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To wink or not to wink?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That is the question
When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..
1) Wink
2) Message
3) Fab a photo
4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them? |
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I will normally wink, just to hint that I'm interested and it 'may' get them checking my profile. It's quicker and easier for both of us than a message. If they wrinkled back, I would then send a message.
I would send a message if I'm not busy and have the head space to write one that doesn't make me look like a fool  Also, they would need something in the photos or profiles that I could comment on. It's hard sending a good message to an empty profile.
I'll fab photos that I like, but just because I like them. If I get anything in return, that's a pleasant surprise. |
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We generally wink first, as a statement of attraction. If the wink is returned then we always follow it up with a message to see if we can strike up that rapport that’s needed to actually meet up for some fun. |
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"That is the question
When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..
1) Wink
2) Message
3) Fab a photo
4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them?"
Depends.
If they're far away we just fab a photo and thats it.
If they're local-ish then we will message (this comes with the caveat that they're a verified account in some manner).
If they're not verified in any manner but are new, we might wink and leave it up to them. If they have been on the site some time (like a couple of years) we do nothing under the assumption they're just perving.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends, if I really fancy someone I try and wink but happens that my category is blocked on the other hand which sucks x (tho it happened that they saw and unblocked so we could message)
Sometimes I also leave some fabs on pics and see if I get the attention that way x |
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We tend to wink if browsing profiles to see if they wink back.
If so, we will always follow up with a message.
Sometimes though if we really like the profile we will message straight away without winking.
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I tend to assume that, for the most part winks and fabs go unnoticed (if the ladies are getting 100’s of mails, just imagine the number of winks & fabs!)
If i think there’s a chance of a response it’s always got to be a message.  |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"That is the question
When you click on other profiles and see someone you like do you..
1) Wink
2) Message
3) Fab a photo
4) do nothing and hope they contact you because you looked at them?"
1 followed by 3 on every single pic they have, followed by 2 every 30 minutes. Then 4 after they've blocked you. |
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I don’t follow up winks, I take it just as a nod that someone liked my profile same with fabbed pictures. I usually have a look at the profile and if I like what I see I fab a picture or two. I think I’ve only ever sent one or two winks and one or two initial messages |
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I may be tge biggest winker on here haha, i will wink if i think maybe im out there league or to show im interested, fab a few pics and if its a nice profile i willsend a nice message, time permitting, i know people on here get lots ofmessages and silly messages so we all get mass deleted, thats understandable, so having a wink, one of my 5 a day keeps my hand in haha x |
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