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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Stats show that 53% of men say that’s it is actually very difficult orgasm if it’s purely oral unless their partner has a fantastic technique. Take some time below and write down what your BJ technique actually is …. There might be some good advice on the way!!! |
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I wouldn't worry so much about technique.... Nothing makes a BJ better than knowing and feeling that your partner is getting genuine pleasure from sucking your cock. Communicate through words, sounds and body language that you are getting off on sucking his cock and he'll be in heaven.
Throw in a little stroking and be careful not to nick his head with your teeth, and communicate about where you want him to cum so that he can just relax and enjoy.... |
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Balls deep throating while using tongue on balls below at the deepest part…. Also, if you’re into it, let him use your throat like a pussy and fuck it… loads of various ways to make a guy cum whilst sucking. |
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"Slow and steady wins the race .
Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere. "
For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slow and steady wins the race .
Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere.
For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.
Cal"
This makes a lot of sense!
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every guy is different, so try out different strokes and speed with the mouth. I think ultimately to make majority of guys cum would be with enough speed and grip so if you aren’t allowed to use hands then tighten the lips and try make it wet as and possible use the roof of the mouth and go fast.
Or I made some cum from them deep throating me I guess it feels good for some
Either way, even if I don’t make every guy cum for a bj purely on oral alone, I know that everything I do is eye rolling it feels so good x
Its not a one size fit all, so just explore and be patient and I think overall, what makes the Best Bj is:
Dedication and actually enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slow and steady wins the race .
Rough and pulling foreskin won't get you anywhere.
For me, I want a lady's motive to be making me feel good not making me cum, the first bit is what makes the second bit happen.
Cal"
Also totally true! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve never encountered a technique as such that makes for a superior bj. I think people over complicate what is essentially a very simple act.
As with all sex the key to making it great is simply enthusiasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve never encountered a technique as such that makes for a superior bj. I think people over complicate what is essentially a very simple act.
As with all sex the key to making it great is simply enthusiasm"
Spot on. I've cum from BJs where it's evident she's really into it and enjoying it, whether that's for her own sake or because she enjoys how much she's turning me on (I think for most women it's the latter and the sense of power and I'm fine with that).
Best one I ever had (came so hard I actually phased out for a few seconds) was a combo of her wanking my shaft hard while sucking on my head equally hard, and when she felt me about to cum she did actually rake her teeth on my glans. Sounds weird I know and was probably accidental but the combination of intense pleasure, sharp pain and an incredibly powerful orgasm... I lost all sense of time and self. |
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My favourite!! Love giving a guy oral
I like to jazz it up a bit lol, nice soft sucks, using my tongue to tease the end, then hard, and fast deep throating taking it all in my mouth till I gag
Mmmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Slow/fast mixin up speed
Gettin tha cock wet
Teasing them balls
Using your hand
Rhythem Rhythem Rythem
Sometimes a cheeky finger in or around ur ass hole
Moaning
Being able to gag....
I could go on haha |
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Making a guy cum seems counterproductive to me.
The moment someone makes it clear that their aim is to get to the 'end' as soon as possible, the enjoyment is curtailed.
I enjoy it. Put my heart and soul into it.
Once he's cum, I can't suck anymore.
Where's the fun in that?
Honestly sex is about so much more than cumming.
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When C orgasms from giving me a BJ I think it’s safe to say she’s enjoying what she’s doing and I can relax and just enjoy every sensation.
Personally eye contact, mouth teasing and slow movement will get me cumming much faster than fast and rigorous 
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Making a guy cum seems counterproductive to me.
The moment someone makes it clear that their aim is to get to the 'end' as soon as possible, the enjoyment is curtailed.
I enjoy it. Put my heart and soul into it.
Once he's cum, I can't suck anymore.
Where's the fun in that?
Honestly sex is about so much more than cumming.
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It really is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Where did you get the stats? Blowjob scientists mag?
Ok if the guy can’t cum
- he’s wanking too much or watch too much porn
- she’s crap at it and need to learn
- tell her if it’s not working and direct the sucking the way you like it.
Just like going down on a woman, follow her direction, body reaction or read how to do it…
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Get it wet, verging on sloppy. Eye contact over drive, make sure you let him know how much its turning you on.
Take it as deep as you can, as slow as you can. It's all in the tease.
If you want him to come, read his body as to what is working best for him, and add in more of that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Recently I enjoy it completely hands free. It totally accenuates what the mouth and tongue is doing.
Feels great if if pops out of their mouth and they have to scoop it back mouth only.
That's just me atm a snapshoot in time. Ask me a year ago and the answer would have been different.
Luckily K is a BJ master, unluckly for me having a 7 month old baby who is co sleeping with us has vastly reduced any BJs in my life currently lol.
KJ |
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By *icentiousCouple
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"Stats show that 53% of men say that’s it is actually very difficult orgasm if it’s purely oral unless their partner has a fantastic technique. Take some time below and write down what your BJ technique actually is …. There might be some good advice on the way!!!"
Can you point me to where the stats are please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mrs says she reacts based on my reaction & it's not the same every time. Generally though, she starts off licking, then sucking, then plays with my balls and then starts sucking and wanking me till I cum. As I breathe heavier, he quickens the pace. Shes gives the best head I've ever had |
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"Mrs says she reacts based on my reaction & it's not the same every time. Generally though, she starts off licking, then sucking, then plays with my balls and then starts sucking and wanking me till I cum. As I breathe heavier, he quickens the pace. Shes gives the best head I've ever had "
Wow, sound awesome ?? |
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