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Read a message but don't delete!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering. if a couple or single lady reads a message you sent them, and says on there profile delete if we don't like! But they don't delete but don't get back to you! What's it mean haha!! Or am I being thick haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just means they have so many mails you got lost in the list! it happens!"
So there's is there anything I need to do with my profile to stand out more!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easy- face pics, less cock pics, no cumshot. x
Agree but if No face pic in public use body pics even clothed full body ones "
Absolutely, but you can do clever hinting-at-face pics! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Easy- face pics, less cock pics, no cumshot. x
Agree but if No face pic in public use body pics even clothed full body ones
Absolutely, but you can do clever hinting-at-face pics!"
Sod it just added face pics n see what happens! N taken cumshot off as can send that private if ever asked!! Anything else hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With us, its because only one of us has seen the message, so we keep it till both have looked."
 Not always together, work etc... sometimes it can be a few days or even a week before we can discuss a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It probably means they're a little undecided and need to have another look tomorrow. It's probably rude of the person not to respond but, as I'm sure you know, the single ladies on here get lots of messages and sometimes some get lost and forgotten about in all the traffic. I'm sure it isn't anything personal but they'd rather be able to give someone a definitive answer rather than be rude and say 'I'm not sure about you'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just realise no reply is the same as no thanks and jog merrily on mate.
Personally l think rampant cocks in an avatar are misplaced. After all an avatar is supposed to be a personal identifier of who you are. Unless of course you are a cock  |
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"Just wondering. if a couple or single lady reads a message you sent them, and says on there profile delete if we don't like! But they don't delete but don't get back to you! What's it mean haha!! Or am I being thick haha "
Sometimes I don't reply because it doesn't make sense to! For example 'hi hun, how r u?' Or 'wat u up to today?' To say no thanks doesn't work, but to answer the question enters into conversation, followed by I'm not interested takes way more effort than their initial message....
By the way OP Mmmmmm, you're yummy!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like your profile great pics great body pics ..if i lived closer id make your day  x"
I'm up in Glasgow for the wkend of 3rd November if you want to make a day of it haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like your profile great pics great body pics ..if i lived closer id make your day x
I'm up in Glasgow for the wkend of 3rd November if you want to make a day of it haha xx"
Hmmm can be done mail me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same lol ^^^
Ahem madam we are busy that w/e xx
hahaha ooops so we are lol
You double booking Vicky  always room for one more maybe xx  "
Make that 10 more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same lol ^^^
Ahem madam we are busy that w/e xx
hahaha ooops so we are lol
You double booking Vicky always room for one more maybe xx "
Oh and you have to like strapon fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With us, its because only one of us has seen the message, so we keep it till both have looked.
Not always together, work etc... sometimes it can be a few days or even a week before we can discuss a message."
It's the same with us, we both live in different counties and i will open and pork will Answer when he can get to his pc... We are constantly explaining this to all...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering. if a couple or single lady reads a message you sent them, and says on there profile delete if we don't like! But they don't delete but don't get back to you! What's it mean haha!! Or am I being thick haha "
Pork answering this time! As I used to have a single guys profile on this and another site, if I were in your position I would make a separate note of the people you have sent intro messages to, and once you have sent a message, just delete it from your sent messages folder.
Why? Cos as a single guy ALL you are interested in is RESPONSES. It is pointless and demoralising looking at the sent file everyday to see all those messages with the words 'Been read' or 'Deleted' alongside. ALL you need to know is that someone has sent you a response (pos or neg) and that it is sitting in your inbox. As a single guy, you have enough of an uphill struggle just getting a meet to make things worse worrying about something over which you have no control.
Sorry if that sounds blunt, but it took me years to realise this myself - so if helps you to concentrate on the part of this little game we all play, then that's to the good.
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probably inundated mate - and delaying letting you down lol 