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over a year ago
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Friend requests when we have not had any chats.....
Also those who omit that they are married and then suddenly change their profile to state they are married and play with permission.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the above and sad guys sat at home having a wank who have no intention of meeting yet don't say that, they often won't send pics or just have 1 crap one yet ask me for more pics and vids.
No wankers please! |
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"Not reading my profile before messaging me "
This, one word or one line messages, and guys who put LOL at the end when they have barely managed to compose a sentence and even that is not remotely funny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Folk who want to receive a face pic when you message them, but don't send one in return when they reply...... You chat for a while then it becomes awkward asking for one lol |
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"Apart from endless cock pics. What really drives you mad when you view someone's profile or they message you?"
I pathologically despise people writing "xx" etc to me. Have even gone as far as to put "please don't" in my profile blurb.
I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A message from a barebones profile including no pics.
Then repeated messages from said profiles. I dont block because I like to see how far they will go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Passive aggressive single men “you only here for attention?, bet you don’t meet”. I have verifications saying I have met multiple people.
Abuse after rejection “you’re ugly anyway”
“I know I’m not what you’re looking for but I’ll persistently message anyway”
“If that is you in the photo” - well I’m meet and photo verified so.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from endless cock pics. What really drives you mad when you view someone's profile or they message you?
I pathologically despise people writing "xx" etc to me. Have even gone as far as to put "please don't" in my profile blurb.
I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean? "
I've looked in to statement analysis and when someone says they're "normal" it usually means they've been repeatedly told they aren't normal for some reason or they know that something about themselves isn't right.. avoid these people and also those who give you the "I'm a nice guy" speech. Just run lol. I've paid for ignoring my own knowledge on this in the past. |
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Guys messaging us asking if we’d like to meet but not having or sending any pics at all. You tell them that you’re not interested after a few messages back and forth and then they ask if you want to see some pics, no mate you had your chance, we’re bored now! |
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"Also entitled vibes."
I had a str8 guy - or so the profile write up said - who wrote demanding to know what was wrong with the pics of his I HADN'T fabbed!
Aside from we all have our "mmmmm" moments, I love monochrome pics and am chest, thighs, pubes admirer. The ones I didn't fab were of his ass; I have no concept what a nice arse is. |
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I also roll my eyes when a guy describes himself as "normal". Wtf does that even mean?
Extract from reply;
when someone says they're "normal" it usually means they've been repeatedly told they aren't normal for some reason or they know that something about themselves isn't right "
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Or - on this version of the site anyway - further declaring their heterosexuality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they say "Hello sexy/How are you sexy/How has your day been sexy?". Stop with that word all the time. I know I am, you don't need to keep saying it.
Also, when guys send you unsolicited dick pics, you remind them your profile says not to and they say "it's only one, stop being such a prude". Yeah, I'm such a prude going by the photos I have on my own profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any profile that has a list of “DO NOT DO THIS” and “DONT BE THAT” statements.
It’s really negative and I find it a massive waste of energy and time, as well as being unattractive. It just doesn’t need to be said. It certainly doesn’t change the view/approach of the cock-wombles who solicit the sort of messages that agitate the recipient in this way, so why bother?
Show your positive and best self - even if you’re lying!
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Text speak, all the "Hun"/"babe" etc. Added very recently to my pet hates is them trying to arrange a meet for me and them (even before we even arranged to meet anyway) with others. Or thinking that just because I can accommodate, I'd be happy to accommodate them plus however many others (again, before we even arranged that very first meet).
Last but not least- wanting to take the conversation to other apps and then revealing some things over there that are deal breakers for me (for ex., them having some particularly hardcore kinks). |
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People who put on their profile or on the forum , “if you can’t spell or write a decent sentence then don’t contact me” ! As a dyslexic who struggles massively with words, that’s me out! So judgmental and drives me nuts!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who put on their profile or on the forum , “if you can’t spell or write a decent sentence then don’t contact me” ! As a dyslexic who struggles massively with words, that’s me out! So judgmental and drives me nuts!! "
I think anyone with any decency would make appropriate exceptions. X |
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I think I have the classic, not reading the profile ( or ignoring it)
We have a quite clear description on our profile for guys, but we still get messages from people who don’t fit the bill as such!
The other is friends requests from total randoms  |
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"People who put on their profile or on the forum , “if you can’t spell or write a decent sentence then don’t contact me” ! As a dyslexic who struggles massively with words, that’s me out! So judgemental and drives me nuts!! "
I'm with you on this.
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The repeat messages even though they’ve already been ignored many times before.
The phrase “rant over” on profiles. I don’t know why but it really makes me cringe.
Photos with random objects hanging out of vaginas.
Photos with messy/dirty backgrounds. |
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The following bug me:
Messages from guys wanting to meet - they clearly haven't read the first bit of my profile.
Profiles with no punctuation, paragraphs or capital letters.
Messages in text speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone winks your profile and you respond only to get a response, what the bloody hell do you want. Not worth getting out of bed some days. By the way i have two dick pics on my profile, sorry. |
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"Friend requests when we have not had any chats.....
Also those who omit that they are married and then suddenly change their profile to state they are married and play with permission...."
That's why I explain that in my profile.... tbh it doesn't help me though  |
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"I have a hotel near you tonight......"
We quite like this one.
Gives us a chance for a social that may develop in to play.
But if it doesn’t then there are no hard feelings as they’d already paid for the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"-Hotel tonight bear you. Meet me.
-Generic message that's mass delivered to every fab user.
-Message with Hi and nothing else.
-Offering to pay me."
*near |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I realise that we have a long and sesquipedalian profile, but there really is a lot of useful information in it...
And it's very very obvious when it hasn't been read!
Biggest bugbear, though, is without doubt those who challenge whether S is straight. It says so, repeatedly, and no, that's not going to change because you want it to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Text speak and bad spelling. Baffles me in this brave new world of open communication, most people cant string a cogent and/or considered sentence together. "
This. If you’re monosyllabic, I’m out
Profile: point 13 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise that we have a long and sesquipedalian profile, but there really is a lot of useful information in it...
And it's very very obvious when it hasn't been read!
Biggest bugbear, though, is without doubt those who challenge whether S is straight. It says so, repeatedly, and no, that's not going to change because you want it to."
Excellent use of 'sesquipedalian'. Bravo! |
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And vice versa, a single profile wanting to bring a fwb along.
Not happening.