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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously though, try to look at your profile from someone elses point of view.
What does it scream at you?
Lack of effort, that's what.
It gives the impression that you've come to fab assuming that all you need do is knock up a quick profile in 5 minutes and be fighting off offers by lunch time.
If you can't be bothered to soend some time crafting a half decent, informative profile and upload some pictures, then what dies it say about you?
People will assume tgat you'll take the same approach to meets.
Others on fab are here for their pleasure, not yours. They want to know what they will get out of an encounter with you.
Your profile tells them nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "
Your title straight away put them off! Girl? Really…
You need to rebuilt your entire profile but think about it first.
I have a fairly good profile explaining to hat I am looking for, great body, good sense of humour and still don’t get that many messages so..
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"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read? "
We arranged to meet 3 guys today. Must have had 60 offers, so we were in the fortunate position of being able to be selective. The 3 we picked had interesting profiles, nice pics, had clearly read and understood our wants from the meet, and were able to demonstrate they had a good track record of turning up.
I don't want to be mean but I have to say, a look at your profile and you wouldn't have even got into the maybe pile. I appreciate if you have no veris, a track record of turning up is difficult to overcome, but you can do things to make other aspects more appealing.
The above is intended as good advice from a couples perspective, not to knock single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to people manage to arrange meets, I can't even get my messages read?
We arranged to meet 3 guys today. Must have had 60 offers, so we were in the fortunate position of being able to be selective. The 3 we picked had interesting profiles, nice pics, had clearly read and understood our wants from the meet, and were able to demonstrate they had a good track record of turning up.
I don't want to be mean but I have to say, a look at your profile and you wouldn't have even got into the maybe pile. I appreciate if you have no veris, a track record of turning up is difficult to overcome, but you can do things to make other aspects more appealing.
The above is intended as good advice from a couples perspective, not to knock single guys."
Mmm I wonder which position i would be? Too 10?  |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
When someone says they are "bored" OP this is often read as that the person is "boring" because they lack vitality to be interesting and to be doing interesting things especially on a sunny day like today so it's a word best avoided. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.
I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh.."
Grabbing my popcorn |
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"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.
I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh..
Grabbing my popcorn "
May as well put it down I was being ironic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can't give profile advice unless you ask, but most of us women look at a profile before deciding to reply or delete.
I thought you were all just eager sluts who would fuck anything? Huh..
Grabbing my popcorn
May as well put it down I was being ironic "
Me too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People you message will usually check out your profile before even considering opening your message.
If it's not enticing enough, and it isn't, then they either won't bother readingbit or will delete it straight away. |
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