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Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
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It depends on my mood to be honest. If I'm radgey and my sub is bratty I'll feel irritated and likely want play to end sooner rather than later. |
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I'm definitely more of a brat but you have to know your audience. I have a regular playmate who prefers me to be an obedient sub but occasionally he lets me release my inner brat. For me brattiness is like a pressure release.
I do switch between obedient sub and brat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to see all the pro-brats! Can sometimes get a negative press for 'not being what a sub should be; obedient'. But where's the fun in that? I like to be pushed, I like to be challenged and ultimately EARN that obedience through my actions. |
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over a year ago
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Im a bratty subby.
I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.
The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.
There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.
He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.
I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most brats just want money
Very few be like that for fun
It’s very much financial domination
Money money money
Sad world we live in "
I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most brats just want money
Very few be like that for fun
It’s very much financial domination
Money money money
Sad world we live in
I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.
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Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most brats just want money
Very few be like that for fun
It’s very much financial domination
Money money money
Sad world we live in
I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.
Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing! "
Funnily enough I was chatting to someone earlier about how its near on impossible to find a female Domme who isn't in it for financial but within a " relationship" type thing ( I use the term relationship as loosely as necessary). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most brats just want money
Very few be like that for fun
It’s very much financial domination
Money money money
Sad world we live in
I disagree, I know a few brats and none of them are in it for financial gain.
Me too, findommes and brats are not the same thing!
Funnily enough I was chatting to someone earlier about how its near on impossible to find a female Domme who isn't in it for financial but within a " relationship" type thing ( I use the term relationship as loosely as necessary)."
There seems to have been an explosion in the amount of findommes in recent years |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Personally when in proper submissive mode (as opposed to kink play on an equal footing) I can't imagine being bratty - I tend to go into quite serious and focussed mode when I submit and that wouldn't fit with brattiness |
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over a year ago
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Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.
Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship. |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.
Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship. "
I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect |
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over a year ago
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"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter "
No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!! |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.
Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship.
I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect "
Well thank you! First time I get a compliment for my so imperfect English  |
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"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter
No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!! "
As someone that has spent more than a little time (20+ years) involved in the kink scene I can say I have seen those that have done just that I'm afraid, admitidly more often than not it has been those that are very new and inexperienced and hounded by "uber doms" but it does happen even though it shouldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe bratty or cheeky but defo not into having a brat submissive.
Also not all submissive are passively obedient. It all depends of the type of dynamic or Ds relationship.
I love the term passive obedience it's too perfect
Well thank you! First time I get a compliment for my so imperfect English "
You are most welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a bratty submissive, so much more fun to be had and much more satisfying to earn their submission rather than have it handed to you on a silver platter
No women would hand over her submission on a silver platter!!
As someone that has spent more than a little time (20+ years) involved in the kink scene I can say I have seen those that have done just that I'm afraid, admitidly more often than not it has been those that are very new and inexperienced and hounded by "uber doms" but it does happen even though it shouldn't. "
I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
Submission is the most precious of gifts and must never be given out like biscuits ( tbf though I don't give biscuits out either though ...lol) |
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Submission is the most precious of gifts and must never be given out like biscuits ( tbf though I don't give biscuits out either though ...lol)"
This is perfectly put, although I may be persuaded to give biscuits as rewards lol  |
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
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The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol |
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over a year ago
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I’m definitely on the obedient end of the spectrum.
Being bratty would be completely out of my comfort zone. But that’s not to say I wouldn’t try it at some point x  |
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"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people)."
*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it*  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people).
*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it* "
Several |
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol"
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket |
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket"
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick |
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"I'm not submissive generally but I do prefer being submissive sexually, however, I do love being put in my place (only with very specific people).
*wonders how many have tried it and paid the price for it*
Several "
*Looks for the trail of broken bodies* where did you hide them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick"
Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ...  |
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick
Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ... "
Made from reclaimed solid oak floor boards so environmentally friendly aswell lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not tried D/s dynamics in real life yet but the more I read about it the more I think id prefer a bratty boy than an obedient one. I like to manhandle boys and them being obedient feels like less if a challenge |
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick"
Most of them are easy to spot!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick
Mmmmmmm heavy oak paddles ...
Made from reclaimed solid oak floor boards so environmentally friendly aswell lol"
Who doesn't love a bit of recycling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick
Most of them are easy to spot!! "
I like it when wannabie Doms say,
What bratty things would you do if I were your Dom??
Like I'm stupid enough to give out my best tips....
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"I've seen subs jump in without knowledge too and there are to many wannabe Doms willing to take advantage.
The ones with the dom utility belt that have an array of cheap floggers and a bit of rope hung from them to make them look like they know what they are doing lol
And a copy of 50 shades in the pocket
That's the ones , I used to try not to sell my oak paddles to those ones, the thought of a heavy oak paddle in the hands of some of them made me feel sick
Most of them are easy to spot!!
I like it when wannabie Doms say,
What bratty things would you do if I were your Dom??
Like I'm stupid enough to give out my best tips....
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The point of bratty behaviour is that its unexpected things to throw a dom off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
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My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x |
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I find the phrase bratty sub an oxymoron. I have have bratty moments but only when my temper has been broken or my limit is exceeded. They have been extremely rare. The bratty part being a conscious decision. A big no for me
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By *inranWoman
over a year ago
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I like subs who are obedient but I do like that to.come with spirit.i don't want someone to have no opinion or no sense of fun.
I don't personally select people who are submissive and obedient to everyone though. It's a dynamic built of of trust and respect and both people should be selective who they give that part of themselves to in my opinion. (I'm not saying that can't be to multiple people just not to everyone says they are Dom/me)
It's tricky because I like some level of resistance and mischief but not when it turns into an attempt to top from the bottom, bait or just be straight up disrespectful. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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What a great thread, lead by submissive’s.
I suspect bratty play is initiated to create a type of reaction.
To me both are stunning, creating different scenes.
Not knowing and the anticipation, well that adds a stronger response.
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x "
Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
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Predominately the obedient sub if I’m honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x
Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.
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Hehe
There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x
Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.
Hehe
There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x "
You mean like overpowering sensual stimulation over powering your conscious awareness? |
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I can be both depending on my mindset. Sometimes I want the battle of wills that I know I'll ultimately loose. It's a bit like a game of chess. Others I'm already in a submissive mood and will readily submit. |
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"Im a bratty subby.
I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.
The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.
There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.
He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.
I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences. "
Omg I need to do that... off to Order googly eye  xx |
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I’m a brat I love to push his buttons but only because I know I’m safe and totally loved by him. I’m very lucky. But I would love a brat friend... just to compare notes and advice on new bratty things to do lol xx |
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I switch. As a sub I am compliant and obedient.... And I like the same in a sub when I Dom. What specifically gets me off is my play partner consenting obediently rather than the role play around me persuading her.
I don't really understand the brat dynamic but fair play to those who do. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I'm a switch-ish.
I'm a bratty masochist, I can count on one finger the amount of men I've been genuinely totally submissive to.
Find it much easier to be dominant... Just don't feel dominant towards men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a bratty subby.
I like playing little tricks on Sir to keep him on his toes. Googly eyes stuck on his car with little magnets was a most recent one.
The great diet , malt vinegar switch was a personal favourite and timing was impeccable- passing his special drink once he had worked up a sweat lol.
There is alway loopholes and I love twisting Sirs words against him, He says turn around , I do a 360.
He is smart though knows how to handle me and knows I will always obey him in the end.
I take no responsibility if anyone uses any idea aforementioned and receives consequences. "
You sound utter perfection. Although the malt vinegar switch might have a step to far.....my palate is sacred |
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
My subspace is almost non verbal so I’m definitely not a brat x
Almost non verbal, definitely a brat.
Hehe
There’s a quiet calmness to my subspace, a euphoric elation that takes me beyond words. It takes a special set of circumstances to take me there x
You mean like overpowering sensual stimulation over powering your conscious awareness?"
Absolutely it’s an awesome set of sensations, I can be in that space for hours it wonderful x |
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By *assunachWoman
over a year ago
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I am undoubtedly a cheeky brat. I have yet to play with a sub as bratty as I am. I love pushing my luck and feeling the full force of a firm hand round my neck or spanking my ass. I think I like to test whether a Dom will be truly dominant or a pushover. The later turns me off faster than a light switch. |
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"Personally when in proper submissive mode (as opposed to kink play on an equal footing) I can't imagine being bratty - I tend to go into quite serious and focussed mode when I submit and that wouldn't fit with brattiness "
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"I am undoubtedly a cheeky brat. I have yet to play with a sub as bratty as I am. I love pushing my luck and feeling the full force of a firm hand round my neck or spanking my ass. I think I like to test whether a Dom will be truly dominant or a pushover. The later turns me off faster than a light switch. "
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enjoy the banter of a feisty woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a bit of both but my bratty side comes out when I’m really comfortable with someone! "
This for me too, it can be fun then, plus I’m more likely to be myself and feel comfortable enough to show it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely obedient sub here. I love having all the control taken away. Being able to trust the Dom(me) to keep to pre set limits.
Once that trust is gained I will let go and release all control. It's a very liberating feeling to once in a while escape into sub-space!
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"I'm very much a bratty sub. I love to be cheeky and fight back so to speak, but ultimately want a dominant man to have his way. Xx"
Same... I dare you to try to tame me.... saying that is a great way to earn spanks too  lol |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
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During my years on the scene, I always preferred a brat. There is zero longterm fun in someone who obeys all the time.
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Mrs Misfit is a bit of a handful and often gets her self into trouble with me. Be it with her smart mouth or acts of silent disobedience or when she gives me that look of insolence in her eyes. She knows what she's doing and that she'll get the correction from me she seeks. It's a dynamic that works great for both of us. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
"Who enjoys playing with a cheeky brat who likes to tease or taunt answer back to you? How many brats are on fab?
Or do you prefer a obedient submissive who's does as she is told? Who is a obedient sub on fab?
During my years on the scene, I always preferred a brat. There is zero longterm fun in someone who obeys all the time.
C"
Totally agree with this comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer an obedient submissive.
With brat play, the brat needs to know what she is doing and what the repercussions of her behaviour will be. Otherwise, I just find it annoying. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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I enjoy pushing someone's buttons and having them push back whether that be with words or play as both are foreplay to me. Yes I will submit but I won't and don't always do it eagerly.....it has to be earnt. xT |
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