Does it come across too demanding asking for photos of the person top to bottom before engaging any further. I once had a meet where he was abit coy about sending cock pics... I understood after the meet why he did that. It was a little disappointing and I didn't seek another meet because of that fact. If I saw lots of good body shots, would I been in the same predicament?  |
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It’s all about attraction right, don’t think it’s demanding to ask to see what matters to you.
We all have preferences and asking to see those attributes can help you make decisions on who meets your preferences.
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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Not really demanding at all, after a couple of pleasant mails the exchange of pics will obviously attract you more or could end amicably if either one of you dislikes. Keep asking because you will also get rid of the fakes on here. |
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"Does it come across too demanding asking for photos of the person top to bottom before engaging any further. I once had a meet where he was abit coy about sending cock pics... I understood after the meet why he did that. It was a little disappointing and I didn't seek another meet because of that fact. If I saw lots of good body shots, would I been in the same predicament? "
Fab is a sweet shop , it’s nice to see the goods in full before tasting |
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"Does it come across too demanding asking for photos of the person top to bottom before engaging any further. I once had a meet where he was abit coy about sending cock pics... I understood after the meet why he did that. It was a little disappointing and I didn't seek another meet because of that fact. If I saw lots of good body shots, would I been in the same predicament? "
I don't think it's demanding at all, I have photos in my friends section that are recent and show me for who I am. Fully understand that I may not be to everyone's tastes etc. All I ask is people be honest and say no thanks or not for me.. people who have sent those messages to me have always received a polite reply back no point getting mardy like some people do here after all aren't we supposed to be adults on here. |
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"Burnt so learnt...
Met chap 8st heavier in person than his old photo!.
Now ask uptodate photo.. more fab savvy these days
Wow thats rediculous, hopefully he didnt get any for being a liar"
my guy got more meets from my veri. I'm sure some men just meet up for veris |
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"It’s all about attraction right, don’t think it’s demanding to ask to see what matters to you.
We all have preferences and asking to see those attributes can help you make decisions on who meets your preferences.
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This 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds appropriate, although I wouldn’t send a photo of my vagina or a nude of any kind. If I was going to meet, the guy would get a face pic and a video call so that we can both be sure that we are genuine |
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Not demanding at all. If I approach someone first then I always add pictures to the message. Face and full body. I don't go all out slinging my cock in your face but its there on the full body pictures to be seen.
I see it more as common courtesy to determine attraction as there's no point wasting each others time.
If I don't get a reply or I get a polite no then I don't take it to heart. Not everyone is for everyone. But I understand that others may not be as comfortable with themselves/this potential outcome. |
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It depends what you are after, and what attracts you. For example, if you want something physical specifically, such as breast size or cock size, and these are essential for a meet, then ask away. For many, ourselves included, it can appear shallow, but it is down to you to use fab how it suits you. There is no right or wrong way.
For us, attraction is a complex and multifaceted creature. We consider character and personality very desirable, along with other attributes beyond purely physical attributes. While a basic level of physical attraction is important, it can easily be won or lost on other aspects of the person. |
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If that's one of your requirements, that you've set out on your profile then no, I don't think it's unreasonable.
I myself have particular requirements that I'm a little flexible on and others that I'm not.
I think there are too many people on fab who seem to think this is Blind date |
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"It depends what you are after, and what attracts you. For example, if you want something physical specifically, such as breast size or cock size, and these are essential for a meet, then ask away. For many, ourselves included, it can appear shallow, but it is down to you to use fab how it suits you. There is no right or wrong way.
For us, attraction is a complex and multifaceted creature. We consider character and personality very desirable, along with other attributes beyond purely physical attributes. While a basic level of physical attraction is important, it can easily be won or lost on other aspects of the person."
not when You can't even feel much when it's in... for me size does matter  |
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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago
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"It depends what you are after, and what attracts you. For example, if you want something physical specifically, such as breast size or cock size, and these are essential for a meet, then ask away. For many, ourselves included, it can appear shallow, but it is down to you to use fab how it suits you. There is no right or wrong way.
For us, attraction is a complex and multifaceted creature. We consider character and personality very desirable, along with other attributes beyond purely physical attributes. While a basic level of physical attraction is important, it can easily be won or lost on other aspects of the person.
not when You can't even feel much when it's in... for me size does matter "
I agree hun x I’m not a size queen but it does sometimes  |
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"not when You can't even feel much when it's in... for me size does matter "
Which is absolutely fine! So, if that is an actual requirement for you to meet someone, then why wouldn't you want to know before hand?
Everyone uses fab to suit their own wants, needs, and desires. |
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"not when You can't even feel much when it's in... for me size does matter
Which is absolutely fine! So, if that is an actual requirement for you to meet someone, then why wouldn't you want to know before hand?
Everyone uses fab to suit their own wants, needs, and desires."
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