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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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while looking through couples am noticing more and more are opting for barback , and only wanting other bareback couples .. should we be worried? it is reducing the amout of couples that play only safe as we do now whats your thoughts ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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really dont understand this, we kep bare back for just us to do together weve been together a long time, its nice to have something for just us, why do people risk it, there is no way it can ever be safe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just be glad the those people are honest and are giving you a true reflection on how they want to play so that you can make an informed decision
Im all for people having the guts to be honest when it comes to something like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so those that dont do bareback never suck a penis?, never lick a pussy? Most sexual diseases can be spread in those ways as much as penetration.
Dont jump into bed with strangers, get to know them and trust them first
OR Use condoms, latex mouth protectors and rubber gloves |
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I got told by a few people that MOST sti/stds were transfered by oral so.....
When I next went to the GUM I asked and its true some can be transfered with oral BUT only if the mouth n cock/pussy both had cuts/wounds.
I then asked what about saliva n she said youd have to injest 7litres of saliva |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's a scary thought, it was on the Lincs FM News the other day.
So far this year, over 2,500 people made appointments at Lincolnshire GUM Clinics and didn't turn up.
That's a lot of people wandering around hoping it'll go away.
Wonder what and who they're doing in the meantime?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty certain oral sex carries a much lower lower risk than full sex?
We never play bareback with full sex. Golden rule - wrap the tool! "
lol oh dear...
You wear a condom to avoid some but they don't protect against warts and Herpes.
You run the risk of catching most of them if you regularly have it off with someone infected and you give them oral.
Doctors are always behind on things like this so don't rely on them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty certain oral sex carries a much lower lower risk than full sex?
We never play bareback with full sex. Golden rule - wrap the tool! "
Much lower risk of HIV transmission. Still leaves all the rest Syphilis etc etc which happily transmit orally |
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not."
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not.
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict lol"
surely no woman would swing if she wasnt taking contraception? even if using condoms would any woman really rely on just them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have posted pics of bareback sex but tbh it was with someone we knew very well over a good few years so knew he was clean.
We do not play bareback with anyone anymore but that is our choice.
Some people will go bareback some people won't all you can do is protect yourself and make your own judgement as to meeting with people that do. |
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not.
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict lol
surely no woman would swing if she wasnt taking contraception? even if using condoms would any woman really rely on just them?"
Definitely not! Condom splits=oh dear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as you play safe there shouldn't be a problem with what someone else does. Or do they make you take the condom off?"
this is how i see it
You never really know what people get upto, they can tell you they never play bare or get tested regular but can you be sure they are telling the truth?
Just do what you feel best to protect yourself, its all you can do really |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Just do what you feel best to protect yourself, its all you can do really"
Yep. Not seeing why people spend so much time worrying about others. If they do something you don't like, don't meet them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just do what you feel best to protect yourself, its all you can do really
Yep. Not seeing why people spend so much time worrying about others. If they do something you don't like, don't meet them!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as you play safe there shouldn't be a problem with what someone else does. Or do they make you take the condom off?
this is how i see it
You never really know what people get upto, they can tell you they never play bare or get tested regular but can you be sure they are telling the truth?
Just do what you feel best to protect yourself, its all you can do really"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as you play safe there shouldn't be a problem with what someone else does. Or do they make you take the condom off?"
This is my _iew too. I always have bare oral. I always swallow some. So know I am at the high risk end. I also rarely have full sex with a meet, simply because I dislike sex with a condom.
I don't see why it matters to anyone what others are doing. Just tend To your own sexual health. Maybe just more people are being honest about it now.
Everyone I have ever gone bare with has safe sex only on profile.
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By *bend69Couple
over a year ago
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not.
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict lol
surely no woman would swing if she wasnt taking contraception? even if using condoms would any woman really rely on just them?"
unfortunately i have no choice huni, due to allergies and med conditions its the only form of contraception we can use? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play as safe as I can and yep that includes condom..however have to say most of the people I have met would play bareback if I dident insist...and they state safe in profiles... |
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not.
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict lol
surely no woman would swing if she wasnt taking contraception? even if using condoms would any woman really rely on just them?
unfortunately i have no choice huni, due to allergies and med conditions its the only form of contraception we can use? "
I'm in exact same boat. Due to medical conditions I can only use condoms, the hormones in contraception give me terrible side effects  |
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By *bend69Couple
over a year ago
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"I know the sti thing but nobody has mentioned the complications if one of the women get pregnant either and they aren't sure it's their partner's child or not.
I'm very sensible
Contraceptive implant, the pill (to stop the implant being a plant pot) +condoms. I'm a contraceptive addict
surely no woman would swing if she wasnt taking contraception? even if using condoms would any woman really rely on just them?
unfortunately i have no choice huni, due to allergies and med conditions its the only form of contraception we can use?
I'm in exact same boat. Due to medical conditions I can only use condoms, the hormones in contraception give me terrible side effects "
yep same here , no fun but no other choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play bare with a couple we've known for years and know that they only play with us. And yes, I honestly trust them that much.
Oral without is risky and I do swallow but, I think, as a previous poster said, the likelihood from oral is minimal.
We all hate condoms lets be honest.
I used to go bare within a few dates with ex-bfs which makes me feel a little silly now but hey ho, being young and all that.
one of the biggest risks i've seen and can't believe the lack of awareness is the sharing of toys between women!
So often I'll go to a party and the dildos, vibes etc are being shared around without any condoms or cleaning between uses. That's just as risky as having a guy shoot cum inside you!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only safe sex is no sex.
If people are really that concerned, maybe they should reconsider swinging. As previous posts have stated, you're never 100% safe and most of us have played with many different people.
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