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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Possibly , not everyone is here to swing, some clearly say not meeting on profiles and others are fake/fantasists. I think if you’re serious you’d be meeting and getting verified within a few months |
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By *neamigo OP Man
over a year ago
should read 58… mistake with my age , cannot change it |
"Possibly , not everyone is here to swing, some clearly say not meeting on profiles and others are fake/fantasists. I think if you’re serious you’d be meeting and getting verified within a few months "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have been on FAB for over a year and not verified does that mean that you really don’t want to swing ? "
Mostly down to the fact we've been in lockdown for a year.
We have not meeting as our header as I'm pregnant, but still here for the forums and to keep in touch with friends and make new friends with like minded people  |
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"Or that we've had a global pandemic.. either or.
Could be ^
Also with men it can be hard for them to get tagt first meet to get verified
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Both of these apply to me unfortunately. Now having been on here for over a year with no veris, I'm officially in the 'don't touch with a bargepole' zone. Might have to delete my profile and start again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly , not everyone is here to swing, some clearly say not meeting on profiles and others are fake/fantasists. I think if you’re serious you’d be meeting and getting verified within a few months "
John McEnroe was always serious and I bet he isn’t verified yet, but still gets away with it. Sadly, there seems to be one rule for 1980,s US tennis stars and another rule for the rest of us.
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Theres a lot of people on fab who have been here for years and they have one veri from 2015.
Fact is, theres loads on here who dont swing and loads who have yet to have a chance thanks to the pandemic.
What I dont buy though is people looking to meet who cant even be bothered to photo verify. In this day and age with a camera phone? Come on.... |
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Dont care for them, dont ask for them either.
We turn up to clubs and parties, where we see real people and people see us.
If someone we meet asks we'll send them one but never expect a reciprocal veri.
Some people put too much emphasis on having them.
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Not everyone jumps in balls or minge first.
Aside from the world being shut for a year meaning people can't meet, it'll also have impacted many peoples confidence levels, finances, mental health and priorities.
So no, I wouldn't say no veris for a year means someone isn't serious about swinging, I'd say it makes them a human being, taking things at their own pace, and being responsible about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or that we've had a global pandemic.. either or."
Might have something to do with it.
Not everyone is here for the same reasons.
Some might not want to meet. Some might not want to receive verifications - strange I know, but one couple I met a few years ago actually asked me NOT to send them one, because I was outside of the criteria they were usually looking for and they were concerned that if I verified them, it would show up that they'd met a single man and they might be inundated.
Different people use fab for different reasons |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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We don't and never will meet someone for the sake of a veri, and to please those that might think we're fake or fantasists. We meet only if we find someone that ticks all our boxes and we theirs - if that takes several years or even decades, so be it, we're fine as we are but always hopeful we'll find someone to add another dimension. |
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It does matter veris a lot of couples and singles from all over will say no veris don’t bother messaging , so a man you have to assume until you are told different that everyone has that opinion even though they do not broadcast it |
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"If you have been on FAB for over a year and not verified does that mean that you really don’t want to swing ? "
No, it means they joined at a bad time.
We're still in the middle of a global pandemic, so I would be more concerned if they did have a recent verification. |
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"It does matter veris a lot of couples and singles from all over will say no veris don’t bother messaging , so a man you have to assume until you are told different that everyone has that opinion even though they do not broadcast it "
They matter to some people yes.
But ya know what? If you're actually looking to get into the lifestyle and be part of the community it isn't that hard at all to get verified. It's called making an effort and getting out instead of relying solely on fab to get those verifications.
If you don't meet the criteria of those who do want verified people, just accept you don't meet their criteria, it's no big deal really unless it's to bitch and moan about, in which case, look closer to home coz THEY aren't the reason someone isn't verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does matter veris a lot of couples and singles from all over will say no veris don’t bother messaging , so a man you have to assume until you are told different that everyone has that opinion even though they do not broadcast it "
I don’t show any veris, so to all intents and purposes I’m one of “those guys”. However, I manage to engage with people in conversation. So, as a matter of unquestionable fact, not everyone has that opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does matter veris a lot of couples and singles from all over will say no veris don’t bother messaging , so a man you have to assume until you are told different that everyone has that opinion even though they do not broadcast it
They matter to some people yes.
But ya know what? If you're actually looking to get into the lifestyle and be part of the community it isn't that hard at all to get verified. It's called making an effort and getting out instead of relying solely on fab to get those verifications.
If you don't meet the criteria of those who do want verified people, just accept you don't meet their criteria, it's no big deal really unless it's to bitch and moan about, in which case, look closer to home coz THEY aren't the reason someone isn't verified."
What she said as well |
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