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over a year ago
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How did this go foe you at the begining? Its something me and my partner talk of doing but we both know we wont really know how we feel about it untill were doing it.
Has joining a male to your long term relationship made you better as a couple or had it gone the opposite ? |
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We just said "no regrets" and if it's not what either one of us want we won't do it again and move on. For us it all depends on the male joining us. We prefer a laid back guy who is happy to follow our lead and do what we ask as we have scenarios that we like to act out  |
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We done this and it was gr8 fun.
A social made it easier and their was plenty flirting.
Then late one night we said fuck it, naked massage and the Mrs loved it.
She's never been so turned on by all the attention, highly recommended it.
Definitely do a social first, planning our next 1 as we speak |
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Our first (and only up to now) was a blindfolded meet with a guy I choose. It worked perfectly, C never got to see the guy until halfway through and loved having both of us touching, licking and playing…
It’s amazing watching your partner as you get to see things from a different angle and see how sexy they are, being desired…it definitely brought us closer 
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Just ease yourselves into it slowly. Don't have any unrealistic expectations. The right people will understand your concerns and take them onboard. Make it clear to one another that you can call a stop to proceedings at any given moment, if it doesn't feel right for you. Expect to be a bit nervous as this is probably normal in most cases. |
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"Our first (and only up to now) was a blindfolded meet with a guy I choose. It worked perfectly, C never got to see the guy until halfway through and loved having both of us touching, licking and playing…
It’s amazing watching your partner as you get to see things from a different angle and see how sexy they are, being desired…it definitely brought us closer
K"
Husband wants to do this once life gets back to normal but first we would love to try ffm for me to play lol x
Lots of love Jess xx |
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We have done this a few times. Have always met the guy for a drink in the pub first on the understanding that if there is no attraction or connection it goes no further than a drink. We always message the guy for a while first so we have an idea of personality and looks and so far every one we have met has come back to our place for enjoyable fun. Always make rules first about how far you want to go, what you want to do and stick to it. |
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