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Single women . Your next relationship swing with them or pack it in
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Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
I think it would entirely depend on the guy I'm with. If he wasn't into it then I wouldn't but if he was then I would  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent thought that far ahead! Im just enjoying the moment. But I guess it depends on the other person, I wouldnt be on here without their knowledge thats all I can say for sure. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
We met on here as singles so was easy enough to decide to at least give it a whirl as a couple. We’d both played with couples so had an idea of how it might be but you never truly know until you try it for yourself.
There are so many different dynamics and ways to swing though so we would have been surprised if we couldn’t have made it work.
Don’t think I could ever go back to vanilla now, I could lose the actual swinging but need the openness around sex and being able to try some freaky stuff (by vanilla standards!) now and again.
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
Bit of an odd one for us to have an opinion on really. Been together 25 years and swinging for 24 of them so we wont be splitting up. Doesn't compute for us lol.
But hypothetically, if we broke up or one of us died (more likely and a conversation we have had) as the male half, I could take it or leave it. I would just want a special someone. If they swung, great, if not, wouldn't care .Same with my wife, though she says she'd have a girlfriend as no man could measure up to me. I'm not sure what standards she's measuring me by or of it's just a way of her secretly saying she prefers pussy lol.
It's certainly changed us both and brings a lot to our lives and yeah, we love the liberation and freedom it brings...but it's not the most important thing if that makes sense?
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But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
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I am not looking for a relationship or Mr Right. I was married 25 years. I enjoy being single now and doing what I want when I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely stop to concentrate and build the relationship ... let it develop and find its potential
Whether we came back here and made here part of life would depend on so many things at that time and with that person that I couldn't possibly say to be honest! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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If I was to have a relationship it would have to be a swinging relationship as it is a big part of my lifestyle and friendship circle.
I see it as part of me and I'm not looking to change that. |
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I joined here as a singleton then got into a relationshi, not thru fabs. After a year we discussed swinging and it was something he was absolutely sure he didn't want. So I left it and closed to door to this for a couple more years. I think the older I get the less I want to conform to fit in with someone else haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure Mr Right exists and if I'm honest I don't really consider myself a swinger. For me Fab fulfils a need for sex between relationships. If I met someone here now, it would raise interesting questions as I feel this is probably my last Fab fling x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met in here and are both very happy we love the lifestyle. We don't need to swing all the time but we would both miss not playing and it actually adds to our intimacy and closeness watching each other have fun  |
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For me, I could go either way. If I met someone awesome and he wanted a monogamous relationship, that would be fine as long as my basic needs were being met.
If I met someone and he was open to us swinging as a couple, that would be cool too.
But truthfully, swinging has never been a big deal to me, and because of my health issues, it has become even less important so... now it's just something I do once in a while to spice things up. I could happily live without it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no plans for a relationship but if I did, I’d want him to be open to being open (to coin a phrase!)
Ideally a bi/pan guy who’d be open to playing with other guys. If he wanted to play with other women he’d have to do it alone and it’d take a lot to get my head around it. But if we could go cruise bars and pick up men together, yes please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
Hoping to find someone who's as kinky as me and do more together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met as singletons, enjoyed exploring our kinks as a couple for awhile and are now venturing out there as a couple. Its totally different; lots more variables to consider and still early days, but so far so fun.
We could drop swinging tomorrow if the other suddenly couldn't handle it, but we will always want to explore other kinks as that's just how we are  |
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"Why go out of the relationship for something you get in the relationship. "
You can't get everything in a relationship with one person that you can get from swinging. Group sex ? Bi sex ? Voyeurism ? Exhibitionism ? Etc ... |
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
I disagree with the premise of the question.
Men often say they will want to carry on swinging when they get into a new relationship, but in reality men are far more likely to fall head over heels and not want to share than women. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think
I disagree with the premise of the question.
Men often say they will want to carry on swinging when they get into a new relationship, but in reality men are far more likely to fall head over heels and not want to share than women. "
Agree with this to some degree, I am very happy with the partner I have and she with, I have no reason to think otherwise . So as they say the home fires burn brightly. hence my previous post "Why look outside the relationship for what you have in the relationship"
Is above if a guy finds everything he is looking for in a relationship, be unlikely to carry on swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to find a swinger partner but my current one isn't into it. But because I like him so much, I am finding it tricky"
Well if he’s just your swinging partner what’s the issue |
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over a year ago
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If I were single and looking I'd want to find someone who also enjoyed the lifestyle, or someone that would join it or at least allow me to continue in it. I'd carry on regardless anyway tbh. I'd never go back to monogamy xx |
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"If I were single and looking I'd want to find someone who also enjoyed the lifestyle, or someone that would join it or at least allow me to continue in it. I'd carry on regardless anyway tbh. I'd never go back to monogamy xx"
iam the same I was with a guy for 13 years had kids was swinging at 18 years of age stopped when I got with him and re started 5 years ago i do want a relationship but a swinging one
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
Not all men want to continue swinging when they get in to a relationship.
I'd like to, or at least like to still go to clubs etc. Difficulty is when do you raise it lol tok early and all it becomes about it sex. They want to know how adventurous you are etc and I want to know they're interested in me more than the sex. |
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"I'm not sure Mr Right exists and if I'm honest I don't really consider myself a swinger. For me Fab fulfils a need for sex between relationships. If I met someone here now, it would raise interesting questions as I feel this is probably my last Fab fling x"
Can you imagine if a bloke said that? The whole thread would fill up with the "It's not a sex site" crowd |
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think
Not all men want to continue swinging when they get in to a relationship.
I'd like to, or at least like to still go to clubs etc. Difficulty is when do you raise it lol tok early and all it becomes about it sex. They want to know how adventurous you are etc and I want to know they're interested in me more than the sex. "
I’d raise it ASAP |
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
I'm not sure your premise is 100%. I think there are a few men who when they find Mrs right would not want to swing, indeed some men whilst happy to swing themselves whilst single would not want a relationship with women who have previously been swingers. |
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"Always wondered. We know men if they get into a relationship would like to carry on swinging.
But single women on fab . Are you looking for a relationship where you can carry on swinging or is this a bit of fun till you meet mr right
We have both said we think it would be hard to go back to a standard relation ship of anything happened to us and just wanted to see what others think "
I think there are a lot of men here who wouldn’t want their partners to swing. Many of the men here aren’t swingers, and I’ve seen plenty of comments by men that they wouldn’t “share” their partner - though they’ve all had “looking for couples” on their profiles and don’t see the double-standard in saying that while expecting access to other men’s wives.
Myself, I wouldn’t give this up, and the right person (man or woman) wouldn’t want me to. I will never be willing to go back to monogamy, so I’d only consider getting into a relationship with someone who enjoys this as much as I do. |
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