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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a horny man as we all are. I want to be more in the scene but feel awkward approaching my wife on the subject. We have been together for years and never been too adventurous. Adventure seems to fissle out with work and life.
How do I approach my wife on this. Any real advice and suggestions approaches others have taken?
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"Thanks for this. I need a training course on emotional needs I think. "
No you don't.
All you need to do is start just asking small questions and listening to the answers. Don't tell her what she should be doing if she has a problem, ask her how it's making her feel and how you can help her overcome it. Have a couple of evenings where you just talk, no sexy stuff, just holding hands and chatting or laying in bed in each other's arms just talking. Conversations can turn to sexual adventures quite naturally and if someone feels safe and unjudged they'll open up.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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We wrote down what fantasies that turn us on and a yes or no next to it as to whether we would want to try it out...we then swopped lists, saw we had yes to a few that were the same and decided to try them out |
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