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Does age matter?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How much do you consider age when looking for a meet?
When is someone too young or old or do you look for a lot younger or older?
Is age just a number? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer people older than myself ... personal thing, im the baby in my family and grew up surrounded by people typically 12 years + older than me.
I just feel more comfortable around older people as a result |
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Age matters.
We have an age range which we pretty much stick to.
Socially we will happily mix with any age range but sexually we won't. At organised fab group socials younger people usually won't spend time chatting to us although this might not be due to our age of course.
One thing age related that definitely puts us off is if someone says "I'm 55 but still act like a 25 year old"  |
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Age isn't the first thing we look at.
If we're attracted to them physically and mentally then age isn't an issue.
We've met some stunning older people.
We've also met some younger people whose personalities didn't appeal.
Neither of us have children and both consider ourselves young at heart.
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For me it is a out how likely it is that we are going to get on. The chances are higher if there is common interest and this is more likely if we are of similar ages e.g. will know the same music, tv, films etc. Of course it is possible to bridge a big age gap. Some of it depends on how much you can afford to be picky |
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Age is more than a number - it conveys experience and maturity for the most part. So many boys think that because they've watched porn they know what the experience of something will be - but they rarely think through how it will affect them when they walk back into their lives with their family and friends. I learned the hard way that boys under the age of 25 just haven't matured fully yet, much as they cry that they are able for it. Our brains don't even finish growing until 24 - so I've a hard no on boys and girls 25 and under.
My one regret was being with a boy who was 23 about 4 years ago. I had been with a 49 year-old when I was 19 so I didn't think it would be an issue for him, and he was so eager and convinced me that he could handle it. I was either the same age or a bit older than his mum. After he was with me, he had a complete melt down. He wasn't mature enough to deal with what he did, his shame was acute, he had a hard time dealing with his friends and he crumbled thinking of his mother as a sexual being because it hadn't occurred to him that women of his mother's age could be sexual the way I was. It changed entirely my approach to age differences, and it is a regret I still carry with me. |
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By *man_4Man
over a year ago
London |
I personally don't, but I understand those for who it matters.
For example, some prefer not to be with someone around my age, and there's nothing wrong with that. Equally, people may have an upper age limit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is a funny one.
On one hand it highlights experience and common connection (around the same age)
On the other younger don't mean they know a thing or two nor they don't have common interests and that's including people being older as well.
I think it's more about click and finding a common ground more than age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is a funny one.
On one hand it highlights experience and common connection (around the same age)
On the other younger don't mean they don't know thing or two nor they don't have common interests and that's including people being older as well.
I think it's more about click and finding a common ground more than age. |
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I can honestly say that I don’t care one bit about age. Quite the opposite to the preconceived wisdom, I absolutely love older women. Especially 60+ and I’ve played with plenty.
I met an absolutely gorgeous 66 year old once who met me in her home. She answered the door and was elegant, poised, beautiful, classy but also very warm, convivial and flirty with subtle little touches on my hand or forearm as we chatted over a glass of wine.
Eventually she excused herself and said that she was going to get herself ready and I should come through to the bedroom after I’d showered.
I came through and this elegant young at heart grandmother was naked apart from her lingerie with her legs spread wide, watching porn and absolutely hammering her pussy with an enormous dildo.
The transformation was one of the sexiest things I’ve ever seen, and the sexy was mind blowing. There was nothing I think she wouldn’t have done.
Also I have a real thing for the pornstar Rita Daniels who is 71 in a couple of days, but I’d not have to be asked twice. I’d fuck her until I was spent.
Plus, on the other end of the scale I’ve also loved playing with very firm and nubile 18-19 year olds. I’ve had relationships with 23 and 24 year olds who were way more mature than their age suggested, so there is absolutely no age bearing on who I am attracted to. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I used to wonder why young single girls were on here. But soon realised that to have fun with more than one person at a time would probably be difficult to find on a run of the mill dating site.
I used to prefer women older than myself, say upto 20 years but now find that in reverse, 20 years younger.
It's not necessarily about age though, more about how sexually confident someone is, single female or couple. I'm still happy meeting those older than myself, but perhaps not 20 years older. |
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I think age is important, more specifically meeting people at the lower end of the age spectrum. My minimum age listed is 28 (which is still potentially a much younger person) but I think by that age people are old enough to have fully considered what they are looking for and not just being led by the idea of trying something different. At the upper end of the spectrum I think age is much less important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How much do you consider age when looking for a meet?
When is someone too young or old or do you look for a lot younger or older?
Is age just a number?"
Aga is just a number if you find each other attractive |
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There's a false assumption made in many cases that age equals experience while quite often that's not the case at all.
I didn't join fab until I was 52 and in the grand scheme of things was extremely inexperienced in comparison to some.
Likewise I've spoken to many women who are only now exploring their sexuality in their 40's and 50's having felt repressed or restricted in their younger years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m certainly hoping age does not matter
I’m nearly 50 and over the last few years met some amazing people from here great connection friends so much more to here than just sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is definitely important to me, it’s a huge part of the attraction aspect. I can be with any age socially, but when it comes to sexy connections, mature is my preference |
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"How much do you consider age when looking for a meet?
When is someone too young or old or do you look for a lot younger or older?
Is age just a number?"
It matters to those who use 45 as their upper age limit, and also those who lie about their age to get under the 45 bracket  |
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"I’m certainly hoping age does not matter
I’m nearly 50 and over the last few years met some amazing people from here great connection friends so much more to here than just sex "
My advice; make as many friends in here as you can, before you turn 51   |
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