When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning  |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning "
I’d have decided they were a catfish after the twentieth message haha |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning
I’d have decided they were a catfish after the twentieth message haha"
Well you know how it is with the message to reply ratio for us guys on here - I guess it's just hard to let go  |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning "
LOOOL that aint a time waster thats a guy pretending hes the woman of your dreams for kicks, as soon as you start asking for credentials the normal excuses come out such as not letting them send photos blah blah blah if you cant provide one photo from your smart phone in 2021 you are deffo hiding something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning
LOOOL that aint a time waster thats a guy pretending hes the woman of your dreams for kicks, as soon as you start asking for credentials the normal excuses come out such as not letting them send photos blah blah blah if you cant provide one photo from your smart phone in 2021 you are deffo hiding something"
It makes me laugh when guys tell you they can't send a pic on here and they're waiting for others to be uploaded and approved, when you can send direct from your phone |
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"At least I'm upfront about never sending a face picture.
Anyone elses kik an arse with notifications? Doesn't let me know half of the time I have messages. Proper irritating. "
It let's me know I have a message... Once I open the app, even tho I didn't close it |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning
I'm sorry, I'll try not to do it again    "
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"They normally block me after the first message when I’d say I won’t meet without seeing face pics "
I guess it just means there is no chance of developing a conversation then finding you can't meet because of that...
I was asked to describe what I look like today.
I went with;
Nigella Lawson if she ate doughnuts instead of doing drugs.
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"I wouldn't even get to 3 messages.
That's the basics!"
I agree - but on here I just accept I'm one of MANY options for a woman, so try to be outrageously accommodating and patient. Don't want to pressure anyone into anything they're not comfortable with. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"At least I'm upfront about never sending a face picture.
Yeah if she'd just said that fine, but also she only had one public picture full stop "
Ah no. That would totay be a red flag. At least I shave a decent amount of pictures. |
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"At least I'm upfront about never sending a face picture.
Yeah if she'd just said that fine, but also she only had one public picture full stop
Ah no. That would totay be a red flag. At least I shave a decent amount of pictures. "
Hairy pictures are a real problem  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"At least I'm upfront about never sending a face picture.
Yeah if she'd just said that fine, but also she only had one public picture full stop
Ah no. That would totay be a red flag. At least I shave a decent amount of pictures.
Hairy pictures are a real problem "
Ah ffs |
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Well you know how it is with the message to reply ratio for us guys on here - I guess it's just hard to let go "
I Don't initially message anyone on here.
Sometimes I get messages from people who have read my posts and get in touch for an appropriate reason.
Otherwise, I only normally use the message facility to keep in touch with people I have already met in real life.
That way I don't get upset with the way things are on here. I realised very quickly that, despite expectations, this is nothing like as good a site to 'pull' on as a well known conventional dating site. I only use one of them and it has provided me with plenty of f***s, including several with no face pics!
I've never used Kik etc. if they can't manage with simple talk and text messages, I can't be bothered with them.
if they insist on sending me pictures they can do it via email or not bother. i will read them when I'm good and ready. I don't walk around all day gawping at my smartphone apps, except to double check what plane flew over me!
All other messages can wait until I get home to a decent sized screen and proper keyboard. |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning
LOOOL that aint a time waster thats a guy pretending hes the woman of your dreams for kicks, as soon as you start asking for credentials the normal excuses come out such as not letting them send photos blah blah blah if you cant provide one photo from your smart phone in 2021 you are deffo hiding something"
Haha 100%!! |
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Straight delete to anyone who won’t send a face pic on here.
I see no logical reason for it when you can attach straight from phone and your face will most definitely be on the internet somewhere lol. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Straight delete to anyone who won’t send a face pic on here.
I see no logical reason for it when you can attach straight from phone and your face will most definitely be on the internet somewhere lol. "
My face is sure.
On professional posts, on things connected with family.
Do I want it screen shotting on a website for swinging. With my username captured (which is the same username for fet events) when I have a morality clause in my contract.
HELL NO.
If you have no reason to hide your face great. But other people do. I point you to Pay Vs United Kingdom at the ECHR
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"I wouldn't even get to 3 messages.
That's the basics!
I agree - but on here I just accept I'm one of MANY options for a woman, so try to be outrageously accommodating and patient. Don't want to pressure anyone into anything they're not comfortable with."
You really don't need to be! Fairs fair. Better than all that exchange and then not being attracted. Or not getting even getting a pic. |
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"Straight delete to anyone who won’t send a face pic on here.
I see no logical reason for it when you can attach straight from phone and your face will most definitely be on the internet somewhere lol.
My face is sure.
On professional posts, on things connected with family.
Do I want it screen shotting on a website for swinging. With my username captured (which is the same username for fet events) when I have a morality clause in my contract.
HELL NO.
If you have no reason to hide your face great. But other people do. I point you to Pay Vs United Kingdom at the ECHR
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I’m a lawyer I know it well.
However if it’s just a face, the same face pic which is out there anyway, there’s no proof it’s you .
If your face is out there, professionally and family, it easily could be being used on here by someone else anyway. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I’m a lawyer I know it well.
However if it’s just a face, the same face pic which is out there anyway, there’s no proof it’s you .
If your face is out there, professionally and family, it easily could be being used on here by someone else anyway. "
Then I'm stunned. I don't know anyone in the profession who would be so open and honest about it. Especially if they are involved in BDSM or know Mr Pay.
I'd much rather work to prove someone claiming to be me isn't, than try to prove a lie of 'but that's not me guv' when it is. |
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"When someone is weird about sending you a face picture, even after over 100 messages back and forth, and then can't chat in Kik because it keeps 'crashing', realise they're a time waster BEFORE they randomly just block you without warning "
Tip, don’t take 100 messages to work that out |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"At least I'm upfront about never sending a face picture.
Anyone elses kik an arse with notifications? Doesn't let me know half of the time I have messages. Proper irritating. "
I deleted it it’s pretty rubbish. |
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"That’s a lot of messages. I find most tire at about 10 lol"
Not long messages as it was just a back and forth chat, but yes...
Apparently eeeeveryone thinks this was obvious apart from me. Whoops |
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