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over a year ago
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"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not"
is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not
is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op?"
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
None .I keep my filters tight and I don't get a lot of messages .That's the way I like it as well. I don't see the point of wanting loads of messages that you can't answer or even look at. |
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"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not
is there a slight touch of innuendo in this thread op?"
Get your mind out of the gutter ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Alot of message can be read without pressing on them as just say a few words."
Some can but I space my messages out so that won’t work with mine. But clear read messages out of my outbox as I they get read or deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None .I keep my filters tight and I don't get a lot of messages .That's the way I like it as well. I don't see the point of wanting loads of messages that you can't answer or even look at. "
This, makes sense and saves everyone's time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I deleted mine a few days ago as hadn't been on in a couple of weeks and had like 900 or something I had no intention of trying to work through.... Right now it's at 213 and I'll probably ckear it again in a few days |
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"560 right now. I don't think guys realise how many we get and that we're not been rude we just don't have time to reply to everyone x p"
Oh we do, but this is why I put it out to demonstrate why sometimes you just won’t get replies. Out of curiosity do you scan through to check if there is anyone who catches your attention and read those specifically. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.
I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet. |
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"I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.
I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet. "
At least you try. I’d never assume a meet based on a reply but would suggest a coffee if I got a few replies and felt it was going well. I have only just started adding pictures to my messages as my face is on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies how many unread messages do you currently have a friend of mine is on 900 interested if women keep their box tidy or not"
One,
It's staying right there!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh god I wish I was the type of person to keep email inboxes organised.
I’m on 3753 and my actual email isn’t much better. The curious case of kicking the can down the road. |
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"Oh god I wish I was the type of person to keep email inboxes organised.
I’m on 3753 and my actual email isn’t much better. The curious case of kicking the can down the road. "
Oh no that’s actually horrible I think a bulk delete is the only way forward at this stage. |
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2 because I haven't checked their profiles yet so the messages have not been read.
Looking at the little part of the message I can see without opening them they will probably be deleted once I have. |
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"2 because I haven't checked their profiles yet so the messages have not been read.
Looking at the little part of the message I can see without opening them they will probably be deleted once I have. "
Hopefully something in there surprises you and entices you to reply. |
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"Currently 22 but it was 356 last night. Took me 2 hours to sort it out.
That’s a good effort. If you did it that quickly I take it not too many people got replies
About 15 of them got replies"
So 1 in 20 odd is a fair return |
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"I bulk delete mine. If I miss a day on here it's completely impossible to catch up.
I try and reply to every single message but it annoys me when single guys assume I'm going to meet them just because I send a reply. Most don't even send a face pic but still expect a meet. " Well done you. It is nice to know that some one reply's to messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude."
I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?
I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me |
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"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude.
I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?
I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me "
usually apologise in a status update, not the amount though and this seems to lesson the grumpy messages calling me rude ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3691 . I should really bulk delete but feel that this is rude.
I have this dilemma. Do I bulk delete and say nothing, so it looks rude, it do it with a status update and look like a bragger?
I’ve got 415 atm, which is just annoying me
usually apologise in a status update, not the amount though and this seems to lesson the grumpy messages calling me rude "
I just replied to you above ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message
I never moan just have to move on"
At least someone does. It’s not even a personal thing though |
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status "
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads. |
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"396 but I will be culling it shortly, then wait for the moans about why I have deleted their unread message
I never moan just have to move on
At least someone does. It’s not even a personal thing though "
I know I’m not going to appeal to everyone so try to keep positive, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads."
Ok. Here goes ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.
Ok. Here goes "
I’d try and be one of the first to get in your empty box but I’m too young for your age range |
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.
Ok. Here goes "
Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.
Ok. Here goes
Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong "
Done, and I won’t ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.
Ok. Here goes
Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong
Done, and I won’t "
Apparently I’m fucking rude and I’m a rude cunt because I deleted his message. Don’t listen to me ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I don’t want to seem like a bragger though, doing that, although I have said it as a status
Honestly I find it works a treat. I never say how many, just say you can’t get through them and honestly it’s cut the amount of moaners down. I think most men realise women get loads.
Ok. Here goes
Haha I just did mine too, please don’t blame me if it goes wrong
Done, and I won’t
Apparently I’m fucking rude and I’m a rude cunt because I deleted his message. Don’t listen to me "
Just block and ignore people like that x |
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"Currently over 100. I’m not sure the etiquette if you aren’t interested? Do I just delete, or do you respond with no thanks? There are some interesting messages in there "
It’s each to there own really if it was me I would read and only reply to the ones that I was interested in |
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