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Do men let there women play alone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"
your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.
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Was it a big turn on?"
Yes! Huge. I drove M to a guys house we’d met before and handed her over skipping out of her coat as she went in. Nothing much on underneath. I waited in the car! So good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my girl fucking herself I just ordered her a new dildo and bullet vibrator for her clit
She usually lies on the bed then starts messaging me telling me that she's busy fucking herself makes me jerk off for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."
Amen  do you mean to tell me that there won't be an early morning mass?! |
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To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x"
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on |
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on "
Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on
Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x"
Yeah that makes total sense. I gotta say I actually enjoy watching her more then joining in that's for sure |
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on
Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x
Yeah that makes total sense. I gotta say I actually enjoy watching her more then joining in that's for sure "
Yep hubby loves to sit back and watch and will join in when he feels I want him to x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on
Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x"
Exactly our dynamic too  |
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x
I definitely do like watching her getting fucked it's such a massive turn on
Oh hubby does too and for me i put on a show with a guy to tease and show the hubby how naughty I can be, so if he wasn't there I might as well go and play with whoever for my own benefit not ours as a couple, if that makes sense x
Exactly our dynamic too "
Weve come across every kind of couples, and each to their own what works for them, for us though one of us wanting to meet without the other would make us question why??! We are a couple on a swinging site not singles x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem with my mrs playing with other men alone it adds to the fun of knowing she and the other party are having fun as thats all it is. For me it's a massive turn on knowing other men are enjoying my fabulous wife's breasts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both say it's very hot but we got into this as it's about us both doing things together so no matter how hot...we won't go there  "
We’re in this space too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about.  |
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"Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about. "
Most definitely, it's about what works for you as a cpl, can most def see the appeal  .
Have fun guys x |
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"Adrian loves when I meet on my own or he comes home to find me, I do it because it's something that excites us both and that's what being on here is about. "
Exactly, its whatever does it for you both
thats the great thing about the swinging scene we love how even if people are into things we aren't or us for them everyone is very respectful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do enjoy my partner to play alone if she wants to as it is an added thrill. Her dressing up for him or following his instructions and then the thrill off maybe getting photos, vidoes and phone calls. |
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Never to many nut jobs out there. Always wanna be able to protect the person I love most in this world. Here loads of stories of ladies going on dates and turning in to a real bad situation. We have a friend who got her drink spiked by some scumbag
Fair play for who do it but definitely not something Sam ever wants to do |
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"To be honest I wouldn't want to whether hubby let me or not, for me the biggest turn on is seeing what it is doing to my hubby not the play with others, but everyone has different things that are their kicks x"
That is everything ?? and alot of people really don't understand it x |
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My mrs is not a swinger but in our open marriage she meets hear and their with her men friends. I am happy with that but would prefer to be their myself. Their are lots of good reasons for men wanting there wives hear and not their. |
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"Just out of curiosity, what are the women who play alone thoughts on men playing alone??? "
I’d be more than happy to see my fell go off, have a session… send me photos/videos and tell me all about it when he returns  |
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We have a friend that my wife plays alone with , but only about twice a year when he is in area , I am also ok with her playing alone in club as long as I know what room she is in or is within site , I sometimes play alone outside of club , but we enjoy meets better when together, as if not playing as couple we also enjoy watching our partners having a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."
No grumps on friday! It's a valid question x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.
No grumps on friday! It's a valid question x"
Thankyou guys although tbh we just ignored him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to meet alone, for me the enjoyment and excitement comes from sharing the experiences with M.
K "
This is my feelings too.
I won't play alone with M or F. Partner has to be part of it as that's the whole point of us Swinging together. Our choice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only play as a couple, i don't have any interest in playing on my own or Mr J playing on his own as I get off at the fact I'm there with him and were both in the moment together fucking
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet.
Amen do you mean to tell me that there won't be an early morning mass?!"
I can tell you I have an early morning mass most mornings but it’s nothing to do with prayer  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be broken… any other women on here get turned on if their partner comes back with juicy sex stories? "
1000% me. You're not alone. It's actually what got us into this. Me going off and sending him videos and him telling me what to do with the guy.
Then on the way home he would tell me what I should do to myself and then when I get in, he reclaims me.
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"Becky can play alone, as can I, but only with our friends and people we know and trust.
Never a random. "
Seems we’ve caused some confusion judging by some messages. 
We would only play separately with good friends that we’ve played with before.
Never with someone we hadn’t met before, especially after an experience Becky had.
Trust is everything.
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"
I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.
I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so. |
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do
I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.
I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so."
But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?
I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership. |
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do
I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.
I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so.
But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?
I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership."
I can't speak for him.
However, if my husband chose to meet others, why would it matter to me who he was meeting? I'm not meeting them...
I would want to know who he was meeting, where he was going and when he was ciming home, but would have no other interest in a meet I wouldn't be involved in. |
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do
I'm not comfortable with the word "let". It suggests control and ownership to me and we're a partnership.
I do meet alone and he is welcome to as well, should he choose to do so.
But do you discuss who each of you is meeting and if one of you isn't comfortable then the meet doesn't happen? Or would you go against your partners wishes or back?
I think the term 'let' is a simplest term for both of you being in agreement, rather than one of ownership.
I can't speak for him.
However, if my husband chose to meet others, why would it matter to me who he was meeting? I'm not meeting them...
I would want to know who he was meeting, where he was going and when he was ciming home, but would have no other interest in a meet I wouldn't be involved in."
And no I wouldn't meet behind his back. That's cheating not swinging |
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By *oneybeesCouple
over a year ago
Worcs, West Midlands |
Wife is allowed to play alone whenever she wants to. Last time a BBC joined her at home all day whilst I was at work, came home from work they were still in bed, he also stayed the night and they started again the next morning until about lunchtime. AWESOME |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife plays alone also has her own account. Best experience was coming home from work to find her naked on all fours and a guy balls deep fucking her on our living room floor "
What a great comment |
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When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.
She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time. |
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"When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.
She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time."
This is very much how our dynamic works at times too !
She’s always preferred long term guys as you can build up trust and a rapport but it’s all about my wife enjoying herself and me supporting her in doing that rather than ‘letting’ her ! |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."
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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago
Northwich |
"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do"
We always meet as a couple but I (he) always makes an excuse to leave her with the guy for a while so that I can return and see how far they have got |
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I have a Hotwife friend. She come to mine. We have food, drinks. Chats and flirting. Then we have fun. She sends her husband regular picture updates.
I think next time we may send him some FaceTime video. |
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By *IKA26Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
That’s for us too love to watch T enjoy herself and maybe me join in when invited but if she really wanted to go it alone I wouldn’t object....don’t own her after all and I know she’ll still come home but safety is paramount.. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Char is totally free to play with anyone whenever she wants. Most times we'll agree to meet as a couple first, but if it's someone that she's built up some trust with then I'm happy for her to have a first meet on her own.
In the past I've sat in the hotel bar while Char has gone with a guy to his room for an hour. On another occasion a guy that we'd seen before came round for coffee while I was at work and I got sent pictures of him getting a BJ. And more recently another guy came round and they sent me pics of them fucking while I was working.
I'd never stop Char for doing whatever she wanted, and our agreement is that I know about it either before, during or after. As long as it's never a secret then it's all good.
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I (Spearmint) play with girlfriends alone, but would only consider proper friends not ‘we met at a party one’ friends. Used to go play at my girlfriends nearly weekly. Her hubby had to stay downstairs while mine started at home.  |
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"When we started I was always present / involved when my wife was with another man. Later I was happy for her to meet guys solo as long as she was going to be safe. It was easier to arrange meets like this for childcare reasons.
She always used condoms on her meets and I knew she’d stop if I asked her to. I loved watching her get ready and then tell me all about it after. I understand why this wouldn’t be to everyone’s tastes but it suited us and I never got jealous. I was happy for her that she was having a good time.
This is very much how our dynamic works at times too !
She’s always preferred long term guys as you can build up trust and a rapport but it’s all about my wife enjoying herself and me supporting her in doing that rather than ‘letting’ her !"
Yes exactly. I hate that term “I LET my wife play” like the man owns her. We also preferred regular friends rather than one offs. More of a connection. |
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over a year ago
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"I've always said to my wife as long as its not feelings as in love and its just lust or the fact she horny go for it "
My husband said the same thing. Don't lie if asked, and don't go falling in love and mess up our home family.
I've come home late or stay out overnight countless times, he's also had sex with me many times when I've been sloppy from other men. Never been an issue. Xx |
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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago
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"I've always said to my wife as long as its not feelings as in love and its just lust or the fact she horny go for it
My husband said the same thing. Don't lie if asked, and don't go falling in love and mess up our home family.
I've come home late or stay out overnight countless times, he's also had sex with me many times when I've been sloppy from other men. Never been an issue. Xx"
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My concerns are she's happy and safe, apart from that, she's free to do as she chooses, she's my wife not my property.
She generally prefers me either watching or joining in but has one guy she will spend a night with and a few trusted guys she's happy to wander off with in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From a safety aspect, would rather hubby was there with me "
If it's safety you want hun,cum with me literally our men can go have couple of drinks together and await the filthy Pics or phone call |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From a safety aspect, would rather hubby was there with me
If it's safety you want hun,cum with me literally our men can go have couple of drinks together and await the filthy Pics or phone call "
Now you’ve got me intrigued. PM me please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs vixen absolutely has permission to play alone as she has done on a few occasions this is usually with someone we have met and spoken to before and have trust with if not then Mr stag is usually around to step in if need be..I have sat in the other bedroom and listened found this to be absolutely horny as hell but it's each to their own xxx Mr stag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I love being that male that being invited into there sex lives
Absolutely this! I consider it a priveledge that I'm permitted to fuck the partner or wife of the couple's I play with."
Yes it is a privilege when a husband shares the most sacred thing he has |
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Speaking as the single male in my experience the results are mixed. Sometimes even though hubby isn't physically present his eagerness to know what is going on and apatite for pics as they are happening can be a factor that ruins the vibe. There is a delicate balance to be had. So with some couples I've met everyone has tangibly had much more fun with hubby there physically and fully involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to walk in on my wife getting fucked is this something alot of couples do your asking that question on a swingers site!!!!!!!.......No most couples on here are on because they have mistaken it for prayer group and haven't worked out how to log out yet."
I must have got confused!
Think it’s all the “god I’m coming” that threw me. |
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