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Is it wrong to want to try cock?
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No idea if you'll regret it.
I didnt try pussy or cock just for the sake of it. They were burning desires (wanted pussy waaaay before cock) and tried at a time I thought was right for me at the time and dont regret either one bit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it"
You should do what you want to do, what your fantasies are, what turns you on...it is not like trying all aspects of the site, more each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it"
Having bi-curious instead of straight on your profile would be a start. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself. I'm very nervous about meeting other guys but it is something I want to try.
I dont consider myself bi as its not something I want to try on a regular basis maybe just a one off.
I still prefer a nice wet pussy |
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"try meeting a couple then if its not for u all is not lost !  "
As meatloaf said " you took the words right out of my mouth "
That way you can have what you know you like and maybe explore your boundaries...... As they say suck it n see |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it
Having bi-curious instead of straight on your profile would be a start."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself.
So you're bi-curious then but you're another one who has straight on your profile. "
He has not been on the site that long, so maybe he will change it. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And just to add, we have spoken to the OP, the other day he had posted a thread re problems meeting etc, asking advice..
He has a veri from a man, and was worried to show this on his a/c, I would suggest you are slightly confused and worry that you feel you need to try things out.
Will be about later if you want to give me a shout.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many years ago I tried cock, and yes, I did enjoy it. I haven't done it since, but like has been said earlier, in a MMF or MF/MF situation I would have no objections if it happened again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I said yeah go for it, I'd be coercing you wouldn't I. If you're asking this question then probably your niggling over what the answer would be anyway, and if it's anything like the itch I had years back then it'll need scratching a few times before you know for sure - not that you'll convince yourself more each time, just that you'll get a better idea of whether its for you.
I enjoy it, jury's still out on a longterm decision, but I'm seeing a different side to my sexual thinking and approach not seen before, and it's good. I like myself better for having that knowledge too. If only for the experience so you know yourself better, then yes... go for it!
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its a question of personal choice and a decision only you can make most bi people try it because its a desire that burns inside like wanting pussy or enjoying tits we are both fully bi and both of us have always been attracted to both sexes but we have friends who are curios tried it either loved it or decided it wasnt for them one or two got the omg im gay cos i liked it wobbles but once they dealt with it they were ok but only you can make a dcision like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am thinkin to try fun with male and wondering best way of the doing it would it be best to try with a couple male and female to make it easier or dive straight in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself.
So you're bi-curious then but you're another one who has straight on your profile. "
GIve the fella a break, people are too quick to pounce on others on here. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable giving himself a bi-curious label, maybe he'd hate it and never will.
OP, if you feel comfortable enough, go for it. Its something I did years ago, before Fab and never regretted it. It opens up a while new avenue for play as well but don't worry about what will happen if you do and don't like it. You seem a pretty open-minded guy, its just another on of lifes pleasures to try out.
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"Am thinkin to try fun with male and wondering best way of the doing it would it be best to try with a couple male and female to make it easier or dive straight in "
Couple with a bi male probably would be better as if you find MM play is not for you you can still have a good meet giving the fem a good going over together!
I know some lovely bi men though who are very respectful and wouldnt take offence personally if you decided it wasn't for you in just a MM meet, just got to get looking and find one |
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There's no one best way that will fit everybody. Some will get have a drink with a mate, fumble around, others would dive in, and explore it all, others may try getting sucked first off, then possibly sucking on another meet etc.
I like life's challenges and conundrums. When I was younger I used to give myself dares, as I guessed that there was no limit to how much confidence I could have etc. It allowed me to expand my thoughts about what I could achieve in life, I yearned for big challenges, and I wasn't daunted by much, even when others said things were too tough.
So, assess your overall attitude to things. Would you benefit from pushing aside some boundaries? Fleas that live in a jam jar with a lid eventually stop jumping up to touch it - if you take your own lid off, you know it's no longer there, and can decide how stratospheric your leaps will be. This doesn't have to be only about checking out curiosity, but major challenges can be about appreciating and recalibrating yourself and what sort of person you are in life.
Man or mouse. Deciding no more, after exploring, at least allows you to have tasted the meat, after being a veggie.
The other option, as well as exploring with m/f couples or groups, is to meet with tgirls, some of whom will have cocks that you could explore. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself.
So you're bi-curious then but you're another one who has straight on your profile.
GIve the fella a break, people are too quick to pounce on others on here. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable giving himself a bi-curious label, maybe he'd hate it and never will.
OP, if you feel comfortable enough, go for it. Its something I did years ago, before Fab and never regretted it. It opens up a while new avenue for play as well but don't worry about what will happen if you do and don't like it. You seem a pretty open-minded guy, its just another on of lifes pleasures to try out.
Good luck! "
I think you are right, people often do. People also offer up great advice that the OP can take on board if he wishes. People take the time to offer help and support. I have done so on this subject multiple times over the last few years to this gentleman. So if it is his first time, cool... if not, also cool but people are giving their advice with the best intention and honesty is always appreciated
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself.
So you're bi-curious then but you're another one who has straight on your profile.
GIve the fella a break, people are too quick to pounce on others on here. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable giving himself a bi-curious label, maybe he'd hate it and never will.
OP, if you feel comfortable enough, go for it. Its something I did years ago, before Fab and never regretted it. It opens up a while new avenue for play as well but don't worry about what will happen if you do and don't like it. You seem a pretty open-minded guy, its just another on of lifes pleasures to try out.
Good luck!
I think you are right, people often do. People also offer up great advice that the OP can take on board if he wishes. People take the time to offer help and support. I have done so on this subject multiple times over the last few years to this gentleman. So if it is his first time, cool... if not, also cool but people are giving their advice with the best intention and honesty is always appreciated
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Totally agree with you, it might seem one of those questions that initially some will say 'just go for it and see what happens' but for a lot of people, its just not as simple a decision as that so all support and advice that anyone can give I'm sure will be greatly appreciated. Some are too quick to hijack the threads to make a point which, to be honest, has nothing to do with the discussion and doesn't help the OP in any way.
My own 'just go for it'moment came when I decided to try it without telling anyone, in case I didn't like it or they called me a poof (this was a good few years ago before being PC was absolutely the way to be) and you know what, I had to try it again a couple more times, just to make sure you know? Then FAB came along and the possibilities seem endless (well, ok, I'm single guy but you know what I mean!)
It doesn't make you feel different, doesn't change who you are, its just a lot of fun and something you can indulge in when you feel like it. |
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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it
You should do what you want to do, what your fantasies are, what turns you on...it is not like trying all aspects of the site, more each to their own."
very true ....if we never tried our sexual fantasies , we would still be shagging with the lights out in the missionary position ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a lot like the OP, want to try sucking my first ever cock but unsure about how to go about it. I don't think that it's wrong to want to suck cock but I don't want the meet to feel awkward. Especially if I chicken out and decide I don't want to after all, which I doubt I would as I'd always be kicking myself after thinking I should have just gone for it. Just not sure how to get over the initial nerves of meeting a guy in an mm situation as never before really been attracted to blokes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just go with what you fancy and have fun because that's what it's all about isn't it? ... if you don't like it then so be it. I had straight sex on Friday and Saturday ... bi (some would say downright gay) sex on Monday ... Beef knuckle with a couple of bottles of old tom last night and a sirloin with diet pepsi tonight ... Don't deliberate too much just get in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a lot like the OP, want to try sucking my first ever cock but unsure about how to go about it. I don't think that it's wrong to want to suck cock but I don't want the meet to feel awkward. Especially if I chicken out and decide I don't want to after all, which I doubt I would as I'd always be kicking myself after thinking I should have just gone for it. Just not sure how to get over the initial nerves of meeting a guy in an mm situation as never before really been attracted to blokes."
Don't forget, there's a big difference between being attracted to guys and wanting some cock fun now and again so don't sweat it. Why not do as some of the others have suggested and try and set up a meet with a bi-couple (there are loads on here) and explain you'd like to try sucking a cock and go from there? That way if you decide you don't like it, no harm done.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not get yourself down to a bi night, there is one next friday at the vanilla alternative, that way you can go as far as you want with no pressure in a safe environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wrong ?? hmm i wouldnt say its wrong . If its something you are comfortable with and are curious about then go for it . regret it? i dont know only you will know that but at the end of the day if you do it and dont like it you will know, no need for regrets its not like you have done something wrong . good luck whatever your decision mate .  |
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Give it a try. If you find you enjoy it then great, if not, fine, put it down to experience, at least you will know. There are plenty of bi guys on here and couples with bi men, you will soon find someone to chat to and maybe try some fun with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg I have just arranged for a guy to come over to my place tonight. If no one here's from me tomorrow, come looking ha ha"
can i come and watch
i'll be quiet you wont even know im there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you should give it ago, no harm done if its not for you..
mind you someone once told me, you have to try something at least 3 times before you can make your mind up properly lol..
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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago
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"Omg I have just arranged for a guy to come over to my place tonight. If no one here's from me tomorrow, come looking ha ha"
Well done mate!
I tried bi with a mf couple of friends first. Thoroughly enjoyed it! My first mm meet made me nervous, but I was determined to make a good show. I had a fantastic time and we've been FBs since.
Take your time, chat, chill, and then ask the question: fancy some fun?
If you've a curious, open nature then I reckon you'll be fine.
Very best of luck! |
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By *arcafunCouple
over a year ago
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"Just to say that I bottled it last night and couldn't take the risk of another guy coming round my house so I'm still on the hunt for my first meet. "
with all that good advise as well!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to say that I bottled it last night and couldn't take the risk of another guy coming round my house so I'm still on the hunt for my first meet. "
Try going to a bi night at a club. will give you the chance to work out if its really what you like to do.. |
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By *njamesMan
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it"
What's the worst that could happen? Or do you think you may enjoy it too much, and then next thing you know - you are getting a special deposit from a spam syringe up your exit hole....just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to try both being sucked and sucking cock myself. I'm very nervous about meeting other guys but it is something I want to try.
I dont consider myself bi as its not something I want to try on a regular basis maybe just a one off.
I still prefer a nice wet pussy"
try a bi night at a club and see how it makes you feel xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had wanted to.try suckin cock for long time and found non pushy couple i was all nervous 1st time and got paranoid i was gay and put myself off,,and wanted to stop the couple wer very understanding about it i couldnt believe i njoyed it that much but was unsure how it made me feel at 1st and that couple found me anotha younger bi couple to play with and now if im askd if id like a taste of a cock playing with a couple who bi im all for it because the female gts so turned on watching and it puts u at ease esp if she want Dp which is anotga turn on feeling n hearing how wet n turned on the female is makes it a very enjoyable experience now i dnt c me as bein gay just hvm Mutual xperimental fun all round and not same old boring quick fuk and away,, and id like to find more bi couples to play with to give them what they crave so dnt worry about how u feel u obviously thought about it alot and want it all so go for.it and Njoy your fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not try going to a gay sauna or something. That way you can have a look around and relax and theres no pressure. If you want to do it you can, if not you can just chill out. It's what I did when I was curious about it and horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm thinking I should try all aspects of this site and maybe try getting a bj from a guy. Should I or will I regret it"
Don't do it, or you'll become one of those "Straight" guys looking for cock |
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By *odjamMan
over a year ago
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What's the worse that could happen. You will either enjoy it or not. personally love them.
Think if you were blindfolded and receiving a blow job you wouldn''t know who was givinng you one but I bet you would love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are thinking about it you must want to try it so take your time try and find some your comfortable with and you should go for it. Maybe try meeting up with a guy and watching a bit of porn together and see if you are comfortable just getting your cock out 1st then see where you go from there. |
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