We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t worry OP, if that’s what he was going to do he wouldn’t tell you.
Just another disgruntled coward thinking with his dick.
Problem is if he thinks he’s got a rise out of you, it may form into a programmed response he’ll use on others.
There are some rather unpleasant people on the internet. Luckily they are only a very small number.
Most people are great. |
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over a year ago
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Unless you've given any details of where you live I wouldn't worry about it there's no way he can know where you live not by the tracking on fab ..sorry you had to put up with this it's not on at all we've had our share of weirdos but not abuse to that extent |
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He’s probably shit in bed and I pity the poor fools who he manages to meet. Demented idiots like that don’t deserve to be here or even breathe the same air as normal people. Block and report for sure. He doesn’t know where you live. He’s just bleeting like a little kid. But report for sure. |
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"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"
God that is truly shocking and I'm not surprised it has put you off slightly, shocking behavior, and I would also be afraid, so does he know where you live? I would contact the Police for some advice. I really feel for you both..  Hope you both are Ok!! |
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"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"
Suffice to say that you’ve encountered a complete dickhead who’s very brave on a keyboard or a touchscreen. Block and ignore would be my preferred course of action. If it escalates any further consider reporting it to the Police. Harassment and misuse of telecommunications might earn a little appearance in front of the local RM. |
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Let's be real here. These people don't just exist on the internet...they also go to the supermarket / bank / pub etc.
What the internet gives them is anonymity to say & do as they please.
It's a sad reflection on the world unfortunately. |
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"We know it happens to quite a few on here but had a guy messaged us sat asking for Skype fun we asked if his wife/partner was there(he had a couples profile) but gave us usual excuses she’s asleep/in shower/gone to shop etc so I politely say no thanks we are only looking for couples and the abuse he gave us was shocking EG He knows where we live he’s going to burn house down,meet me half way I’m going to slash you up etc etc. We know about report button but it has put us off a bit xx"
That should be reported to the police. No ifs or buts about it. |
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Bet if you agreed to skype he`d bottle out. Some people get off on being abusive.
Report him for threatening you to be on the safe side to teach him a lesson.
Probably just frustrated with being turned down too often, letting off steam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's many keyboard warriors on all internet sites...the thing is... the majority are cowards with a split personality
But saying that...make sure you keep a copy of the threats he sent you... There are some lunatic predators about too unfortunately |
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It's best to always report to police as he is dangerous, just by threatening people. Report and block too. Fab improves incrementally by us each identifying these inappropriate people for the society. If I was coupled again, I'd just be meeting them in clubs, where they have to provide traceable ID. |
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"Bet if you agreed to skype he`d bottle out. Some people get off on being abusive.
Report him for threatening you to be on the safe side to teach him a lesson.
Probably just frustrated with being turned down too often, letting off steam."
^^^^^^^ Some defo get off on being abusive & using scare tactics...they get Seriously sexually aroused...I too have received uncalled for unprovoked abuse...really messed up threatening stuff for no reason whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life? |
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"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?"
Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them  |
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"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?
Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them "
Of course but it doesn’t change how things are |
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"Every time I here these comments I get more confused. These things happen all the time in every city or town in the world. You are not unique, far easier to deal with online than in real life?
Yes but some people don't see this and it can be a shock when it's aimed at them
Of course but it doesn’t change how things are "
Where it happens or not is not the point, there is no excuse for making people feel unsafe in there oun homes, not everyone can just brush these things off |
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It’s horrible and can be really off putting.
If they don’t know where you live, I’d not be bothered. Report, block and move on.
Just an idiot seeing his arse.
If they do know where you live I’d report to the police. Even just to make yourself feel better.
Try not to let it bother you too much  lots of decent people on here xx |
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