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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely no offence intended to you lovely slender and athletic folk  .
But I was curious as to arranging something for larger folks of male and female genders, arrange a meet at somewhere and socialise before enjoying company just an idea. I'm Midlands based personally but would love to discuss with potential participants.
Much love and take care.
Jordie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why can't we just be people. Why do we need to be put into size categories?
I'm not slim, far from it but I refuse to be defined by my dress size. "
Personally for me it is a confidence issue, hence why I state no offence, I personally feel very inferior around others who look more like society's expectations and this isn't there fault I just feel larger people are more accepted among others of there size.
So sorry to offend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not offended I just don't get the fascination with it. For anyone. Or the assumption that larger people might have more luck with larger people. I think that's nonsense too.
People are attracted to other people for many different reasons.
I understand lacking confidence, I get that totally but while I might stop feeling inferior over my size, I'd feel it in other ways.
I always do actually but I refuse to let it stop me having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think because of the sheer ratio of men to woman on this site, it makes it harder for a bigger guy to stand out a bit more.
A so called adonis, will get alot more attention then a bigger guy. However if this was a normal day to day meeting, the tables maybe turned as people can put there personalities forward also.
The problem is bigger males (I can only speak for) actually get some vile insults from woman as well as men, on here. I've experienced it.
I'd love to say we all live as equal, but unfortunately we don't. Once a bigger person is shamed or rejected a few times because of his or her size, it's starts to have a mental effect.
Everyone has a preference, yes. However at times on this site it feels that preferences lay towards the six pack and smile sort of men. |
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