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Do you mind your wife being bi,
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Are you proud of her, especially which the current LGBT’s+ climate?
Or are you just having fun?
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I don't think pride comes into it. It's simply a case of us enjoying each other's enjoyment. Can you really be proud of your sexual orientation - it just is what it is. |
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"Are you proud of her, especially which the current LGBT’s+ climate?
Or are you just having fun?
I don't think pride comes into it. It's simply a case of us enjoying each other's enjoyment. Can you really be proud of your sexual orientation - it just is what it is."
Being proud of a sexual orientation would be odd.
But being proud of who you are is important, and your sexual orientation is a part of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pride isn't the word I'd use. Very happy that she felt confident enough to say to me she fancied women, and knew I'd be happy. As she is about me being bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My gf is very open about being bi. Everybody knows, most of my friends ask about it and are envious. Her friends don’t seem to care "
Why are your friends envious? |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
"My gf is very open about being bi. Everybody knows, most of my friends ask about it and are envious. Her friends don’t seem to care
Why are your friends envious?"
That their partners aren’t into that too |
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I told hubby when we first met. After a few nights he asked what the ground rules would mean, he liked it and luvs watching me… and he knows when he behaves he’s well rewarded by us afterwards or invited to join in under specific guidelines… he’s not Bi but if he was I would be as supportive for him xx |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
It took alot for my wife to come out as bi curious as she thought i would judge her despite being married for years. I wouldnt judge anyone male or female for being bi its their choice and i say do what makes you feel good!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My gf is very open about being bi. Everybody knows, most of my friends ask about it and are envious. Her friends don’t seem to care
Why are your friends envious?
That their partners aren’t into that too"
But why?
What's in it for them? |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
"My gf is very open about being bi. Everybody knows, most of my friends ask about it and are envious. Her friends don’t seem to care
Why are your friends envious?
That their partners aren’t into that too
But why?
What's in it for them?"
Guys and their fantasies I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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“Bi!? more like closet lesbian. Why can’t these women admit they’re lesbians and why don’t they put it on their profile”
(/sarcasm. Just highlighting the double standards that occasionally occur on this forum). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since my wife has fully embraced her bisexual self, she’s noticeably happier and more confident in herself. She has a gf outside of our relationship and I’m happy that she’s happy |
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I (Luke) am very happy that Hannah is bi. We had a wonderful threesome with a lady we met through Fab and we all enjoyed each other. It was very sexy.
Hannah has had sex with a female friend of hers a couple of times and I was not involved at all. I think that's wonderful. I'd be very happy for her to see other women.
I always think it's a shame when I hear reports from Fab women who want to be with other women and they say there's often a male half of a couple who wants to get in on the action in some way, even if it's just watching. That's definitely not my approach. I'd be fully supportive of her seeing another woman and me having nothing to do with it.
I know that if I was into men in that way she would be supportive of me too. |
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I’m not proud that C enjoys women. Someone else’s sexuality isn’t something to be proud about.
I’m happy that she’s open enough to want to broaden her sexual orientation and is comfortable enough to explore it.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“Bi!? more like closet lesbian. Why can’t these women admit they’re lesbians and why don’t they put it on their profile”
(/sarcasm. Just highlighting the double standards that occasionally occur on this forum)."
Shhhh
Secret Bi here - I don't want anyone to know  so refuse to tick boxes  |
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I'm fully bi I have a girl friend thstbi been seeing for 10 years. My bf knows and he is that good about it she stays with me and he has spare room.
But he knows next day I'm all his.
He has fucked her behind my back So I was not happy about that he Like a the thought of me being with a women |
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Proud of her for being born a certain way? No. There’s tons of bisexual and gay people who are assholes so you can’t be proud of someone for that.
Proud of how she’s dealt with people being a dick to her about it? Yes.
But that has nothing to do with the climate or the way the world is now. We may see some people being prejudiced or dicks about these things but the world overall is far better now for anyone in a “minority” (quote to broaden the subject) than it ever has been. Sammi is open about it but not in some kind of tell everyone as soon as she meets them kind of way. If it comes up, it comes up. She feels no need to jump in there and announce it like some people want to. Which is fine for them. |
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"I’m not proud that C enjoys women. Someone else’s sexuality isn’t something to be proud about.
I’m happy that she’s open enough to want to broaden her sexual orientation and is comfortable enough to explore it.
K"
Exactly. Being proud of someone’s sexuality is like being proud of the shape of their big toe. It is just a part of who they are. It’s the stuff that surrounds it that you can be and should be proud of. |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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I'm not sure that proud is the right word, but I'm pleased that Ms has been able to open up to me about that side of her and we're starting to explore together.
We've had one meet so far, but excitement took over and she didn't get enough alone time with the other lady, but that's something I'll need to be conscious of next time  |
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It would be inconsiderate of me to be anything other than happy Becky feels free to choose.
We’re both bi but we don’t let it define us.
We don’t rub it in peoples faces and only those friends that need to know, do. |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North Devon-ish |
I am happy to play with another woman in a sexy situation as part of a foursome. I wouldn't want to meet a woman on her own. I do not fancy women. For me it is a physical thing nothing else.
I dont do strap on's at all
Does that label me Bi Playful, Bi Curious or Bi Sexual ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the fact that Smoke can be who she is. She had to hide for so long, and I’m so flattered that she has been comfortable enough with me that she can be open without worrying about a negative reaction. I’m blessed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am happy to play with another woman in a sexy situation as part of a foursome. I wouldn't want to meet a woman on her own. I do not fancy women. For me it is a physical thing nothing else.
I dont do strap on's at all
Does that label me Bi Playful, Bi Curious or Bi Sexual ?"
think the correct term is bi greedy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am happy to play with another woman in a sexy situation as part of a foursome. I wouldn't want to meet a woman on her own. I do not fancy women. For me it is a physical thing nothing else.
I dont do strap on's at all
Does that label me Bi Playful, Bi Curious or Bi Sexual ?"
You can be bisexual without being bi-romantic, but given the fact you wouldn't meet women on your own and therefore the way you experience your sexuality is somewhat conditional, just pick the label you feel you most closely align with.
(inb4 some straight man comes along and says "we don't need labels blah blah blah") |
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"When Caroline first came out, Dave picked up girls for her!
We now go to pride events together.
There's something a wee bit off sounding about that "
Works for them so why is it off? If the girls were interested that’s completely normal for them. |
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