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By *rMrs B OP Couple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat. "
That's a really good idea |
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There was a time they said pampas grass in the front garden was a sign.
I had it at my house before I started swinging, not knowing what it was supposed to indicate. I often got strange looks from people who did not know me.
Whatever we have to identify ourselves the vanilla people will hear about it and they will start to point. |
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As if women don't get hard enough time already from men who think we're here to be objectified, let alone wearing a badge that to some, would be interpreted as "up for it" and being fair game.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if the visibility of such a badge would be used as a defence in a sexual assault case. Seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swingers don’t need badges to recognise other swingers.
They have outlets and places to find their crushes.
While out in public, they exercise an old-fashioned thing called discretion. Or used to.
Swingers probably still do. “End-aways” evidently do not
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No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know... "
I actually dropped that into a conversation with a professional connection on LinkedIn - “have a FAB weekend” - she totally got it! |
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"No I wouldnt wear one. I like to keep this side separate. I would also hate to spot people I dont want to spot wearing one. People would find out what it means anyway and then it would be pointless as hardly discreet. I just going around asking if anyone is fabulous on a friday night. No one will know...
I actually dropped that into a conversation with a professional connection on LinkedIn - “have a FAB weekend” - she totally got it! "
and... |
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By *N69Man
over a year ago
nantwich |
"Hi all just testing the water would you guys wear a discrete pin badge to the the pub to let other swingers know that you were on the scene if they had there badges on with the possibility of starting to chat. "
Would make it easier, don’t some swinger clubs do something like that. Colour bands if you are playing and how ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed a big change on this site especially when I had my single profile guys don’t take rejection well I honestly think just because you’re a woman looking for sex we will just shag anyone the abuse I’ve had is ridiculous wearing a badge in public would be a nightmare x |
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