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Regular Meets or One Offs
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
Midlands Based But Travel |
What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.
But just out of interest whats your preference?
For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats? |
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"What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.
But just out of interest whats your preference?
For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats?"
I only really do 1 offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I like the idea of regular, the issue can be it enables emotions to start to develop. It's a very personal decision as to where dividing lines lie x |
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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago
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"While I like the idea of regular, the issue can be it enables emotions to start to develop. It's a very personal decision as to where dividing lines lie x"
This. We tend to go with one-offs as a rule, but Deb has been known to have a regular or two. |
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
Midlands Based But Travel |
I most definitely would like to go into the more regular meet.
My ideal is a couple that only adds me into their relationship once a week or so and who i get on really well with both parties aswell as sexually we all being satisfied.
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We would like a little select group - a couple of couples, a couples of single girls and guys. That way we can arrange play dates based on who is available and what everyone’s preference is.
We also enjoy one off scenarios where we are ticking things off our sex list. These are usually hand picked to fit the criteria 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the one hand regular means getting to know what the other person likes and how to fully satisfy them.
Then you have a one off, which can be fun and freaky.
Each to there own I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both as long as they truthful and upfront on what it is before hand
Ie don’t lead me down the garden path off bs me about wanting regular things then after my knickers are off and dead done get home and message me saying it was great but regular not for me
Just be up front and tell me it’s a one off that way I don’t feel used |
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Although not completely against repeat meets we have had one or two guys start getting clingy questioning us when we met other people couples we would definitely get to know on a regular basis but single guys mostly just one offs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are most peoples preference? Now i know fab brings in all types of people looking for all types of things.
But just out of interest whats your preference?
For example the next time you meet someone? Or how many of the next 5 meets would be with one offs or repeats?"
95% one offs. Love the thrill of the unknown. |
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We like regular, it’s cool to find a couple that we click with hang out with and do all the regular stuff with drinks, meals etc
But just with the added bonus of being able to get down and dirty with too haha
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I prefer regular as the way I play you need to build trust and boundaries seem to be pushed more with those you are comfortable with. The people I have met have never been one offs and the sex just gets better. I don’t get emotionally attached so for me this is easy but I understand some may struggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular for me. It might be an age thing, but one-offs leave me feeling cheap. "
Agree. Regular is a great objective - fabulous experiences built on great chemistry and connection. However one offs are sometimes an inevitable outcome, even if not desired. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One off for us only, having someone regular either couple or male would put idea in their head thinking can just call and fuck wife while I'm not there so we both agreed from past one offs only. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
We prefer meeting like minded people similar to us and building good friendships, we are swingers so of course we want to have sex with others but the social accept is also very important to us so one offs wouldn't work for us.
Once you are friends you relax more which makes the sex better & better each time  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Previous experience on here seemed to be more one offs with the odd repeat
After being off for long time list touch with many
Would prefer repeat as can try more each meet as get to know each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weve never had regulars however if we came across a couple who fit what we're looking for and we can get along with then we wouldn't rule it out. To be honest we always saw it as "sex is just sex" so never bothered with repeat meets but lockdown has changed our views slightly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer repeats/regulars. Especially if there’s some good synergy and sexual chemistry. Usually the guys that meet me want to come for seconds/thirds etc
A really small amount is one off but I think To do to change of circumstances (like they moved away/got into a relationship or our timings just didn’t match) x
I don’t mind one/offs but if they are good, I’d always hope for more meets x if they aren’t good then fair enough |
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