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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
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I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it. |
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"I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
But.
I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it."
Had similar from a couple giving out mixed messages and decided the easiest and most polite way was to block them so no discussion was entered into further and no bad feelings.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, you're stunning so don't take a blind bit of notice. Personally I wouldn't be able to help myself calling them out on it without been too confrontational but everyone is different x |
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"I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
But.
I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it.
Had similar from a couple giving out mixed messages and decided the easiest and most polite way was to block them so no discussion was entered into further and no bad feelings. "
You have got a fantastic figure and would be honoured to spend time with you btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
But.
I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it."
Just wondering on what planet you would be classed as too big? You’re stunning. Block them and move on. They’re obviously not worth it. |
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Too big what the heck?! I would message them back and bring it up about your size as well as the constant looking at your couples profile before you blocked them,it would be interesting to know what their reply is. |
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"I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
But.
I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it."
Too big, no way, looking stunning and irresistible sexy bum.
Just tell them to go to specsaver |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too big? WTAF! 
Apart from agreeing in most parts with everyone and the 'run away' logic, the only reasoning I would offer is perhaps the male half of the couple wasn't keen but it's the female alone who want's to strike up a friendship one to one?
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Sounds proper dodgy
How can you be too big for the woman one day and not the next?
You have a fantastic figure
Id reply saying something along the lines of, if you werent what they wanted a few days ago, you won't be now and wish them luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 2 profiles, a couples and more recently a singles.
When we first joined as a couple around a year ago we noticed a couple who would look at our profile daily. I sent them a nice message not mentioning that but introducing ourselves and saying we liked the look of them. We received a reply saying they were not interested as I was “too big” for the female half of the couple.
I thought a bit harsh but each to their own and we moved on. I noticed that they had looked at our profile the next day which was totally fine. But after the 5th time they looked at our profile in a couple of days I was becoming a bit uncomfortable as they had said they weren’t interested and I was “too big”.
We decided to block them.
But.
I have just received a message on my single profile from this couple saying that the female is interested in me.
I’m definitely not interested, I would not be comfortable being naked around them after what they have said previously.
So how would you respond to the message?
Not looking to be aggressive, but not completely sure how to respond or weather to just ignore it."
Too big?! Are they having a laugh!!
I was expecting to see a bbw but you’re slim. Wtf?!
I wouldn’t even bother speaking to them hun. Each to their own but definitely block them |
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I'd politely explain that her previous comment regarding your body has made you uncomfortable about playing with her and that therefore it's a no thank you.
By the way, I'm sorry she made you feel like that. She could have declined without giving a reason.
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"So block or say something? "
That's up to you. Personally I'd just say no thanks and block them. But if you really want to say something be polite about it, then block.
Don't give this any more thought than that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So block or say something?
That's up to you. Personally I'd just say no thanks and block them. But if you really want to say something be polite about it, then block.
Don't give this any more thought than that.
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So conflicted!
My inner bitch wants to call them on it.
But my brain is saying just ignore and block. |
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"So block or say something?
That's up to you. Personally I'd just say no thanks and block them. But if you really want to say something be polite about it, then block.
Don't give this any more thought than that.
So conflicted!
My inner bitch wants to call them on it.
But my brain is saying just ignore and block. "
I think you're giving them way more headspace than they deserve.
If it will make you feel better (it probably would me  ) say something but nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too big?! That's ridiculous, you look fantastic.
Their loss. They had their chance, ignore and move on to someone who will appreciate you. It should take long at all! X"
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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Obviously autoincorrect interfered with our last post... It should not take long to find someone/a couple who appreciates you as you are. 
We would be more than happy to find a lady like you  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say she’s to small and block them, I agree we all have preferences but you can still be respectful and not say the reason as it can really hurt somebody’s feelings. |
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Your hot as shit ignore and move on!
