I've recently met a playmate who has very sensitive breasts and playing with them sends her wild in the best of ways.
I've ordered some nipple clamps, you know, the sort connected with a chain. Give me some fun ideas folks? I want to knock her socks off (oh aye - and the rest of her clothes too).
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Of her nipples are really sensitive make sure you have just how tight the clamps are before just clipping them on or you have a 50/50 chance of never using them again the ones with a screw adjuster are good but once you find that pleasurable pressure I find it fun to see just how much weight can be hung on them be for the clamps slips our my play mate makes fun squeaking noises  |
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????"
Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
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I think I've fallen out of love with my clamps and I've ordered suction cups which I had the pleasure to try the other week.
It's hard to get the tension right with clamps but the chain is nice. Also be aware that it is really painful when they're taken off and the blood rushes back. It helps to cup the breasts when this happens.
You can also not have touched anything oily/slippery because the clamps will just fall off. |
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????
Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying."
you'd be surprised...
I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck.
Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation.
Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment.
You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer.
Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination.
Have fun with it before you work then into regular play.
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????
Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. you'd be surprised...
I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck.
Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation.
Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment.
You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer.
Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination.
Have fun with it before you work then into regular play.
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????
Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying."
Didn't state that a conversation had been had just that you bought them buddy, Scarlets nipples are really sensitive and it's a no to clamps or pegs from her so was just making sure. We are all different and one ladies likes or dislikes don't match the next an all that. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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"If she is very sensitive maybe the clamps would not be her cup of tea, have you discussed it with her? Or are you just trying her up popping in a gag and slapping the clamps on????
Yes, discussed and consented ofc. Really thought that goes without saying. you'd be surprised...
I would suggest a playfully fact finding giggle session. Full clothed experimenting with clamping force, chain pulling, understanding the attachment, were feels nice, were smarts like fuck.
Use the skin between the thumb and first finger as a clamp guide. It's pretty sensitive. Try them on each other nog just her. So you both get a good idea of the sensation.
Perhaps add some clothes pegs to the mix, plastic ones have a weaker spring than wooden pegs. But again experiment.
You might find direct nipple attachment is to much. But as an example 4 clothes pegs surrounding the nipple is an excellent alternative which could last longer.
Nipple clamps are apart of sensation play. There are alot of other items you could add such as a pointy wooden skewer. Not to break the flesh but to induce the feeling. As another mentioned, ice. Or vibration or a combination.
Have fun with it before you work then into regular play.
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I have found that a pin wheel is very good for testing sensitivity, can pick one up from Lovehoney for under a tenner. |
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