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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all

Any advice or helpful info? No horror stories thank you!!

Aiming to have a vasectomy (might be a delay on the NHS atm).

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By *ockgit64Man  over a year ago

Poulton le Fylde, Lancs.

I had mine done about 30 years ago, never had any issues. Being married at the time it was the easier of the 2 options as we didn't want any more kids and she didn't want to be on the pill, plus sterilisation for her would be a stay in hospital where the vasectomy was done in under an hour.

Be absolutely sure it's what you want, I've heard nightmares about trying to get it reversed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Make sure it is what you want. I had to have two doctors approve mine to be done. Reverse is painful and not always successful.

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By *amb_ManMan  over a year ago

Peterborough

I had mine done a few years ago and never looked back.

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

It was fine.

Most of the horror stories you hear are from the old scalpel method that I think is still common in America, but not here.

Now is like key hole surgery. They make a tiny incision, they basically burn the vas tube together. Takes moments and breaks quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had mine done about 30 years ago, never had any issues. Being married at the time it was the easier of the 2 options as we didn't want any more kids and she didn't want to be on the pill, plus sterilisation for her would be a stay in hospital where the vasectomy was done in under an hour.

Be absolutely sure it's what you want, I've heard nightmares about trying to get it reversed."

I am in this situation ,also thinking about getting circumcised at the same time .

Any advice is helpful

Sanj x

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By *olymalelincsMan  over a year ago

southend

If you are sure it's what you want th3n I say go for it had mine done about 10-12 years ago with no issues after and it's honestly one of the best decisions I have ever made, no stitches, no scar and no little swimmers causing trouble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was fine.

Most of the horror stories you hear are from the old scalpel method that I think is still common in America, but not here.

Now is like key hole surgery. They make a tiny incision, they basically burn the vas tube together. Takes moments and breaks quickly. "

Or you could be unlucky like I was.

Key hole method, 2nd vas tube was very tight and at the back, hard to get hold of, anaesthetic started to wear off while he was routing about inside my nut sack.

Ended up with an infection in my ball bag and it was the size of a coconut for a week.

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By *inkyisfunukMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

No regrets here, was a bit sore for a couple of days but that’s it. If you’re 100% sure it’s what you want then go for it.

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By *heNYCSausageMan  over a year ago

Everton


"Hi all

Any advice or helpful info? No horror stories thank you!!

Aiming to have a vasectomy (might be a delay on the NHS atm)."

I’m had mine when we were still pregnant with our youngest (7 years ago).

It was the most surreal thing ever. I’m lying there, two nurses at the bottom and one by my head.

I could see a reflection (slightly distorted) of what they were doing. I could feel them tugging away down there but wasn’t painful. The nurse at my side was nice to talk to. We spoke about mobile phones

Make sure you get time away from kids etc. My daughter jumped on me and caused a lot of pain for a few days afterwards.

No regrets though, definitely one of the the best decisions I’ve made.

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By *ranfondoMan  over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Pretty straight forward op...had mine done 20 yrs ago...how time flies.. I echo what other say about the recovery and is it want you want.... all the goodness and no worries from swimmers... Good lick

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby


"I had mine done about 30 years ago, never had any issues. Being married at the time it was the easier of the 2 options as we didn't want any more kids and she didn't want to be on the pill, plus sterilisation for her would be a stay in hospital where the vasectomy was done in under an hour.

Be absolutely sure it's what you want, I've heard nightmares about trying to get it reversed.

I am in this situation ,also thinking about getting circumcised at the same time .

Any advice is helpful

Sanj x"

I've had both as an adult and all I will tell you is get them done separately, the circumcision is quite tough the first few days as morning glory is an issue (Split stitches) so to have that and potential complications with a vasectomy as well is just not worth contemplating.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Go Google a video

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By * Sophie xTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby

Had my vasectomy about 14 years ago, a very quick simple procedure at a local doctors surgery who could do it and no recovery issues at all.

Its quite comical looking up and seeing smoke coming from your balls while you have a conversation with the nurse who is on hand

Its pretty much pain free, you do feel the first needle go in buy that's it and it's only a slight thing, anything done at the dentist is a lot worse.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Take a babies nappy with you.

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick


"It was fine.

Most of the horror stories you hear are from the old scalpel method that I think is still common in America, but not here.

Now is like key hole surgery. They make a tiny incision, they basically burn the vas tube together. Takes moments and breaks quickly. "

Breaks? Obviously I meant heals! Silly autocorrect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mr had his done in March and he was absolutely fine, no horror stories to tell. He had the one which you don’t have stitches with x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I went private about 8 years ago, cost about a grand. Was knocked out for it, don't need to be seeing someone rummaging around inside my satchel thank you very much.

Tender for a couple of days but the cool packs helped.

I don't seem to be chasing the postman or barking out the window as much anymore, so it must have worked...

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By *moothshaftMan  over a year ago

Coventry

Right, I had the snip 23 years ago after my divorce. I then met my now wife a few months later who was 13 years younger. She wanted more children.......oops!

So I sold my motorbike to pay for a private reversal as they don't do it on the NHS.

I was put under a general, and it all went well and worked perfectly.

Just make sure it's definitely what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right, I had the snip 23 years ago after my divorce. I then met my now wife a few months later who was 13 years younger. She wanted more children.......oops!

So I sold my motorbike to pay for a private reversal as they don't do it on the NHS.

I was put under a general, and it all went well and worked perfectly.

Just make sure it's definitely what you want! "

Man that's awful. Your motorbike you say??

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By *moothshaftMan  over a year ago

Coventry


"Right, I had the snip 23 years ago after my divorce. I then met my now wife a few months later who was 13 years younger. She wanted more children.......oops!

So I sold my motorbike to pay for a private reversal as they don't do it on the NHS.

I was put under a general, and it all went well and worked perfectly.

Just make sure it's definitely what you want!

Man that's awful. Your motorbike you say?? "

......Yeah my lovely CBR600!!! Lol.

It's ok though, I've got 2 now!

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By *orkshrCplCouple  over a year ago

Ripon

Hubby had it after our second. Bit sore for a few days but still thinks it's one of the best things he ever did x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had it done a few years ago. No issues except a slight loss in the amount of cum, which isn't that noticeable if we have lots of foreplay.

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Hi all

Any advice or helpful info? No horror stories thank you!!

Aiming to have a vasectomy (might be a delay on the NHS atm)."

I know i heard the NHS has to borrow the bacon slicer form the local supermarket.

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By *incsfun42Man  over a year ago

Lincoln

Make sure it's what you really want, it's a painful, expensive procedure, about £3000 to be reversed. I had mine done 5 years ago, pretty quick and done at a local doctors and no issues then or since. All good mate

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley


"I had mine done a few years ago and never looked back. "

Got mine done after I divorced because I wanted to have fun and didn't want paternity orders coming my way.

No risk of me ever wanting to reverse it. I worked with other people's children and wanted a quiet home life!

I've had no children I've been told about and certainly none since having the snip!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Make sure it is what you want. I had to have two doctors approve mine to be done. Reverse is painful and not always successful. "

Reverse was not painful at all

Just paying the £2670 hurt a bit but worked straight away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all

Any advice or helpful info? No horror stories thank you!!

Aiming to have a vasectomy (might be a delay on the NHS atm)."

Slight discomfort for a day but it’s a simple job under local

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had mine done 20 years ago just don't make any quick moves for a cple hours after the op

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By *i-guy1966Man  over a year ago

Gravesend

Had mine done about 25 years ago. Apart from the stubble rash it was fine

If you're sure it's what you want go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Make sure it is what you want. I had to have two doctors approve mine to be done. Reverse is painful and not always successful.

Reverse was not painful at all

Just paying the £2670 hurt a bit but worked straight away "

I'm in the position of wanting a reversal (complicated reasons) where did you have yours for that price?

7 years since my vasectomy and it didn't hurt at all but like most posters are saying you need to be absolutely sure it's what you want to do..

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By *antsanddorsetMan  over a year ago

southampton

when its done they give you some pain killers for the next 24hrs. they are eagre to point out you should take these regularly and dont wait for them to wear off before taking the next batch. they are correct. take them exactly and do not deviate from instructions. otherwise.. well lets just say it hurts..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All was good with mine, quick, painless, I was driving a digger in the afternoon and played a first team league rugby match at the weekend. Thankfully I didn't get any knocks.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Would rather deepthroat a cheese-grater than have that done

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Had mine done few years ago no pain at all and had a nice bj the next day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny I literally got Done on Friday I was in and out in 30mins literally no messing about because of covid I had to go in alone and the Mrs waited in the car I came out that quick she thought Id chickened out and was going to send me back in..but no complications it was abit tender at first but honestly best thing I've done it's healing up well just as people have said make sure it's 100% what you want

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I had it soldered a few years ago...

Literally seen the Spaghetti smokin

Advised not to have sex for 48 hrs..

2 hrs later I was balls deep

Still alive too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Make sure it is what you want. I had to have two doctors approve mine to be done. Reverse is painful and not always successful.

Reverse was not painful at all

Just paying the £2670 hurt a bit but worked straight away

I'm in the position of wanting a reversal (complicated reasons) where did you have yours for that price?

7 years since my vasectomy and it didn't hurt at all but like most posters are saying you need to be absolutely sure it's what you want to do.. "

Spire hospital in hull

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

Not much to say really. It's not a pleasant procedure but it was OK. I'm very pleased I had it done. Luke

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