
Then why not couple up then u can njoy the sex as often as u can
Instead of bein fwb/fb shit
Exactly! I find it hard to meet someone like minded. As much as I love the idea of nsa on off meets I’m actually not really interested in that. Ideally would like to meet someone to date and enjoy each other’s company as a couple and possibly attend clubs events etc together.
I like to read about peole who met on here, clicked and now in a relationship.. good for them.
If you mention swinging or anything kinky to people you meet on ‘normal’ dating sites they look at you like your a perv or something lol so yeah I think fab would be the ideal place to meet someone like minded for a relationship.. but alas, I’m yet to find someone who’s wanting a proper relationship in fab!!
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"I joined fab 6 years ago and men were laughing when I mentioned that I would love to have a boyfriend from fab. But one found me and I have everything now, a relationship and an amazing sex."
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