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Chunky BHM & their admirers.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So a positivity thread for all the bigger guys (BHM) and the people that love them.
So if your an admirer of a bigger man, or you are a bigger man, get commenting and let's all get intouch.  |
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I'm a big man, but I wouldn't go so far as to say handsome.
Why can't I get the "Get Carter" quote out of my head?
"You're a big man, but you're in bad shape. With me it's a full time job. Now behave yourself..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don’t want fat men!
Trust me I know as I am one and not been wanted for a decade or more! 
They want the Geordie Essex Chelsea types or roid ragers that spend their life in the gym!! "
Oh how wrong you are. Focus on one negative facet of your being and your time here will be difficult. Nearly all men have a tough time on fab’, it’s a fact.
Btw, I’m a fat man having a blast on here. So perhaps being fat isn’t the issue………  |
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"Women don’t want fat men!
Trust me I know as I am one and not been wanted for a decade or more!
They want the Geordie Essex Chelsea types or roid ragers
that spend their life in the gym!! "
Some do and some don't mate.
Women generally don't find negativity and self pity very attractive.
You get out what you put in, try it, you may be surprised |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's always nice to be appreciated but I hope people appreciation for me would extent beyond my physical features. I'm far more than just my my frame."
I agree. However, to be noticed for a certian thing and provoke the attention of another, then gives you the opportunity to put forward all your other amazing qualities.
Remember it take one little spark to start a fire. Have a great day mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all bout personal taste would you wanna be everyone’s cup of tea ? I wouldn’t I’d rather go for personality and similar kinks than looks after all I’m after a play mate not a husband lol |
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I’m a big guy and I have a great time on here. I’ve met some gorgeous ladies in AtlantisEvolution, my local club who see past the body and like the personality. All about personal taste. Ladies have the choice on here, I accept I’m no oil painting, but hope the ladies look past that.
So on that note, any ladies in or near stoke, look me up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women don’t want fat men!
Trust me I know as I am one and not been wanted for a decade or more!
They want the Geordie Essex Chelsea types or roid ragers that spend their life in the gym!! "
That’s a very unfair generalisation. I love big men, but I’m also more attracted to somebodies personality than their body size. |
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"Women don’t want fat men!
Trust me I know as I am one and not been wanted for a decade or more!
They want the Geordie Essex Chelsea types or roid ragers that spend their life in the gym!! "
You couldn’t be further from the truth.
Love island rejects do absolutely sod all for me… and I am automatically physically attracted to big bearded burly bears of men with body hair and the physical ability to carry me back to his cave! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Larger guys are just as beautiful as leaner guys. I’m a BBW myself but I do have a soft spot for tall larger framed men especially if they have a goatee and shaved head lol. "
I'm off to shave my head and stand in a grow bag. I have a goatee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Larger guys are just as beautiful as leaner guys. I’m a BBW myself but I do have a soft spot for tall larger framed men especially if they have a goatee and shaved head lol. "
Well feel free to swing by and say hello bab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think those that are confident with who they are and dont cobsantly moan they are getting nowhere will do best ...know a few larger guys who alway do well on here or in clubs ... its the consant moaning or wanting reassurance that puts people off ... to be a swinger / or play on this scene you have to be a confident outgoing person no matter who you are to succeed especially men
there are larger men on here who do very well ...before we got into cuckolding my hubs who a big tall large guy did very well on here ..but hes also a confident guy not shy looked after himself so i dont think its about do you like or not like iys more about how you carry yourself
now dont shoot me for saying this as its just my opinion .. why do you keep bumping a post thats dying ie not gathering interest ... to me it looks a little desperate .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there is a right answer, if you start new threads some will think why start new threads for the same thing, bump it and it's flogging a dead horse!
Anyway, another big bloke here, probably on the wrong side of the fat fence but there we go  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i think those that are confident with who they are and dont cobsantly moan they are getting nowhere will do best ...know a few larger guys who alway do well on here or in clubs ... its the consant moaning or wanting reassurance that puts people off ... to be a swinger / or play on this scene you have to be a confident outgoing person no matter who you are to succeed especially men
there are larger men on here who do very well ...before we got into cuckolding my hubs who a big tall large guy did very well on here ..but hes also a confident guy not shy looked after himself so i dont think its about do you like or not like iys more about how you carry yourself
now dont shoot me for saying this as its just my opinion .. why do you keep bumping a post thats dying ie not gathering interest ... to me it looks a little desperate ...."
And your entitled. Personally I disagree. I look at it, as somebody said. Instead of making multiple posts about the same thing or the same sort of thing, why not bump posts, so newer members or members who missed the post before can interact.
Isn't that the man idea of a forum.
To respond to the other bit of your reply, I'm quite a confident guy myself. Although I've never been to a club, I'm not shy in my approach.
I also think threads like this can ease bigger blokes who have not interacted before to interact, as they can see a few positive responses, instead of been maybe a little nervous to comment on a new thread with little interaction.
Like I said at the start your opinion is welcomed and valued. Thank you, an I hope my response maybe gives you a insight to why I do it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i think those that are confident with who they are and dont cobsantly moan they are getting nowhere will do best ...know a few larger guys who alway do well on here or in clubs ... its the consant moaning or wanting reassurance that puts people off ... to be a swinger / or play on this scene you have to be a confident outgoing person no matter who you are to succeed especially men
there are larger men on here who do very well ...before we got into cuckolding my hubs who a big tall large guy did very well on here ..but hes also a confident guy not shy looked after himself so i dont think its about do you like or not like iys more about how you carry yourself
now dont shoot me for saying this as its just my opinion .. why do you keep bumping a post thats dying ie not gathering interest ... to me it looks a little desperate ....
And your entitled. Personally I disagree. I look at it, as somebody said. Instead of making multiple posts about the same thing or the same sort of thing, why not bump posts, so newer members or members who missed the post before can interact.
Isn't that the man idea of a forum.
To respond to the other bit of your reply, I'm quite a confident guy myself. Although I've never been to a club, I'm not shy in my approach.
I also think threads like this can ease bigger blokes who have not interacted before to interact, as they can see a few positive responses, instead of been maybe a little nervous to comment on a new thread with little interaction.
Like I said at the start your opinion is welcomed and valued. Thank you, an I hope my response maybe gives you a insight to why I do it. "
Also i apologise about some of the spelling. I was trying to do two things at once. Big hands and quick messaging don't mix. Lol. |
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